Yea, i think it's even illegal if u have sex w/ somebody under the age of 18 and ur over 18 years old....?

Some people are blaming this on the school's teachings though. Lots of kids don't use protection when they have sex because the school teaches kids abstidence and don't teach them bout STDs and stuffz. Apparently 50% of people 15-20 have STD or sumthing like that. *gulps* That's scary...!

I don't really think it's the school's fault...I mostly think it's the parent's fault. Most parents dont' really what their kids do and don't teach them the right ways. Like me, my mom has taught me stuff like that...well not really but she has taught me to have good morals and I have derived those morals from her teachings. It sucks how the blame goes to the school but then once again, it's the parent's fault. Hehe...but that's my opinion. I've been brought up to respect my body and not do stupid things so yeah, props to my parents bye!

if you have strong feelings for someone and decide to have sexual intercourse before marriage i think it's perfectly fine. it's a beautiful thing when shared with someone you love very much. sometimes watiing for marriage has it's consequences.. to be blunt .. what if the person you marry absolutely sucks in bed? there'd be one very unhappy camper..agreed? lol ;]

You don't marry someone because they are good in bed. I know that's not what you are saying, but as for myself, I wouldn't really mind if my partner "sucked" in bed. Frankly, I'd prefer if it was her first time, too. But that's just me..

Ahh..that's so sweet. That's how all guys should think , in my opinion.

awww hehe i think that's very sweet .. and true, if anything it can be worked upon after marriage .. and yes it would be much more meaningful if you know you were their first and ONE AND ONLY =] ..

i voted that it's okay but that's really a personal thing. i lost my virginity when i was 14. i COMPLETELY respect those who wait till they're married. if i had to do it over that's what i'd do. all sex brings is complications. lol. those who practice abstinence are very strong-willed people that i look up to. i don't look down on those who aren't virgins. and i don't look down on those who are. i'm really kind of neutral on this...

ur tellin me...

my older brother died when i was 14 and i was really upset and kind of went a little...well...---> and i had sex cuz i thought it'd make me feel better. if i had to do it over i wouldn't have done it but...you shouldn't dwell on the past.

how the heck do you become a born again virgin? not to flame you or anything cause I would never do things like that, but I just wanna know.

well, she's obviously gone through the consequences and decided that she doesn't want to have sex again before marriage. she didn't mean it literally

There were many other options as well.. but yeah, you shouldn't dwell on the past.

Hmm...I said yeah, but I feel that a person should really think about what their doing before they make their final decision on it. As for me, I'm still a virgin, and I'm just waiting for "the one" if there is such a person...and yeah...it really comes down to the person. A lot of people aren't mature until their actually married and are ready for it, but there are people that can handle this and know/understand the consequences they'd face in doing so. Like I said, it really depends on the person...I dunno that's my opinion, at least.

I say it is wrong because a lot of time when premarital sex occurs without the proper protection something totally unexpected thing happens. something you may not want to happen. You may not be ready. When you are married you should know you are ready. You shouldn't be doing something that you know will cause something you would not know how to handle. So i say premarital sex is a no no.

I don't know.. I guess it depends on the person's situation. There are a ton of feelings that come along with having sex.. but I'm not sure if I'd be able to marry someone I have never been that close to.

it's easier said than done .. i have to admit when i was younger i'd constantly say i wanted to save it for the man i marry. however the temptation is very hard to overcome at times .. when you have strong feelings for someone you've been dating for a very long time it can just happen .. and i feel it's perfectly okay .. as long as you don't throw yourself around to everybody it isn't bad and it's a special and wonderful thing to share with someone you really care about ..

I know...it's hard to resist temptations but then I still want to be strong and resist them. Just trying to find that special guy is what I'm waiting for...

i say no

if the person loves u enough, he/she would have the patience to wait until marriage...

only then will you TRULY know he/she will wait the time for you


and also cuz u dunno if they have any STDs or anything...



just make the right choice of partner and be careful with your choices.... i mean, if anyone decides to do it....

aww i agree

im christion...but it still sorta depends to me.
you jjust gotta ask...
is it love?
I would do it if I was in love, before or after marrige.
But dont forget guys, SAFE SEX ;]

What age do you think it's too young to have sex? (and don't say until the age you're married=\)

age of sexual consent in england is 16. In the States, it varies from about 16 to about 18 depending on the state. that's the law, so I guess you stick with it unless you want to break it

exactly how i feel...

well people really shouldent.. but since people still are gunna. and u cant help it, i guess people think it is ok to do it.. but rilly it aint. and then ur stuck wiff a kid when ur onlee 15 or 17... now how are u gunna pay for dat ?

probably when your old enough to face the possible consequences....

wow what a hot hot hot topic. lol. neways. i think that its a personal decision, and some ppl rush into it. it should not be taken lighty, but i dun think that waiting till mariaage is always the best idea

once your older brother has been burned to death at the age of 18 when you're only 14 and in 8th grade, then maybe i'll listen to your comments...

Too bad I'm past 14 already, and I don't have an older brother.

exactly my point...

im really glad most of you guys realize what God wants you to do and why He wants you to live your life that way! awesome guys!

Too bad you didn't get my point.

I'm a Christian and as all you people know, it's against the Bible to have sex before marriage. Well I would say that God would know if premarital sex were good or bad.

There are so many consequenses to having sex before marriage like AIDs, STDs, Pregnancy, etc.

Your friends, and people you know could even start thinking about you differently. And how do you know that this person isn't just trying to take advantage of you? And if you get pressured by them, why would you have sex with them in the first place?

And if you're aware of all of these things, why WOULD you still have sex before marriage. I strongly believe in saving your virginity to the one and only whom you truly love.

I agree with everything you said, but you can still get AIDS, STDs, etc after having sex after marriage.

yes, but you'll have someone there with you... wont you?

But that doesn't mean just because you get AIDs, STDs or whatever from having permarital sex, that they'll leave you. That's not always the case.

Yea true, but there's more of a chance that ur spouse would tell you about such things(if they know they have it) then a stranger would...

no i did. you were saying that there were many other ways to deal with my brother's death then sex. but what i was saying was that's easy for you to say since you haven't been through it. don't get me wrong. i do believe it was the wrong thing to do and i could have done something else but i had already typed that. all you did was restate something that i already admitted that i knew. as if you were judging me or something. i hope you never have to experience that... next time just try to put yourself in others' shoes and remember that if you haven't experienced it "personally" then you really have no grounds to tell them what they "should" or "should not" have done...

i believe in abstinence

wth is premlalniebailnt sex?

i say no. if you wait till your married then it'll be special and worth something. not just like a fling or and action based on a fickle crush~ i guess its highest gift that you can give to your spouse to be ^^ LOL~

I say its ok, but not smart: getting a girl pregnant is not a good thing before marrige, and STDS are pretty prelevant today

But im not one to judge if one has sex before marrige

If they want to do that then yea

If you know what you're getting yourself into and you are comfortable with it and are WARE of the risks, then it's okay. It's a freedom of choice, and if one gets pregnant by having sex with someone, its their own fault for doing it in the first place. It's better to wait because you don't want to give it away to someone you don't love. I know people who really regretted doing it O_o"

you mean premartial sex? its sex before you get married.

I dont believe in sex b4 marriage cuz u shouldnt give up ur virginity to someone who isnt the right one for u

I believe in it... your choice...

i think sex is overrated.

hmm personally i think no.

I'm an atheist, but even I believe that intercourse should wait until after marriage. It's only fair to your spouse, that is, if they're still a virgin as well. But either way, I just think it's right to wait.

i'll have sex when i find my perfect mate...my husband

i like spooning..