I was on my boyfirends desktop and I accidentally found a bunch of pictures of his ex-girlfriend...... or should I be worried.. I duno what to thing, cuz I don't wanna seem obsessive and not trusting... well not like he trusts me very well either.. I am just really confused right now. and he also told me that he would stop watching porn on this computer becuase it really messes it up and I hate it. but did he.... nope... no the computer is all fricken messed up.... what should I do??

Reformat it.

yeah what he said and um.. its probaly nothing.. i keep pics of girls i know on my computer and stuff and it doesn't mean anything.. and the porn thing.... it happens.

prlly nuttin, i keep pics of my former crushes...

Go back there and delete them all... and see if he says anything to you about it.. if he does... then... obviously he was LOOKING for the pics... and WHY would he do that? To remember all the times he had together with his ex?!

just talk to him about it. ask why he has pics of her.

*shrug* i have 5 pics of my ex-ex-boyfriend in my wallet. it doesn't mean anything, it just means i was too lazy to take them out.

i agree. delete them, and if he asks then tell him.

well as long as they arent disgusting pictures of his xgf they might just be chillin there cuz hes a lazy mofo! that I wouldnt worry about...as far as porn...thats a problem. try to make deals with him...DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM TO GET HIM TO STOP but maybe offer him something if he stops.

yeah i agree, if he yells at you or anything thatd mean he cares about the pictures more than you?

haha yeah i agree, hope he didnt save it some where else

i'd probably be a bit suspicious....

Yeah. I agree.
You should delete 'em, and see if he mentions it.. if he does, then you have all rights to be pissed off.

Disagree. I don't really understand what is there to be upset about, I have pictures of my ex-friends and boyfriends. Boohoo. Shot me.

no its nothing, i keep my exs pictures on my comp and in my drawers or w/e u spell it.... its not like i look at them when im bored, its just a peice of my past... my memories in another word haha... Man u got him to quit porn? haha good sh!t... ide be like "i'll stop watching if u put out" hahaha....... anyways reformat the computer or do a system restore

how long have you two been together though..? and how long were they togehter?

Lmbo... i agree!

have you tried to talk to him about? or have u jus been too lenient..? dont let him be like taking advantage of the fact that you dont say nething. say something. or u can slowly delete the pics.. like not all at once but a few at a time especially since you said that he has a lot rite? or if i was you i would take the other memeber's advice and jus like format and say that it's messed up gotta format it.

i dont think the pics mean anything. delete the pics, if he gets pissed off u for doing that, then yeh

the porn thing... eh i dunno no comment

well just go on it and when he comes by goes "heeey isnt this your ex gf?" haha keep it casual

and ALL guys pretty much look at porn. only like 5% of guys admit it though

nothing to be worried about, but if it does bug you a little bit u can talk to him about it. im sure he'll understand

why would you delete it? sometimes people have a reason for keeping pictures.
as for the porn thing...ehh what can i say? it's a hard habit to break...haha no pun intended

The computer, or the boy?

ahah.

really it's not a big deal...just tell him to delete it not b/c you don't trust him but you would rather not see that crap on his computer when you're on it...

and porn..yes all guys watch porn...of course they will say no when you ask but it's normal. sort of how girls like to gossip about other girls.

I disagree. Those could be the only place where the pictures are stored, you dont' want to delete the pics forever.

Pictrues can be kept forever, they hold peices of memory and history and shouldn't be thrown away for no reason.

I kinda agree that mightwork tho, just please save teh pictrues to a disk before you delete them off his computer. Otherwise he could get mad, and for a good reason. It's like deleting pictrues of your old freinds off your comp and they're the only ones you have. I'd be furious.

Both. :D

ask him about it.

or just delete them and see what he does..

Hmmm I would be mad, but I'd keep it to myself. Instead, I'd trash all the photos and "accidentally" reformat his computer.

confront him about the pictures. he is a guy porn is porn 'nuff said. reformat

that might work... but he'd probably get mad at you for going through his personal stuff. it depends on your trust level really

I hate when guys look at porn, that is so disgusting. It's basically another form of cheating if you look at it, but ok. And i know all you girls say, "well they are guys, they look at porn. it's a known fact" ...yah but still, for me it's not somethan i let slide like that.

Um, the ex girlfriend pictures....I wouldn't just assume anything. You should go ask him about it. I mean i'd be worried if his ex girlfriends picture was the background on his desktop or somethan lol, but i'm sure he just never delelted those pictures or forgot they were there. So why don't you bring it up and talk to him about it?
oh yah, and the girls up there are telling yah to delete the pictures. Um, no. That's his personal stuff, you wouldn't want him going on ur computer and deleting stuff would you? naw, just talk to him about it. Don't even think of doing somethan sneaky or nething. That's not the way to go lol

I would smack you the hell up if my girl did somethin like that...Well not really but I'd be angry as hell.

relax. not everyone gets all scarface and terrorizes traces of their ex after a breakup.

they're just old pictures. i'm sure they have no meaning.

now I would get mad. I am the jealous gf and if I dare found NE thin from my Bf's ex, I would get PISSED. Id find that girl, stick her in the face, then id go to my bf and punch him in the nuts...then I would just walk away and not talk to him for a while

I'm sorry, but I don't agree with just trashing the pictures. Photo's are very meaningful to me and they might be for your boyfriend. For example, I have over 5 gigs of pictures, some of them are girlfriends, and I would be angry if someone just came along and deleted the pictures because they didn't like that person. I keep all of my pictures, even the ones I hate, so if I were you I would ask him about it, but don't to anything drastic.

For all you know the pictures could just be there, I have lots of random photo's on my desktop I havent put in my pictures folder yet.

don't get mad

You should really talk things out first,
make sure that there are no clear signs
that he still likes his exes or whatever.
Don't do anything you're gonna regret later.
Communication is the key to a successful relationship.
And the porn thing, don't all guys watch porn
at some time or another?
I let my BF watch porn.
I have no problem with that.

this topic is reallly old...she probably doesn't have tis problem anymore

well your curious about it righT? so asak your man about it... why its in his computer in the first place.. but it explains it all that he was his ex...

i don't think it should really matter..unless check the date of when they were token haha..