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jennyjenny
Would you ever go out with someone who was a loser? but he was cute, but everyone else in the school would make fun of him... and what if he asked you out? and yes, you liked them.

You know, my friend asked me to this dance in 5th grade. Everyone thought he was a loser and he was so weird. But to tell you the truth, he was really nice.

And he would always get made fun of by other students whenever he goes out with someone... but the girls he goes out with aren't the popularest people. And he always has to lie about them going out...

And I think it's stupid...

Cause the people I like aren't the people who are reallllyy popular and whenver i say that I like them, people are all "omg u like ______??? eww..."

yeah..
smile4me
i dunno...ppl over here aren't really made fun of. i guess we're nice ppl? heh..
inthemudhole
I would go out with a ""nerd"" or a ""social outcast"" or whatever you prefer to call those people.
I am one, myself.
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heyyfrankie
i really wouldn't care. because i don't care what people think of me or of other people. the only thing that matters is what you think. happy.gif
Shattered_Hope
if u liked him....who cares what other people would think???
xheavenzcentzx
Well.. I'd look at it as... My happiness... over my ego.. hmmmmm ermm.gif

If you can be happy with someone then i think there shouldn't be a problem pinch.gif
racegirl24A
Id rather go out with a loser than someone that was popular. My first bf was a loser at the time, not many people liked him..then after we broke up he started losing weight and suddenly everyone loves him. Im glad I went out with him when I did instead of now. I liked his attitude a lot better back then.
christiee_nax
pssht. stupid high school stuffs. seriously i think its stupid. it wont matter after high school anyways.
LittleLulu
ohh ...i used to secretly like this NERD... he was the KING OF NERDS.. he wore glasses n carried a huge backpack wherever he goes...he was tall...n he was from india...n he was jus an all around NERD>..u knoe ... hanging out wit the nerdish ppl...but i reli liked him.. except i never said n e thing..but if he liked me.. i wudn't care if all those popular bitch ass sluts called him a nerd...i'd go out with him in a heartbeat...

but thats all in the past n we're still friends.. we see each other in all the honors classes..(yes im a smartass too)..but i have a bf now so yea......
LiNHy POO
i've dated a "loser"... and he was really great to talk too. problem was he was too shy! but its really shallow how some people go with a "class".
stephinika
yeah i would. if i truly liked the guy, then yeah for sure. if i didn't want to for that reason, i obviously don't like him enough. simple.
happygoluckyng
this is sooo fu<king shallow of me but...I don't think I would ever go out with a loser....omg...I"m soo mean...god...lol...everyone I like is sooo f**king sexy!!!
xquizit
A "popular" guy went out with me once when I was in high school. Of course it didn't last long..

His loss. _dry.gif

As for me, I really don't care about labels. I would date anyone who I find to be interesting and attractive.
pbear
i definitely would, if i liked the guy.
i'm a wallflower myself. mellow.gif
maia_dc
QUOTE(LittleLulu @ Oct 27 2004, 5:49 PM)
ohh ...i used to secretly like this NERD... he was the KING OF NERDS.. he wore glasses n carried a huge backpack wherever he goes...he was tall...n he was from india...n he was jus an all around NERD>..u knoe ... hanging out wit the nerdish ppl...but i reli liked him.. except i never said n e thing..but if he liked me.. i wudn't care if all those popular bitch ass sluts called him a nerd...i'd go out with him in a heartbeat...

Omigosh, he seems so cute... seriously.
Lol, just the way you put all that cracked me up, too...

As for popularity... Hm, I once really liked this popular guy. Erm, he was just a big, stupid, FLIRT. Damn him, screwing up my ego like that... *mutters* -_-

So bring on the nerds! >]
redpeony
i say yes, as long as he opens up a lot to me and i get to see this whole other side of him and he's interesting and awesome.
whomps
Shoot if he was cute and nice, and my type of guy, then he's mine.
No one can stop me. _smile.gif
sammi rules you
QUOTE(x_angawhomps @ Oct 28 2004, 12:54 AM)
Shoot if he was cute and nice, and my type of guy, then he's mine.
No one can stop me. _smile.gif

*nods*

i wouldn't not like someone if they weren't popular. trust me, i've liked some pretty non-popular people and got riticuled for it.
DrEaMgUy2K1
Sure , if they are attractive in a way that i feel i should give em a chance, sure....

Btw , Attractive means more than looks ok.

But eh, if they dont fit my type of person i'de like to date, nope
Weird addiction
i dont really care as long as he's cute!!
someflipguy
I wouldn't really care if they were popular or not!
Saeglopur
God, tell those people in your school that they are so dense. mad.gif

See people go out with other people just because they want the title. pinch.gif It's so stupid. I actually wouldn't mind. mellow.gif
AsianUniQ
i think popular peolpe are fake sometimes, because they have to do certain things to remain popular..........but from the inside, popular people are no different from regular peoples( ex. losers, nerds). If you are cool with it, then its ok for you to like someone, anyone, becuase you took the time to know the person, not ur freinds. hwo would ur freind feels if other people make fun of them? Wouldn't they be glad to have YOU on their side as well?
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