so today i was sitting there with my boyfriend and we were cuddling and such while waiting for rehearsal to start. his head was resting on mine and like his lips were like right there..i was SO close to kissing him..but i thought of an everwood episode where ephram was mad cause he didn't get to say "i love you" first to amy, so i didn't wanna like..distort the normal order..

so, do you think it's ok for girls to do things first instead of the guys?

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I don't think it's bad. Heck, I've initiated sex, so what's the harm of initiating a kiss?

of course it's ok for girls to initiate things. some guys think it's kind of a turn on. =]

Yeah.
Some guys like it like that.
Go ahead.

yea theres no problem with girls making the move so next time go for it..

i know i dont mind when girls make the first move... i like it even if i dont really like them

Not when whores are doing it

lol... we would feel hecka loved if girls made the first move

I wouldn't mind it

So go right ahead

[hangs head]

yeah i think its totally fine. there should be nothing wrong with it. it shows your gutsiness (sp?). besides...its fun.

It's totally cool to make the 1st move.

haha i love everwood, unnecessary drama but still addicting..

well, i'd say go for it, i mean you guys are together, right? you got nothing to lose.

About 78% of guys like it better when girls do the first move. Heh.

i did the first move^^ he shouldnt get upset or nething...

its OK for a girl to make the first move...

lols i think its fine =] mayb hes jus respecting u thats why he didnt do it yet?

I think it's okay. And most guys love it!

eh, i know how you feel. with my ex, i was always too shy to make the first move. but like everyone said, it is OK to make the first move and guys like it.

sure. prob be hard for me. but id do it if i was comfortable.

i wouldnt mind; it would actually take some pressure off a guy lol.

i think it really depends on the guy.

as a matter of fact, i think its recommended that girls should take the first move. Because guys are dorks, esp nice guys hehee. For a guy like me, i want to give a girl my full respect, and wen i want to make a move like kissing....i want to knwo how she feels about that b4 i make a move......like, kinda ilke asking her for permission? hhhehe.. so if i wanan kiss somone and not sure if she will like it i wont go for it.........but if she wants to kiss me, its ON!