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what do you girls talk about with guys or your bf?

so its like i still like my ex but we dont talk much but i wanna talk to him. its just that theres realli nothing to talk about so i dont talk to him. what are some things that keeps a conversation going??
DrEaMgUy2K1
ask how things are going,whats hes been up to,what u been up to,what u want to do, and such like that
dani41790
idk we tawk about anything that comes to our mind
xox Qt LuVZ xox
I wanna know that too... there's never anything to say to *him*. _unsure.gif
designergurlxx
juz practicalli n e thin dat cums up...prob. the thing we hav most in common...for eg. music
sweetdreamsx3
"How are you?" :D lol
It's kinda whatever comes up.
mouse_3k
with guyfriends, i tlk bout NE thin. sometimes i ask them guy questions but they all just take it as a joke and is all like *y do u care..go out n make me a cake* or something at times, we wrestle and stuff.

with bf, i tell him everything..
inthemudhole
With my guyfriends.. we mostly just talk about whatever. We're random and crazy, and we'll talk about anything. We also like to talk about music a lot, and about the memories of last year.. 7th grade.. it rocked, we were all on the same team, so yeah. That's what my guyfriends and I seem to talk about mostly.

With my boyfriend.. hm, we talk about a lot of things. We talk about what we were like before we met each other, the music we like, how school's going, sports, just anything. We talk about pretty much anything and everything because we feel comfortable enough to share that much information with each other. _smile.gif
straightedge9
o geez.. well, since he's your ex, maybe he was hurt or humiliated, and so he just doesn't really want to talk to you. I don't know since i don't exactly know the terms you two are on... but me and my bf pretty much talk about anything and everything that comes to our minds.... i dunno, all my friends that are guys just talk about random things.
racegirl24A
me and my best guy friend talk about anything and everything. i feel really comfortable talking to him about anything. since me and him both race go karts we talk about racing 90% of the time, but the topic of discussion sometimes gets pretty far out there.. whistling.gif
melmigs
Hmmm, absolutely anything that comes to our minds. With my boyfriend, nothing seems alkward, we're always talking about something.
ghjgfkgfk
The weather.
queen
with friends: handball, bball, schoolsHit, breaking... pretty much anything that has to do with sports and non personal crap.

with babeguy: anything and everything ;P sports, tv, websites, art, technology, programming, designing, graphic design, city life, culture, sunsets, dogs, cats, etc etc etc etc etc.
mistahph0
lol just talk about whatever weather,shoes,sports,etc happy.gif
conster
lol talk about school haha and hows he doing in his life what are the ups and downs, talk to him like a friend and the conversation will flow
silver-rain
eh, it really depends. like with my ex, we never had anything to talk about. but with my guy friend, we can talk about anything. it helps if you have some things in common.
slurp
blah i still like my ex and im also trying to make a longer conversation but it usually just dies after we say how things are going huh.gif
MusicalAngel
With the boy i like... everything. Lol. He's my best friend. Just ask him how his day was, what he did, how classes are going, if he's interested in sports ask him about a certain team... what music he's been listening to lately, if you're doing anything that weekend... awsk him if he saw a certain movie that you recently saw... ask him if he has a class that he's really good at (it could the class you really stink at biggrin.gif ) Lol... there's tons... just go with the flow.
fallenang3l211
ehhh i don't talk to most of my ex's. its too weird. other than that..we just talk like friends, with occasional jokes about our relationship
jeanna
i dont know about your boyfriend.. but sports or world events goes over with me.. or the school your at..
Eternally_Yours
i dont know. im a really random person so ill just think of different things to talk about.
XxXxPeAcHeSxXxX
anything! you talk.. he'll listen..... unless he's a jerk lol happy.gif
fullmusicedmajor
intrests talk about what u guys like. Have fun!
silver-rain
QUOTE(slurp @ Sep 5 2004, 10:08 PM)
blah i still like my ex and im also trying to make a longer conversation but it usually just dies after we say how things are going huh.gif

yeah, same here. i still like my ex, but when we were going out, we never had anything to talk about. bleh.
mellyshelly
now that i think about it, HIM!! haha.. yea that seems like the only subject he's interested in.. tongue.gif
x0143637x0
QUOTE(mellyshelly @ Sep 6 2004, 6:51 PM)
now that i think about it, HIM!! haha.. yea that seems like the only subject he's interested in.. tongue.gif

whats there to talk bout him? jus wondering.
DoOdOox3
musiccccccc
iono
we talk about anything....
somehow i guess i am "one of them" so nothing 2 hard 4 me

