Alright, so most of the "regulars" read my post about the confusing relationship. Well after the week of silence between the two of us, today he IMs me and asks me "When you call me, are you calling for a specific reason or just to chat" ....'cause yes I'll admit I've tried calling him a couple times. So I answered his question and that started this long conversation about how we can't keep pushing ourselves further apart unless we plan on just forgetting about this "relationship" all together.

Then I have his ticket to this haunted house we never went to...I have mine and his...and we paid for our own but I wanted to know if I could use it 'cause well I know we aren't going to see each other for awhile, if ever again. I knew he'd get mad and say something about wasting money and he did of course...but then he says "Why don't you just go with luis"....who happens to be my best friend, and someone I think he'e REALLY jealous of. So I said I didn't want to go with him, then after some more arguing, he tells me "I dont care what you do, just go with Bobby and you can give him head again"......

That right there set me off 'cause THAT is the whole reason we were fighting from the start....'cause I "cheated" on someone I wasn't in a relationship with...wtf? Yeah. So I tell him that this friendship/relationship is considered OVER...and that he's an a$$hole for saying that. Then...he tells me I'm in the wrong and I tell him he needs to stop acting like a little b*tch and grow the hell up. Then he says something about he wishes eternal happiness for me and he's sorry he said that.... Whatever....we ended that fight and that was it...We aren't talking anymore or hanging out and he says that's what's best "for now"....for now? Who says I'm gonna be here later? Anyway...what y'all think? I love him A LOT still...it hurt for me to call him names and tell him off, but it needed to be done...how can I get over this? Sorry its' so long.

wait a while and both of u cool off.... mabe he is going through some changes and he doesnt kno how to control them..... just let him chill and dont talk to him.... he will prolly come back to u and will try to work out the relationship again..... just try to do sumthing that is fun for u so that u dont miss him that much... this always happens to couples.....dont worry

oh my gosh, i'm sorry... it sounds so dramatic. wow.... <=]
however, i honestly think maybe you should, like you said, consider your relationship over. after all, relationships ARE based on trust, and it doesn't seem like there is much of that here. after all, he does seem (from what i've read) like the jealous type. do you really want to be with a guy who will dump you for having a friendship with another guy? think on it... =]
good luck!
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ok you wrote a lot
well try to throw your love away you two sound like you should have never gone out cause you two are so over... you need to move on and find someone you can get along with.. he was obviously the wrong guy for u

/= maybe ur boytoy is just upset about the fact that youu supposedly "cheated" on him- maybe he's still not over it, i guess he's just trying to protect you and like tell people your "off limits" even though you really dont belong to anyone. if u seriously L0VE him like you say you do, its going to be hard getting over, i think you should try to talk to him instead.

#1 u write about him as if u love him

#2 gave some guy head while u 2 were having a thing rite

How can u say u love him if u guys never went out, when u guys arent even talkin to each other,and u dare get with someone else when u both were having a thing.......i dont even understand ur topic... so he calls u a slut and u arent his friend anymore, and u love him. ok....?

it'll take time but you both need to cool off... and maybe the little time that you spend apart will bring you back togehteR?

If you really want to piss him off, go with Bobby. It will make things easier for the both of you. If I were you, I'd go with Bobby.

g owith bobby!!! lol, wow, but in the end..you hav to make the choice...