I hope this will help you guys... It's my version so if you disagree with anything thats fine. We all have our own opinions but all of these a true from my point of view.

1. Be yourself
I can't tell you how many guys I've seen acting one way around their friends and a completely different (fake) way around a girl. False sincerity is easily spotted so act naturally.

2. Treat her like a girlfriend
This means treat her differently than your friends. She not just a friend, she's your girl. She should feel special.

3. Be a "sweetie" lol
Complement but only when you mean it. Never let an oppertunity to tell her how special she is go bye.

4. DON'T forget important dates
Remember her birthday or an anniversary. It may not seem important to you but it will be very important to the girl.

5. Don't keep secrets
Be honest with her. Tell the truth especially if she asks you about something. Confide in her.

6. Don't cheat
Guys hate it; girls hate it. Don't do it. We always find out.

7. Gifts are welcome
Girls like presents. If you don't have the money, make something meaningful. You don't need money to give gifts. (but jewelry never hurts)

8. Treat her friends with respect
Enough said. Don't be rude to her friends. Treat them with respect even if you don't like them.

9. Always stick up for her
It's your job to be on her side. Stick up for her even if it's against your own friends. If they're rude to her, tell them to stop.

10. Be affectionate
Hugs & kisses are great... just don't over do it. No wet drooly kisses. This will most definitly gross her out. And if she ever says stop, then stop. You have to listen to what she says not what you want.

-prints out and passes to guy friends-

not guy will ever do that.

after reading this...
i will feel spoiled by a boyfriend. tee hee.

i thought this was common sense, but apparently not. *sigh*

so completely true. why doesn't anyone follow these things outside of our dreams? *sigh*

Oh so true.
Nice way of putting it all.
And of course, I think most of that goes for guys too.

thank you Captain Obvious . [/sarcasm]

good intentions, correct info, useless - common knowledge weak information .

hrm...pro and con ... *apologizes for being an ass*

YES! ONE GUY WHO KNOWS THAT IT'S COMMON SENSE! we need more like him.

i agree with every single one them! no guy has did number 9 though..

im not spoiled by mine...i never ask for nethin...he juss gets me w/e
i dont kare as long as its from him n it was his idea n all...
actually even my guy friends do #9
and #8...or u dont hav to talk to them but if they talk 2 u then be nice..lol

*sigh* if only that guide was reality

yea we defenately need WAAAAYYY more guys like him... but we cant count him cuz he's elba's

Why do all you gurls give these guides when no one asked for help

thats what momma tought me

haha true

i probably wounldn't have to do #9 because my friends are jackass's anyway i always do those things

does what emo boy does, and prints off about 500 copies for his friends.

*shurgs* I already got a gf so I don't have to worry haha :P

I dun really get #1 and 2, dere been girls telling me to be myself around dem, but if ur gonna treat her diffrently from ur guys friends, then how can u at the same time act the same around her and ur guy friends? So confusing.

This is called 'manners.' You should be doing these automatically.

i think 6. Don't cheat is very important, although we all kno that, so many ppl still like to make the same mistakes over and over

wow...

you mean guys dont do this daily?

holy hell u girls have some messed up bfs if they dont follow this stuff..llo no offence but seriously.

i always act myself around my girl cause i feel most comfortable around her! she likes me for me so i do jus that, i be me.

The "treat her like a gf" thing is pretty obvious..girls arent objects of satasfaction to be used when u need the, and they arent just a friend. they are a person yes, but some one super special to yas and they should be treated differently! jeez!

number 3 is pretty damn easy, i probably pay 2 many complimints, but she doesnt mind..she loves everyone of them ;)

I dont forget important dates, they are the playoffs, tv show times, pr0n times, and of course her....hehe

I dont hide many thing from my girlfriend, if she asks me i'll tell her unless its a really big family secret, like our secret bbq sauce!

cheating..sure i do it all the time, how do u think i've beaten every ff game :D
but yeah..cheating on a gf is just wrong, i dont see why guys do it, if they dont like the girl dont cheat on them, let them go easy and let them hurt for only a little while..its better then cheating and crushing her for a long time.

gifts and friends are hardrr...im not rich, and my gf's friends are bitches..seriously..obnoxious and all, but im nice to them..

sticking up for my gf is something i gotta do like everyday cause of her past, but its funny talking down to littler poeple then me..i actually got into a fight with this tall kid once..damn white kids hit hard but i kick low

being afectionate..is..well..for us..something special..we do it in secret and its always in the sweetest moments. Watching movies together..walking along the shore, sitting down together..staring into each others eyes..eeys locking, mucles tensing, lips puckering..yeah..so..so..special...

i love my gf..and im glad i have her and i treat her with respect and all that, any guy who doesnt treat his girl good is a plain dumbass

all of those r so true...i dont want a b/f if he's not gonna do any of that stuff....lol

oh so true

may I amend an addition to the rules?

11.) Talk

i knew that =]

number ten rhymes, wow. nice guide. love it, thanks.

I agree with all of those, and that girl that said that no1 would listen to that and follow those directions, think again...

the great part about it is my bf pretty much follows all of these rules!!

How does it rhyme?

Lol, number four. If you don't remember, you're completely screwed.

Ok so where can you find a guy who can do all of the listed... cuz maybe no guys like that live in nYc

yeah what you said are so TRUE! that's all in my mind right now too. i hope my crush is like that too

i agree with this stuff, but its the obvious stuff...

those are so true.

because y'all need it

*clap clap* great guidelines, now all we need to do is get the guys to follow it. lol, i'm sure some of you are sweeties like that all the time.

Shouldn't generalize. I know several of us that do all of those regardless.