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Comptine
You know how sometimes we would complain on and on how hard it is to be a girl? (Doh... Period comes around monthly so we expected it) I just wanna know what you think is really the worst thing about being a girl. I don't know if there's been another topic on this. If there was, sorry. happy.gif

For me, I think it's how we are more susceptible to society's image of beauty and perfection. mad.gif You open up a magazine and all the girls strut around with perfect bodies in skimpy bathing suits. cry.gif I could never do that.
pbear
You forgot childbirth. tongue.gif
sheepy
i agree with you and Idyll... goshh i hate it when we gotta look beautiful or skinny to b like.. u noee.. and childbirth gosh.. im glad im not dere yet.
xox Qt LuVZ xox
I agree... it's not like they can ever put a NORMAL sized person in one of the magazines... NOOOOOOOOOOOO, it's just to hard stubborn.gif
so0o_contagious
hmm..i derno.. how woman get paid less.. nd .. people doubt woman .. lol. .i have no idea how to explain what im trying to say
x_hiccupy_x
i think christina aguileras song "cant hold us down" says it all.

sexism = bullsh!t
tyedyefroggy
how we women get into "cat" fights....we lose more friends that way LoL and how men think that women cant do anything that they can
pm3k
QUOTE(so0o_contagious @ Sep 12 2004, 2:13 PM)
hmm..i  derno.. how woman get paid less.. nd .. people doubt woman .. lol. .i have no idea how to explain what im trying to say

it's gonna change this coming generation..

more schoools are dedicated to girls only... and ppl look at girls differently in most cases... other than the music videos Snoop Dogg, J-Kwon, G-Unit produce... where girls are like... sluts and whores and servants..
nyctophiliac
hmm...i would have to say maintaining my image like straightening my hair and putting on makeup...it takes too long lol
xIxLovexRamix
Childbirth scares the hell outta me
Gurlypunk8701
I would say, that the whole keeping an image is a big thing, and the fact that men sometimes just use us to show off. I would have to agree with almost all of you...
adnilamila_fe
yea besides wat u guyz said, another thing thats bad about being a girl would have to be these emotional rides we get, well wat i get neways.... sometimes i would be happy then depressed then grumpy....i hate it esp when i'm PMSing... _dry.gif
redpeony
childbirth is a blessing, ladies. remember that.

as for worst thing about being a girl, that's probably our natural ability to gossip and how we can lose a lot of friends that way.
DrEaMgUy2K1
yea im guessing child birth lol
angel-roh
+periods and getting cramps cry.gif
+giving a birth to a child cry.gif
+getting raped by a guy a lot (but not me...some girls)
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so scary
Flaunted
childbirth
and if we act some ways we get automatically called a b*tch, slut, whore etc..
sexism
self consiousness(sp)
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ichiban
Childbirth. -___-
danielle7715
getting called a slut! girls have needs too!

and living up for to expectations. i hate it how guys think we need to look perfect all of the time, or else they wont give you a second glance.
nlgrl
waiting for a guy to ask you out... like i cant go up to someone and ask a guy up... i think that would be wierd
inthemudhole
Relationships, man.. seriously. -_-
And all that other "girl" stuff. >_>
Deppism
QUOTE(nlgrl @ Sep 13 2004, 5:35 PM)
waiting for a guy to ask you out... like i cant go up to someone and ask a guy up... i think that would be wierd

