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LadyXTor
Well...the dude I like is saying all this weird junk. Okay...his name i will say is....hm...let me think of a name....okay...we'll call him lunchbox. Well lunchbox used to like this girl...we'll call her sandwich. Okay...well now....he despises her and thinks shes stupid....sandwich is my friend too...but lunchbox is really nice and junk and compliments me a lot and gives me free stuff. The conversation follows:
Lunchbox: Wanna go to the mall?
Me: Is sandwich gonna be there?
Lunchbox:she's annoying...
Me: ahh i don't wanna go
Lunchbox: Ah...come on it'll be boring without you.
So he like....is all nice and junk to me...but mean to sandwich...sigh...what the freak is happening?

Note: Aha...i hope you enjoyed the substitued names... biggrin.gif
asiangetokewl
okay first of girl, this homie has the hots for you. period. next thing you gotta consider, do you mind if he does? b/c your friend, sandwich, might have some problems with the idea of you goin for lunchbox, right? SOOO you gotta think; who do you wanna make happy? you and lunchbox, you and sandwich, or you? Who is person you want to be the happiest? eh yea... i've gone through it all. so, eh, yea. you need some relationship advice, you can Im me girl! lol peace! hope i helped any!!!
sunissed14127
QUOTE(asiangetokewl @ Oct 1 2004, 9:45 PM)
okay first of girl, this homie has the hots for you. period. next thing you gotta consider, do you mind if he does? b/c your friend, sandwich, might have some problems with the idea of you goin for lunchbox, right? SOOO you gotta think; who do you wanna make happy? you and lunchbox, you and sandwich, or you? Who is person you want to be the happiest? eh yea... i've gone through it all. so, eh, yea. you need some relationship advice, you can Im me girl! lol peace! hope i helped any!!!

u took the words right outta my mouth lol
inthemudhole
I think he likes you. whistling.gif
DrEaMgUy2K1
i think he likes u, and just tryin to forget about "sandwitch" haha... and i know girls hate it when u talk about other girls around them...so hes just tryin not to f*ck up the convo / invitation... i think he likes u.
LadyXTor
blink.gif ahh...are you sure? pinch.gif heh...these smilies are fun. happy.gif
royalfreshness
I love the substitutes it's so cute tongue.gif!

I think he likes you.. Does Sandiwich like him? Do you like him?
LadyXTor
Iono bout sandwich...and iono bout myself....so frankly...i don't think i'm helping anyone analyze this subject.. mellow.gif oh and i'm glad you like the substitutes! laugh.gif
conster
lol i think hes forgotten about sandwich and hes probably interested in u wink.gif
nyctophiliac
nice names...anywho...i think he likes you cuz he'd rather be with you than "sandwhich"
throb.gif Steph
sammi rules you
i believe mr. lunchbox over here has a wittle crush on you.

i dunno why he hates sandwich though, so i dunno what to say about her.
LadyXTor
ACK! Are you sure lunchbox likes me? Cause I still consider him a friend. blink.gif
sweetdreamsx3
Wow. You are really confusing. Couldn't you make up a girl name a a boy name instead? So wait...Lunchbox is the boy and sandwich is the girl.

I think Lunchbox likes you..and I think you're a traitor for betraying sandwich since she is your "friend" also.
LadyXTor
Why am I a traitor? I'm not even with the dude...and she has a bf....am i still a traitor to you?
tooeffingcrazy
.. lunchbox is sorta like an idiot =P. he reminds me of me. LOL. well its 100% obvious that he likes you.
AsianUniQ
[SIZE=1]its not exactly 100% obvious.......and none of us are in complete understanding of this situation, its kind of vague........everyone is saying that lunchbox is liking you......but even im not sure about it myself, ima just analysis your words about wut you just explained above. but firstl a few questions....

when did he start liking you?
when did he started despising sandwhich, or wutever you name it?
why?
does he sitll like her?
did you know wut happen btwn them?
how long they been out?
how llong have he known you?

it seems as if lunchbox is having a fight with his sandwhich. seems kinda likt something is her fault? maybe she met someone new? maiybe he's vulnerable? Maybe he needs some distractoin.......IF he go out with you and you accepet to be his gf.......and if he's still has his heart for this sandwich and want to move on, then chances are, you are gona be in it for the hurt........i mean he could be using you so he can spend time ewith you to get his mind off of sandwich......well i duno.......answer those questions and it'll be more clearer.....

since you dont have feeligns for him.......its best to just stay as freinds..dont develope any feelings for him, because i dont think u will get anyhting out of this relationship. be loyal to your freind.......and dont let a guy get in btwn your freindship.........thatws all i have to saiy
topsyturvy
i believe lunchbox likes uu.. wink.gif u've said that sandwich has another bf already, so why would it be betraying her? sandwich probably found a new bf to calm her nerves and forget about lunchbox and stuff, n lunchbox probably wants to do the same with u. what's wrong with that?
hellzlilkit
you should just ask him why he's so mean to her. then you'll know.
AngelicEyz00
It looks to me like he likes you wink.gif
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