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lilanglbaby418
I won't make this long like the other post, I promise!

Keith (my ex-boyfriend) and I are talking again. We broke up in early July. He broke up with me because he thought I was cheating on him. Yes, I was hanging out with my male friend, but he was giving me a ride to work and such when my truck was in the shop. Keith still hadn't fixed his car so he couldn't help me out. He's the one guy I think I was truly falling for and I think I still am. I have so many feelings for him, it's unbelievable. We started talking a few weeks ago, just as friends. But from the way things are going in his life, it seems like maybe he regrets breaking up with me. He hasn't dated or even talked to another girl since we broke up. All he does is work five days a week and on his days off he's with his friends (Cory or Joe) or he's at his mom's house. He drinks occasionally, but that's gone down ever since we started dating. Before we went out, he went out and partied at least three-four times a week. Now he's lucky if he gets out once a week. When we were together, he usually chose to hang out with me or talk to me over his friends. We're friends NOW and he's still doing it. I just feel like maybe we can work things out. I know everyone says don't go out with your ex's again, it's only trouble. But I think it might be different this time.

I just wanted some outside opinions on this. I'll check back tomorrow before I go to work. Thanks! <3 Alanna
aznriceboi
QUOTE(lilanglbaby418 @ Sep 8 2004, 7:58 PM)
or even talked to another girl since we broke up.

he's lying

um yeah things don't "usually" work out the second time, so just move on and try not to think about it. you two could still be friends and all but its up to you
Rachel
go for it

you wont know unless you do it.
eboarder2020
Well if you really like him then go for him... The last thing you want on your mind is a bunch of "what if" questions... So go for it. IF you want big rewards, you gotta take big risks wink.gif
inthemudhole
Well.
If he likes you enough still, and you like him enough still.. why not.
I say go for it.
dani41790
if u both still feel somtin for each other then yea u should start dating again
silver-rain
yeah, i agree- go for it.
dfly112
QUOTE(aznriceboi @ Sep 8 2004, 7:07 PM)
he's lying

um yeah things don't "usually" work out the second time, so just move on and try not to think about it. you two could still be friends and all but its up to you

hes rite... but also it wont hurt to try
conster
but i think... like the reason he broke up wit u was cuz he thought u were cheating on him rite? so he probably knos the truth now and regrets for blaming something on u that u didnt do... maybe he still feels the same way but couldnt take it wen he thinks ur cheating on him, i think its worth a try of the reason u broke up in the first place is being solved now.
huney8o8
i think u should try and give it another chance! it might be different this time! wen my ex broke up with me...i still liked him. and i could tell he still liked me! we talked all the time....and he asked me out a lot. i felt i should give him another chance....and we promised each other that we would try and make it work this time. so we're back 2gether! my frenz told me not 2 go back out with him....but i did anywayz. if they're ur true frenz the'll support u no matter wat. do watever ur heart tells u!!
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