ya...that. and also child birth >< an we always hav to look skinnys and stuff. -_-
Joss-eh-lime
girls can be alot meaner thatn guys can. and you have to dress a certain way, well in my school, to be 'cool' cuz we were polos and tan pants, so you gotta have the good polos, tight pants, or short skirts.
x____duckii
I hate it when people look down at girls just because they don't look a certain way. Now it's like all that's important are looks. And when your open up those magazines, you see skinny model w/tons of makeup on. I bet a magazine would never dare to put a plus-size woman on their magazine.
lojay
Emotions. Girls are way too emotional.
orangestarburst08
how when guys cheat on u they are called "PLAYAS" and when u cheat back on them ur suddenly a "SLUT or a WHORE"...besides childbirth and PMSing.....i dont really have the image problem!...but i guess that can be true too!
miszxjojo
i think the worst thing about being a girl is that a girl can get pregnant and goes through 9 months of pain and it kills when the child comes out [my mom likes to watch the shows where ppl give birth and they're screaming nd stuff so it obv hurts ? lol, but when my cousin gave birth, she said it didnt hurt a bit cuz they numbed her....] so yeah and i wish girls can't get pregnant and guys can lol
EmoEyelinerx
Childbirth, and having eveyone think girls cant do anything by themselves.
murderwaltz
childbirth! _unsure.gif and most of the girls here said sexism and i have to agree with that.
SarahxJoy
Yeah, the whole double standard thing sucks.

I don't know if this can go under what I hate about being, a girl, but there are definitely two things I strongly dislike/hate about girls in general:
- Girls are (or have the potential to be) sneaky, cruel, revengeful.
- The gossip, ughhh. _dry.gif

IMO, I think childbirth is a beautiful thing. Not a downside.
angelrevelation
I hate how insecure (safety wise) you can get just because you're a girl. When you're alone in the city you could get raped, kidnapped, robbed... a lot more easily than a guy.
smileyworld010
CHILDBIRTH.
although i hear getting kicked in the balls is supposed to be much more painful?
loveylovely
Mood swings, cramps, and sexism. Oh and having to spend so much money on clothes/looking pretty for guys/ect, what Suzzette said.
YaGurlSukedMe2SLeep
I always thought giving birth with be an asset women love, the ability to give life. Oh wait, the PAIN.
melodicminor
QUOTE(tainted_angel @ May 27 2007, 06:11 PM) *
Yeah, the whole double standard thing sucks.

I don't know if this can go under what I hate about being, a girl, but there are definitely two things I strongly dislike/hate about girls in general:
- Girls are (or have the potential to be) sneaky, cruel, revengeful.
- The gossip, ughhh. _dry.gif

IMO, I think childbirth is a beautiful thing. Not a downside.


i dislike double standards A LOT. i can accept the other things...
stephinika
For me, the worst things are the obvious period/pain of giving birth thing and the double standards. I hate that so much.
SarahxJoy
QUOTE(Ma Ass is WOW @ May 27 2007, 08:38 PM) *
I always thought giving birth with be an asset women love, the ability to give life. Oh wait, the PAIN.

Maybe most females say that childbirth is a downside because until/unless they actually give birth, the pain is what they're most worried about. huh.gif

Gimme an epidural, STAT!
alysaphobia

Sexism.
Having to look good being such a big priority sometimes.
Oh, and I'm scared of giving birth... pinch.gif
eiltranna
Childbirth. It looks painful. oo;
cori-catastrophe
the expectation people have for us.
i was actually thinking about this today for some odd reason.
most guys aren't really exepted to have the perfect body or anything. most girls however, are. people are considering good bodies skinnier everyday. and as a result, most girls are doing one of two things.
a) starving themselves.
or
b) having extremely low self-esteem.
steve330
^That is actually rebounding and bringing social norms back to a healthy weight instead of being super skinny. A lot of modeling agencies etc. are making girls weigh a certain minimum and not taking the super skinny ones anymore
cori-catastrophe
this is a channel model. and she is just one of the many current models with their ribs poking out.
gr00vyswordsman
QUOTE(danielle7715 @ Sep 13 2004, 05:22 PM) *
getting called a slut! girls have needs too!

and living up for to expectations. i hate it how guys think we need to look perfect all of the time, or else they wont give you a second glance.

Yea m, im a guy. That's a very good point you made there. Though, when the guys does give you the 2nd glance it makes you feel kind of special. :)
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