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Heathasm
haha...we are really weird....we talk about when we're older we're gonna be livin in seattle instead of dumb texas and were going to be famous
then we make up people that arent really there and talk to them........ huh.gif it usually turns into a my imaginary person can burn you better than your imaginary person can burn me ............
who can make the best farting noises laugh.gif
aznsorpor
i think you can just talk to them and see how it's going and what is new... like just so that you ppl can keep in touch and not be like complete strangers.. +like i still talk to most of my ex-boyfriends and its like a lil ackward at first but you know... it gets better and everything is okay after a lil while... if he doesnt feel comfortable on the issue like talking then forget it.. both of you have to be willing to be friends after the breakup...
crystalblue17c
i was really good friends with my boyfriend before we started going out, so we just talk about pretty much anything. what we did that weekend, anything we have in common, something one of us likes to do, a funny story, us. If you want to say something, don't be afraid to go over and start a conversation.
nyctophiliac
i'm not a very talkative person, but when i do talk to guys, it's mostly about what i did that day...what i'm going to do...what's going on in school...stuff like that
throb.gif Mzz Steph
sammi rules you
i have the same problem with my ex. *shrug*
MeanBastard
With my boyfriend, we just chill. Then we go home and do things. God, I feel so homosexual typing that.
sammi rules you
QUOTE(th5418 @ Oct 2 2004, 8:00 PM)
With my boyfriend, we just chill. Then we go home and do things. God, I feel so homosexual typing that.

lmao.
dude, you are like, the funniest person ever.
Foolish Heart
With my guy friends we talk about music. Lol, cause we both like the same music you know. Sometimes the guys and I starts flirting blink.gif but it's just for fun. I'm sure there's a lot you can talk about with your bf. happy.gif
LadyXTor
To guys..just say random things...that gets the conversation going...either that or say something you guys have in common such as...cheese.
You: I like cheese
Him: yup...
You: why does cheese have holes?

And so on... laugh.gif
LuZz
happy.gif
wif my guy friends i talk bout alot of stuff. often on msn we start of by askin hwk or sumthin =P and then we just talk bout whats happening around the world lately. yeah and we haf like a dispute over which football team is the best, or which movie and stuff like dat. :P '
usually on msn , my friends send me music or sumthin and den we start talkin bout bands. _smile.gif
it's really relaxed convz and we often tease each other bout our crushes or sumthin ... and we all haf really stupid nicknames dat we tease each other bout too.

but wif a guy i haf a crush on... lol... i'm HOPELESS i totally cant say anything .. lol i turn all red or sumthin.
i talk to my bf like my best guy friend , except i tell him alot more private stuff and we tease each other bout liking each other and hu we liked be4 :P:P:P:P:P
... dat was wen i had a bf...

-_- i hardly talk to my ex, except wen he starts a conv askin bout hwk, n the conv usually onli lasts 2 minz THE MOST pinch.gif ... *siggggh* i still like my ex
stephinika
with my boyfriend? anything & everything. literally haha
guy friends? hmm a lot. their girl problems hehe. my questions about guys. games. school. a lot really happy.gif
HelloSunshine
haha most of my guyfriends are like a grade up from me [meaning they're in 7th garde..i'm in 6th] & one in particular is always trying to get me to tell him who i like & he likes to tease me & all we also talk about our teachers & school..haha rumors shifty.gif & music ..yeah happy.gif
LiNHy POO
anything that comes to mind i guess... what i miss was when me and my ex were alone and it was a one on one converstation. we started up with the silly things and sooner it got really deep... we shared things we havent told anyone before. it was like we were there for each other. well in a way. happy.gif
pbear
Whatever comes up.
Start with a basic question, like "So how was your day?", then things get started and there's no end to things you can talk about.
177emories
i don't know what, but if you can kick it off with that guy NAYTHING coems up liek me and my bf we can just talk about NAYTHING, anything that comes up in our mind si don't have to think twice should i say that? like it just comes, but with my ex omg i just didn't know WHAT to say to him but maybe its just cause i was soo young i didn't know much... well my guy freinds we just joke aroudn and talk about anything i can't talk to some ppl just nothing to say but some ppl i'm just so open so it really depend son the guy too
royalfreshness
I talk to my guy friends about everything. Like childhood stories and problems and all. I like getting different point of veiws on things. happy.gif
AngelicEyz00
QUOTE(x0143637x0 @ Sep 5 2004, 12:01 AM)
what do you girls talk about with guys or your bf?

so its like i still like my ex but we dont talk much but i wanna talk to him. its just that theres realli nothing to talk about so i dont talk to him. what are some things that keeps a conversation going??

Talk about what you've been up to. Things you've done, people you've met, things you've seen, your opinios. Anything really

If all else fails, talk about sex

mellow.gif

no, seriously
:+:Jessie:+:
were u guys friends before you started dating?
Just talk about whatevers on your mind, school or nething
sunissed14127
i usually just talk about whatever...usualy its about whats happened during the day at school lol.
Kounouri
Well right now I don't have a boyfriend... but I do really like a guy-friend of mine, and we talk on the phone for at least an hour a day. We talk about anything... I got him hooked on ghost stories and he told me about how his great-great-great-grandpa cut off his cousin's finger. We talk about a lot of things... he talks a lot about his family & Ozzy Osbourne. It all depends on what both of you are interested in, and if he's a talkative person to begin with. Just relax ; )
you suck
just say anything. i find it interesting when me and my guy friends talk about complete nonsense and yet we understand each other perfectly. try that its awesome, but then the ppl around u think ur fcuktarts
nightmare_o0oh
You can say anything to guys at all. Just anything that comes to mind. Talk about how many times you shave to a guy and it'll just eb funny...and gross, but still hilareous.
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