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shy_idiot
[FONT=Arial][SIZE=1][COLOR=gray]Umm...my name is Faith and I have a question. I like this guy I met at church but he's a year and five months younger than me. I'm 16. But he's really nice. Nicer than any guy I've ever met before. If I tell him i like him I'm kind of afraid he'll freak out and I'm already freaking out by the thought that I like a guy that's younger than me since I've been grown up to think that men should always be older. So..what should I do?
MusicalAngel
Get to know him first. Hang out with him... feel him out. When you guys are friends, you should know by then how you feel for him. And if he responds to you the same way... you should know by then how he feels about you... or you should at least have a feeling about it. Just be yourself. And def. get to know him better before you do anything. Good Luck! Hope that helped! _smile.gif
shy_idiot
Yea. I've known him since July though and we are pretty good friends, but sometimes with guys it's hard to tell if they like you. I hate that...
sweetdreamsx3
It doesn't matter if they are one year older than you..at least, it wouldn't bother me that much unless they are like two/three youngers than me...

Anyhoo, I guess you can get a friend to ask if he likes you back. *shrugs*
MusicalAngel
Be patient... if he really is all that... then he's worth waiting for. Just have a good time with him and enjoy every minute of it! biggrin.gif
rainnydaiis
QUOTE(somechinkgirl @ Oct 4 2004, 3:32 PM)
It doesn't matter if they are one year older than you..at least, it wouldn't bother me that much unless they are like two/three youngers than me...

Anyhoo, I guess you can get a friend to ask if he likes you back. *shrugs*

i would go with what she said..
inthemudhole
Get to know him better.
Be his friend.
Age doesn't matter.. especially when it's only a matter of 5 months. ;]
jambaJUICE
do u have his number and like talk to him on the fone? or just see him at church?
luckyxi3
i say.. age is just a number. if we`re all worried if someone is younger than us or any other things wrong with that person.. then it`s just another way of saying "we`re missing out on the great things in life" `cause you NEVER know.. he might be just worth the age happy.gif
espionage
Age definitely doesn't matter. I skipped a grade, so I'm younger than all my classmates. I still make friends fine.

As mud says, get to know him better. If you do, then you would know if he likes you or not. You have to be that close to him.
conster
yup get to kno him better and take things from there
asiangetokewl
age shouldnt be an issue. if you really like this older guy, get to know him better. if you like this younger guy, then get to know him better. Love, in my honest opinion, is undefinable (although those bastards from merriam-webster define it) so you just have to live each day to the fullest, cherishing every moment. and hey, since you're the girl, all you have to do is just wait till us guys make the first move (to ask you out) eh yea... if you have anymore relationship questions, you can always im me. I'm good at relationships because I've gone through so many (haha) biggrin.gif so eh yea, if you've got relationship problems, hit me up on aim sometime. until then, i hope I helped and peace ¤ ¤ ¤
DrEaMgUy2K1
eh ima make this simple and clean. get to know him. date him. see how it goes.

dont care wut others say, its what u think and want that matters.
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