xXYuKnowItXx
Sep 29 2004, 11:51 PM
three months of dating...
no kiss and no making out...
i still got time? or am i moving too slow?
answer for both question plz... kiss and make out...
Too Asian To DIE
Sep 30 2004, 12:23 AM
u shouldnt rush love.... let it flow..... if ur complaining bout no kiss or make out then u dont love him... u r using him... a lotta girls wanna just get into the kissing and the making out but that proves that u dont love him..... wait until u r both ready
or y dont u just make the first move? he might be too shy to start the kiss.... u can do it too... its not the 70s anymore
rainnydaiis
Sep 30 2004, 12:24 AM
^ yeah exactly what i was about to say
Uh oh its Jay
Sep 30 2004, 12:37 AM
Just wait, be patient. Me and my gf just started kissing just few days ago and we've been together for 2 months and 1 week.
LittleLulu
Sep 30 2004, 01:09 AM
go wit the flow.....no rushin... no slowpoke... do it when u feel comfortable....or u cud jus talk to her abt it... she'll understand...that is... if she's a reasonable person.. which im sure she is...
DrEaMgUy2K1
Sep 30 2004, 01:31 AM
hrm usually i'de say go with the flow but eh lets try something new :-p
3 months no kiss huh.
have u atleast started to do like peck kissing? lol "bye *peck on the cheek* " ?
Well...if things are good and things are fine the way they are , dont rush if if u dont have to , but maybe u should take some actions...maybe shes old fasioned and waiting for u *the male* to make the move? i tell my friends to do this since their chickens *not implying that ur chicken*
step 1 - say "hey *name* i got something for you"
step 2 - tell her to close her eyes
step 3 - plant the big smoocheroo ;] , thats kiss....if u didnt get what i ment lol.
wind&fire
Sep 30 2004, 01:32 AM
pfft there is no time limit....its when both of u feel ready...
mouse_3k
Sep 30 2004, 02:29 PM
it shouldnt matter if u kiss or not..it should only matter tht u two like each other damn..
ppl like u kinda piss me off..
its like all u want is booty and not love..
inthemudhole
Sep 30 2004, 03:22 PM
Everyone goes at their own pace.
It's better to be slow and not rush it.
Or so I think.
I think I rushed a bit in the beginning of my first relationship.
Not really, though.
We only cuddled, hugged, and kissed once within the first couple of months. Bleh. But now it's over. -_-
Anyway.
Keep going at your nice, steady pace.
Sooner or later, you'll find a good time to kiss or whatever.. just don't rush it, and there is no certain pace to go.
nyctophiliac
Sep 30 2004, 03:33 PM
don't rush...be patient...congrats on 3 months! lol
Steph
Too Asian To DIE
Sep 30 2004, 03:34 PM
QUOTE
its like all u want is booty and not love..
sumtimes people think that love is kissing and making out.....
avsugarhigh09
Sep 30 2004, 03:38 PM
my friends have been going out for six months and he still hasn't gotten to kiss her. you've got time. and since you waited to kiss it'll be more special.
expoised
Sep 30 2004, 05:37 PM
wait. i'm confused. are you the guy? or are you the girl?
because... some people go "maybe she's not ready" and then some people go "maybe he's to shy".
i'm confused.
177emories
Sep 30 2004, 05:40 PM
omg you are moving very slowwww... how do u have fun? geeesh make-out already !!!
DrEaMgUy2K1
Sep 30 2004, 06:41 PM
QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Sep 30 2004, 11:29 AM)
its like all u want is booty and not love..

um hes just wondering if hes going to slow... just cuz hes thinking about kissing her doesnt mean he wants to f*ck her brains out right away.
silver-rain
Sep 30 2004, 09:02 PM
eh, don't rush things. just let it flow. eh, i was with my ex for 2 months and a week before we kissed.
blowpops69
Sep 30 2004, 10:18 PM
... 3 months. damn.
okay, when ur holding her or whatever, tilt her chin up and ust kiss her on the lips. she'll love it.
and i fu wana make out, after u kiss her on the lips, see if she smiles and then u kno u can make out
dani41790
Oct 1 2004, 04:41 AM
dont worry ur not moving to slow. my bf and i were like that and we're still together =) yay 7 months
sweetdreamsx3
Oct 1 2004, 04:58 PM
Do whatever you need to do when you're READY. Don't rush things because for me, I hate it when that happens. You'll end up losing her if you want to rush everything.
Wait for the perfect moments.
mouse_3k
Oct 1 2004, 06:24 PM
QUOTE
sumtimes people think that love is kissing and making out.....
well love isnt kissing and making out..its lust..
sammi rules you
Oct 1 2004, 06:26 PM
well...that is a long time for at least a little kiss, but i dunno about making out. *shrug* just my opinion.
x____duckii
Oct 1 2004, 06:41 PM
QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Oct 1 2004, 7:24 PM)
well love isnt kissing and making out..its lust..
Yepp.
It's never good to make out on the first week or sometime soon after going out...making out soon will also make the relationship last for less time, if you know what I mean.
177emories
Oct 1 2004, 07:18 PM
QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Oct 1 2004, 7:24 PM)
well love isnt kissing and making out..its lust..
no thats not lust thats just a factor of if being in love...
jennifish
Oct 1 2004, 08:02 PM
no, ur doing good.
conster
Oct 2 2004, 12:34 AM
actually i think its time to make a move =)
lyin_in_wait
Oct 2 2004, 08:25 AM
do what makes you feel comfortable and even though its a touchy subject maybe you should talk to the other person and see how they feel if things are movin to slow, and if you want to move it up then go for it but if not try not to feel pressured bout it cuz that will make things worse
PinkTrash
Oct 2 2004, 01:41 PM
Give hints, or talk about it or something.. You shouldnt rush it, but maybe you realllly cant wait ;]
xXYuKnowItXx
Oct 2 2004, 01:51 PM
wtf im not saying i want one my last gf i went out for 7 months no kiss or anything only hugs... im saying do u think i should make a move or not? and ppl that cant understand what im trying to say piss me off

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