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aznplayaz
im just wondering if you currently have a crush and you talk to him or her alot what do you talk about cause this girl i like me and her we always hang out but never talk about anything i guess its cause me or her can't think of anything to say and i just feel akward well..what do you and your crush/gf/bf talk about?
silver-rain
eh, well, with my crush and ex, we used to talk about school and our classes. and then we would talk about whatever we were interested in. bleh, we never had anything to talk about either, which was one of the reasons we broke up.
ApoKa
Yeah, I have this problem, too. It's so odd.
aznplayaz
QUOTE(ApoKa @ Oct 23 2004, 9:04 PM)
Yeah, I have this problem, too. It's so odd.

yeah you know what it is odd its just so hard cause i can never think of anything to talk about even when i think hard lol
carmi96
talk bout anything hehe point of interest is best, talk bout stuff u both knoe bout liek me n ma old crush used 2 always talk bout football (soccer) hehe coz we both liek it..n then we juss kinda drifted off 2 other random stuff
ApoKa
It seems for me, the harderI think, the more clueless I am. Sometimes, she's in your arms, a little silence isn't bad either.... happy.gif
aznplayaz
yeah i think i that happens to me to well ill try not to think so hard lol
jennyjenny
Well, if it's your crush, you could TRY to lead her on... or you may choose not to..

But if you don't want her to know, just stick to talking about sports, school, people (gossip -cough-), cars, or anything off-topic.

And maybe you can even ask her who she likes currently wink.gif

Good Luck.
LittleLulu
i talk to my "bf"... abt everythin from girl's periods...to basketball to movies.. to gossip around the skewl... to hw... to his friends... to MY friendss.....n its weird.. since we still talk alot......

but w.e...see hes not technecally my "bf"...thats y i have the quotations there...we're jus dating.. but he thinks im his gf _unsure.gif
Auktane
dude honestly if you got a crush on her...have the balls to go up to her but dont say hey, my name is....and i got my eyes on you..blah blah crap....focus your attention on her...talk about school then you guys can go on from there....b/c if you wait too long, she'll moved to another school or been taken...


then ask her if she wants to go to starbucks.... happy.gif
Winter
I talk to my crush about my best friend who has a crush on him a lot. He doesn't know I like him but it's a known fact that my best friend likes him. I'm not doing anything for my benefit, I'm just trying to get them together. Even though I'd feel like dying if they do get together.
Weird addiction
QUOTE(Winter @ Oct 24 2004, 4:18 PM)
I talk to my crush about my best friend who has a crush on him a lot. He doesn't know I like him but it's a known fact that my best friend likes him. I'm not doing anything for my benefit, I'm just trying to get them together. Even though I'd feel like dying if they do get together.

00h dat sucks!!
goofipinay
I talk to my crush about my best friend who has a crush on him a lot. He doesn't know I like him but it's a known fact that my best friend likes him. I'm not doing anything for my benefit, I'm just trying to get them together. Even though I'd feel like dying if they do get together.

^^^^ well does ur best friend kno u like him?

never happened to me..cuz well it was a known fact that i liked some guy (for 3 1/2 yrs!) and my best friend goes along and goes out w/ him...and she knew i practically loved him..

so i hav like the opposite situation from u..
pbear
i talk to my crush online, about everything.
[we don't have classes together this year sad.gif]
stephinika
wow...lemme think...everything and anything? haha well me and my boyfriend talked on the phone before we started going out and then we just talked about whatever the other was interested in really. we learned more about each other. we'd ask what the other person liked and just kinda branch off of there i guess.
mouse_3k
gosh, i wish. I barely know him. He barely knows me. My friends are gunna try to hook me and him up so im depending on them..
Shattered_Hope
music, family, life..any thing that comes to mind.
sheddingtears
i don't really have a crush. there's hot guys there and there but i don't know them enough to really say i have a crush on them. though, there is this one guy in my 5th. he's not necessarily "HOT", but he is something. sweet, nice, and has the cutest eyes you can just gaze in. it's not really a crush...

but he's a very approachable person.


lol i'm not answering your question.

first of all, i also hate the awkward pauses and silence.

well let's see. hm you can start the convo by asking what's the homework for that class and uh go from there. you can talk about each other's days. get to know each other. :]
xj_liana_tx
i swear im n idiot around my crush...
misoshiru
i don't know. i've never found it awkward to talk with a crush before. somehow, i just have something to talk about (:
jnukes
things i bring up


"so what's up?"

"how was your day?" [at night]

"what you doin today?" [during tha day or morning]

*how i'm feeling about something, such as ... mad cause i lost my basketball game*


hmm.. there's a LOT of things i talk about i just can't remember how i bring it all up.. heh
Edele
I'm too chicken sheit to talk to a guy I like.

I'm unable to talk to him. I'm a freak. Uggh.
inthemudhole
I never talk to my crushes..
Well, I talk to 2 of them.. but then there are 2 others I don't talk to.
Yeah, I like a lot of people.

