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kyootE_krn_bebe
how do you know if you found that perfect someonE?
your soulmate?...

i'm young...not too young but young.
i'll be a freshmen in college next year.

i've dated alot of guys and i've been frends with many too..
but i haven't had this kinda feeling before in my life...

the kinda feeling where it seems as though there could be no one else like him in this world.

this guy loves me.
he cares about me.
talks to me.
tells me everything.
makes me want to be a better person.
takes care of me.
and i too, feel the same way.

i never want to lose him...ever.
xquizit
You'll feel it.

When you find that person, you won't even question it. It will just feel right.
kyootE_krn_bebe
QUOTE(xquizit @ Oct 19 2004, 1:26 PM)
You'll feel it.

When you find that person, you won't even question it. It will just feel right.

...i will?... ermm.gif
...it will?... huh.gif
wow..this is really tough isn't it? pinch.gif
someflipguy
Being ready for marriage is not something that just happens, it takes time and as Roxanne says you will know. When you know you won't question if your ready or not. Just take your time...you might be ready but what if he isn't ready.

Think of other things too...

1. Where will yal live
2. Will yal be able to live comfortably with your current income
and many more
kyootE_krn_bebe
i think i may be...stupid to ask something like this... ermm.gif
Too Asian To DIE
dont feel that way..... u can ask anything..... if u need relationship help u can just IM me..... at TooAzn2DIE

i think its just a feeling..... u just kno that this is the rite person to be with.... but u hafta consider the other things lyk living together and stuff lyk that....
smile4me
dont feel stupid for saying it. and as others said, i think...youll feel it when the time comes...(er..how i phrased it just sounds odd). but dont just feel passionate. feel logical too--dont get lost in the moment; plan the future. gluck. happy.gif
DrEaMgUy2K1
QUOTE(xquizit @ Oct 19 2004, 10:26 AM)
You'll feel it.

When you find that person, you won't even question it. It will just feel right.

ima have to agree with roxy on this one =]
stephinika
yeah don't worry...it seems like a more intelligent question than some i've heard before. happy.gif but to answer your question, i'd have to agree with what some people said before like roxanne. you'll just know. yeah that sounds cliche and whatnot, but i think its true.
lilazneye10
Well you wouldnt be asking if that person is da right one for you.. you feel it in you and it u truely love that person that things will fall into place _smile.gif
slurp
QUOTE(xquizit @ Oct 19 2004, 1:26 PM)
You'll feel it.

When you find that person, you won't even question it. It will just feel right.

yeah i agree, you might not even have to think about it if youre really feeling it
MeanBastard
When you are up at the alter and you won't say no. DUH, not rocket science people.
Just_Dream
QUOTE(kyootE_krn_bebe @ Oct 19 2004, 2:19 PM)
this guy loves me.
he cares about me.
talks to me.
tells me everything.
makes me want to be a better person.
takes care of me.
and i too, feel the same way.

i never want to lose him...ever.

I know what you mean, I feel the same way about my guy. Actually though, I am only a Junior in high school right now. Many have doubted whether I truly knew what love meant.. but Love is undescribable. Not a single word can exactly pinpoint what love truly is.


Sometimes I wonder how I could've pulled through all the tough times without him... The guy I'm with.. he's the only person that can truly make me happy in life..
I mean, there's no exact, typical way that one can know that their significant other is the one they would spend the rest of their lives with. Personally, I believe that if one can wake up everyday to see the face of their significant other, than one has certainly found his/her match. Being able to picture oneself with that person and be happy, being able to tolerate being around one's beloved every day...

There's plenty of reasons that can justify that the person you're dating is the love that many others would spend their whole life trying to find. You have to be able to look past what others can say about the relationship... There were some people who told me that I shouldn't have dated the guy I'm with right now. I was mad at them for saying that because they either judged on his looks, personality, etc. I can trust my boyfriend and if I had to, I'd wait for as long as I can to be with him.

I'm not sure what the future will bring, but I'll try my hardest to make the relationship work. There will be ups and downs in every relationship, it's reasonable to have many fights along the way. But as long as both partners in the relationship are devoted, honest, and don't let anything tear them apart, then that's all that matters. Love is a powerful word and it's not meant to be tossed around. But I know for sure that I love my boyfriend because he's everything I could ever want.. And most of all, he cares about me more than anyone else has ever done. He's changed my life so much, and I'm so thankful to have such a wonderful person in my life.
sheepy
wow i agree with just_dream
nd you'll feel love when its there, no doubts :]
kyootE_krn_bebe
wow...just_dream..thanks..
thanks to everyone..-.-+
Shattered_Hope
awwww...well its not too soon...and yur not that young either..you hav a right to make yur own choices..
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