if you are comfortable with yourself and who you're having sex with and you're safe about it.. having premarital sex is fine. waiting until you're married shouldn't matter.. you may end up getting divorced after your prime and wish you had done it when you had the chance.

Said it in one.

u should test drive the car before you buy it!
i thinks its ok as long as u know u won't regret it

Amen to that!

you took the words right out of my mouth girl! but people still do it...no matter wat the bible says.



soooooooooooooooooooooooooo true!

no, i don't think premarital sex is okay.
it's better if you keep your virginity for that perfect someone.
then, you won't have to worry about regrets...
and it could be perfect.
of course there would be temptation; there always is.
but it helps us to have self-control.

I dont think its okay but i dont think its bad either, people make false promises by saying they will stay virgins until they are married but they end doing it before that.

only some people.

always remember .. everytime u have sex, u give a piece of u... ur soul.... so it isnt good to have sex when you havent celebrated the sacrament of matrimony... sex is lovelier when u share it with your God's-Will.

I don't think pre-maritial sex is alright.

I'm Catholic here, so I'm going to crack out the bibilical-ness terms.

God gave our sexual pleasures so that we can use them for a person whom we deeply love, and marriage is the sacrament that binds two people together to become one. Sure, there are temptations, but sex is a lot more meaningful when it is saved for marriage.

Plus there are bunch of good reasons why people that aren't married shouldn't have sex, such as pregnancies, STDS, etc.

I beliee that if you're going to have sex, you're going to have to be ready for any consequences that come up. I'm not saying childbirth is a bad thing; it's a beautiful thing, but it can be a consequence if you intended not to have a baby.

So in full regard, pre-maritial sex in my book is a no-no; it's a bad thing.

I think I have posted in here before but I will say it again

If you know that you are in real, true love and you trust this person completely and you are ready and willing to have sex, then go ahead. While in some relationships sex may ruin everything, in the strong ones, it doesn't. It made my relationship stronger. I love him even more now.

i believe that sex should be saved for when your married. and if your being pressured then obviously there is something that you and your partner have to work on. cause i dont believe that sex should be forced. it should be something that you both want to do.

Surprised to see so many NOs

I think you should wait until marriage because alot of people in this country throw the word love around, and you can still get STD's even if you use protection, not to mention the fact that after you break up with the person it'll be alot harder to move on.

I'm 21 and still a virgin...go believe that. Im' very proud of myself...I'm very moral and very upbrought and I blame that on the fact that my body treats me well...

I am for waiting until marriage as well.

-Kevyn

well...I said "maybe" because...well...if you know you are going to marry someone it'd be kinda hard to wait woudln't it? . ....hmmm, I dont' really care about the religion thing in the bibble cause, dun dun dun I'm athiest, so that doen'st have any effect on me, either way I'm going to hell (I don't actually beleive that obviusly because there is no heaven or hell, I just say that to make other religious ppl go ) but I think it is important to wait...or at least dont' jsut jump into sex as soon as you start a relationship with someone, wait till it evolves and you know what your'e doing, wait till you're ready

bu tI'm a virgin and 14 so I Guess I dont' really knwo yet waht I Wanna do...I'm jsut not sure...



I should ahve jsut quoted you at the begining, th'ats EXACTLY what IW as trying to say, you just said it better

Suprised? That's the #1 problem this teenage society faces...you have no idea how many girls say "yeah right Kevyn." when i tell them I'm a virgin...and that's sad. It's very sad and depressing to see such a society going down in flames morally.

-Kevyn

well i'm fine with having sex before marriage... it's part of life i think.

Damn straight sex before marriage. Make love not war.

I don't think it is okay.

There are certain exceptions to the rule of premarital sex.

But my main focus is homosexuals.

For those of you that keep up with what's going on in America, there have been great issues on the deal of same-sex marriage. Now, obviously, if it is illegalised in the States, there really is no marriage to look forward to because you are homosexual, and therefore: no sex. Premarital sex on the neutral side.

I think its okay.

i chose who cares. people do it anyway, no matter what others or the bible says. some people just cant put aside their sexual needs till after their marriage.

the fact is sex is good wetha the bible says wait or not....

I voted moo.....just to be silly. *sweatdrops* I would have to agree with some of the people who voted no...but that would make me a hypocrite. Its really a choice to the person giving it up. Yes it is a special thing when you first have it ..but for the girl(s) (like myself and others) the first time always has some pain to go along with it. It kinda makes your "partner" nervous becaue they're trying not to hurt you but also trying to please you at the same time. BUT THE CHOICE IS ULTIMATELY YOURS!!!!!

i'm just neutral i suppose but i guess i would like to save it. but if i am ready i guess it happens but i dont know. but the person i have sex with is the person i know ill love for as long as i can.

