okay so me and my BEST friend like this guy and she really like him and i do too but he likes me not her and so we are going out and she is totally mad but i cant help it and he wants me to get rid of her cuz shes getting anoying i and i really dont want her to stay mad at me but i like my boyfriend but she totally flirts with him at school what should i do

plz answer

^^ No need for "double posting" there.

Choose one. The guy or your friend.

I'd ditch the friend personally, just because she should understand how you feel about this guy. If she was truly a good friend she would not flirt with your boyfriend.

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if shes ur BEST friend, she should understand i mean. not ur fault he lkes u... and if she flirts with ur bf.. then its ur bfs responsibility and act to flirt bak wit her. if he does then hes not bein loyal..

ok first of all i know from experience that a guy isnt worth losing your "best friend" over...also, u cant stop her from liking him and if the flirting really gets to you then tell her....tell her that she has no reason to be mad and that this boy isnt really worth losing each other..hopefully everything works out for the best..good luck!

talk to her. tell her that its not ur fault he likes you and that if shes realli ur fren she should be happi for you. she also shouldn b flirting with him like that

some friend. a true best friend would understand.
ditch her.

i agree. shes not worth it cuz shes not acting like a friend should. and if your bf flirts back when your friend flirts with him then hes not worth it too. thats not loyal.

thats not a good situation. i've been in that situation before but on the other side and i didnt get mad and i dont understand why she should be mad. love or liking a someone cannot be forced so there should be nothin to get mad or be mad about. i think you should try to tell her or talk to her about what is happening and how you feel about it. i personally think that best friend is more important than boyfriend but your best friend should not prevent you from being with the person you truly want to be with. she should be happy that you are happy.

if she doesnt understand that you two really like each other and want to be together, dump her. get rid of her. but if you two are really really good friends, then hmm.. i dont know.

Tough descision...
I don't know. If she IS your friend, I don't think she would start flirting with your guy. It may be also be flirting unconsciously, but, it still makes you mad right? I wouldn't suggest getting rid of her but talk to her about, well, atleast try. She prolly won't bite...that much.

i agree very tough indeed
i would keep both
u should talk to ur friend and tell her that ur bf thinks shes annoying and to stop flirting with him. whether or not u can say that to ur friends face depends on how strong ur friend ship is. with my friends i can say it to them and it'll be all good.
and u should tell ur bf that he shouldget used to it cause shes ur best friend.
ya thats just what I would do though