Well, with the ones I like.. we mostly just talk about music, classes, woodshop, grades, instruments, etc.. random things. _smile.gif
*ilalaloveyou<3*
QUOTE(Winter @ Oct 24 2004, 10:18 AM)
I talk to my crush about my best friend who has a crush on him a lot. He doesn't know I like him but it's a known fact that my best friend likes him. I'm not doing anything for my benefit, I'm just trying to get them together. Even though I'd feel like dying if they do get together.

omg i feel the same a$$ way...i hate it soo effin much.

but i guess i want to make him happy....

anywayz back to the topic. try talking to her about her

trust me a girl loves to talk about herself
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royalfreshness
Last time I talked to my crush... I think I said "Hi" to him. Or it was the time he said "Hey uh Hannah, ahora ahora!"


He meant to say come here in spanish XD
wind&fire
"wow you can breathe air too?!?! thats amazing!"
DrEaMgUy2K1
look her into the eye, talk about w/e, but just have the sexy eye contact....haha ><;
RIcEB0IAnTh
QUOTE(xj_liana_tx @ Nov 9 2004, 5:36 PM)
i swear im n idiot around my crush...

me too, everytme when I wanna talk to her I swear I planned the whoe thing out, but when shes in front of me, I just froze and start saying stupid things, so now Im too afraid to talk to her.
sweetbaby109
haha me and my crush just flirt...and he likes me but i'm not so sure anymore cuz one of my friends told me that he doesn't like me anymore and that he likes one of my friends..but I dont think thats true because everytime we see each other we always stare at each other..and yes i do like him too lol laugh.gif
vehvih
Find your voice <-What the hell does that mean? pinch.gif That was an advice that was given to me by someone.

I'm an ass around my crush mellow.gif The end. pinch.gif
Justingamemaster
Aha I talk to my crush for hours and hours...about...stuff?

Haha yesterday we were talking all freaking day. Either on the phone, or when someone had to use it, on AIM, then like 10 minutes later back on the phone. The fiasco ended at 1:00 in the morning.

At school I sometimes walk her to her next class, and we talk about..fawken i cannot remember anything we talk about laugh.gif But it's really fun. I'm not sure, but she might like me, but i am crazy in love with her _smile.gif
Knight
QUOTE(aznplayaz @ Oct 23 2004, 8:54 PM)
im just wondering if you currently have a crush and you talk to him or her alot what do you talk about cause this girl i like me and her we always hang out but never talk about anything i guess its cause me or her can't think of anything to say and i just feel akward well..what do you and your crush/gf/bf talk about?

She's not my girlfriend (though I wish she was), but we still manage to talk A LOT to each other. She has no idea I like her. We'll talk about anything that comes to mind. I was talking with her 3 hours yesterday. Just talk about your interests and perhaps tell her some stuff about yourself (don't brag)
xheavenzcentzx
I'm a complete idiot around my crush happy.gif

I try to find out what things he likes and go from there happy.gif
Nicolatofu
Hmm... well i just kinda talk to him about the class we have together, or random stuff. It's kinda hard to come up with a topic. Usually i jus act hyper and say a ton of random stuff. But he can be like that too so its all good
kiSHBall
i know what u mean .. its hard to make conversation with somene u like sometimes pinch.gif but what i've learned, is try ur HARDEST not to think when u talk
just say whatever comes to mind
like how u chat with ur buddies happy.gif
Justingamemaster
Haha whenever i think hard and talk to her...I can't say anything! haha but when i don't we talk for hours and hours and hours and hours and hours. biggrin.gif
Smartguy10892
Well...I made friends with my crush. We talk about the regular stuff, skool, friends, (her bf...grr...). She knows I like her, but she doesn't really care. We are still good friends.

ps I was friends with her for 2 months befor I told her I liked her...but she had a bf by then...grr...
xolilsmileeox
yeah i kno what u mean! i hate it wen ur stuck over sumthing to talk about....really sucks ass. just say wut is on ur mind. like if ur thinking about sumthing coming up...say it. just go with the flow and wing it! happy.gif
IamNoBody
:::twitches::: i don't talk to my crush...me and my friend kind of stalk him.... pinch.gif pinch.gif ::sighs:: it's rather pathetic though....
xheavenzcentzx
Find common interests happy.gif

Try to get to know them better _smile.gif
miss barnes
around my crush, i cant even describe it since he knows i like him but he gave me his number today and he called me and its really weird cuz i know him, but i dont KNOW him to be having lots to talk about and he always be telling me to write him, but i got shit to say
sandra
my bf and i talk about everything.... stupid things and about ourselves like how was school.
simplyannoy
happy.gif I get this a lot sometimes from my friends! LOL xD Well... DO NOT TALK aBOUT THE WEATHER! please... that is properly the lamest method to start a conver. ! especially with your crush! ohmy.gif So start talking about common interests? or talk about recent news; movies, classes, events whatever you can think of!
ANG33ZY
I have a crush. i'm so hyper around him .. most of the time.
Shattered_Hope
talked about anything...
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