Sex is Sex and Sex is good so just wrap it up and ure good to go =D

do you know what premarital sex does to you? are you ready to take on the responsibilities from the consequences out of this? are you? do you know how many babies are put up for adoption because of this? are you willing to give up a life of fun just to raise a baby? do you believe in the Bible and God? when you answer all of these questions then think about it and then decide what to do, because i can't stop you but you can.

like, premarital sex is pretty much the norm in the world of today...and there really is no difference whether or not a couple is married...if they love each other, let 'em show it!

no. God gave sex as a gift to married couples...

I dont plan on having sex before Im married.

But... Whatever happens, happens.

its too common and it happens everyday.
i guess i am neutral too..i mean sex has its good sides and bad. perhaps one more than the other, but its really up to how you value each side.

Ofcouse sex has its concequences, everyone knows. and by making the decision to go ahead and do it you are saying that you are absolutely ready to take ANY possible concequences, kina like how xquizit argued. And when sex gets into a relationship it can complicate things too, like other members hav already said. Trust and all that crap come in. I wouldnt say its the smartest thing to do. However, you can be smart about it, if you are ready and think you are capable of handeling it.

Sex is the opening of new opportunity and of emotional courting. It is a beautiful thing if done for the right purposes. As long as its not inflicting against your own personal or religious morals, i dont think theres too much of a problem, as long as you play it safe.

it is what it is. People do it.

When sex enters my relationships, I prefer to be for emotional reasons.

Sometimes, though, physicality is a wonderful thing.

its depends
some people don't want to get married, so does that mean they can never have sex?
i'm planing on saving myself until i'm married, but at the sametime...i'll do it when i want to
if i'm like 40 and not married...well i'm prolly gonna do it
as long as you really do want to...theres nothing wring with it

Maybe I've been in too many morality and religion classes for my own good, but i am anti premarital sex

no nota not ok

it seems wrong to those who have religions who disapprove of it. i guess it wouldn't really matter as long as you are ready to committ, and in my opinion no it doesnt seem okay.

hmm... no... I'm not in favor... yeah, old-fashioned, but i'm raised that way

I'm not opposed to it. I think sex is fine as long as both parties are responsible. I'm not into casual or promiscuous sex, though, so as long as it is in the confines of a serious relationship, I don't care whether the couple is married or not.

big NO NO ....but then u never know.. but i wish to be strong enuff to stay a virgin till i get married :)

personally, i'd rather wait `till marriage.. it makes me feel more respectable

Ditto on what Michael said.

u know at first i said yes...but now.. i realize..it isnt ok...reading this post has really opened my eyes and im not just saying that
hardly anyone here said it was ok..now i know it isnt, and b4 i couldnt wait to have sex with my gf again bc it feels so good and its like u have a connection.. but u know..thats changed now..and..if she doesnt like it tuff shit u guys helped me realize thnx appreciate it peeps...

no



Even though a person have hiv/aids and not letting other people knowing it?

bleh.. i believe if you want to do it.. then go ahead..

it really shouldnt matter i mean sex is there to be enjoyed yah? its a consetual thing. share love? do it then or of course there is nother option but thats not good for ones consious

totally agree. i'm a born again christian. i dont even believe in high school relationships.

hmm, I donno. For me I might wait till after mariege...I just don't know. But most deffinitly I am waiting till I'm at least 20 before I have sex, and ofcourse I won't do it if I'm nto ready and if I havn't known my bf for at least a year...or at least long enough to know we really love each other. I donno, I guess I'll just see what I want to do when the time comes. But if I wait till marriege than that's great too, I agree with both a little I just donno...

I voted who cares.
If the person wants to have sex before marriage then let them.

praise God.

amen.

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i'm atheist so i'm not into the whole "god" and "you're breaking rules". so many people have gotten knocked up at my hillbilly of a school because they try the pull out method, but if you're ready for intercourse, be my guest. just be ready for the consequences, guilt and regret. coming from your b-r-a-i-n*

*"Once sex comes into the picture, all these problems and trust issues start coming up... it's not worth it... plus it's probably a message from God that you're doing something wrong."

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just wait till college you won't be sticking to those "promises" to yourself. beer is one hell of a difference.