expoised
Sep 4 2004, 07:21 PM
last friday this guy asked me if i wanted to go to his school's homecoming with him (he goes to a different high school). i don't really know him THAT well... but i said "sure". then yesterday, i was talking to my friend who goes to the same school and she's all like "so, you're going out with *bob* now?". and i'm like... "no.. i'm going to homecoming with him, thats all". so then i find out he's telling everyone that i'm his girlfriend. i ask my friend if he sounded serious about it and she was like... "he's been happier this week than ever, its weird".
so now i'm not too sure if i want to go to homecoming with him anymore...
i dont know if there was a misunderstanding or what, but i'm trying to think of a way to comfront him about this, b/c he's REALLY nice... and i dont want to hurt him or anything.
DrEaMgUy2K1
Sep 4 2004, 07:26 PM
haha that sucks. u should tell him so he can quit while hes ahead lol...
inthemudhole
Sep 4 2004, 07:27 PM
Tell him after the dance thingy.. or before, whichever you prefer, but I think you should tell him about how you feel.
MeanBastard
Sep 4 2004, 08:51 PM
.......Hahaha.
expoised
Sep 4 2004, 11:34 PM
QUOTE(th5418 @ Sep 4 2004, 8:51 PM)
.......Hahaha.
=/
not funny.
RiC3xBoy
Sep 5 2004, 12:19 AM
tell him in person ur not his girlfriend
silver-rain
Sep 5 2004, 09:54 AM
yeah, you should tell him how you feel.
whhaat
Sep 5 2004, 10:21 AM
haha sucks for you
jk
just tell him how you feel about him
me_myself_andi2003
Sep 5 2004, 10:27 AM
sometimes certain guys can be like that.... just cuz ur going to do something with him he says that ur his gf.... my bestfriend is this girl and all my frens think were together and we go eeeewwww..... so just tell him after the dance so he wont kill himself lol.......... oh and make sure he doesnt make up stories that HE broke up with U when u guys were not together in the first place...

get wad i mean?
Levy2k6
Sep 5 2004, 10:31 AM
your just his date, not a girlfriend.. im taking my friend from a school from a diff school district and stuff to my HC and she is just my friend.. i've taken friends to dances forever... i never tough of it as being my girlfriend girlfriend.
sweetdreamsx3
Sep 5 2004, 10:49 AM
After the dance, just tell him about it? Or before. The later you tell him, he'll be sad or something...so you might as well tell him sooner.
It's been nice going to the dance as friends. :D
slurp
Sep 5 2004, 12:58 PM
you can still go to homecoming with him, tell him afterwards or so?
straightedge9
Sep 5 2004, 01:04 PM
awww thats kinda cute that he's really happy about asking you to homecoming...

think about how you feel for him, and if you dont like him than i would tell him AFTER homecoming that you dont reallyy like him in a boyfriend-ish way.
wayne
Sep 5 2004, 01:51 PM
so dont go....
happy endings
Sep 5 2004, 02:13 PM
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ichiban
Sep 5 2004, 03:29 PM
Just tell him the truth
apple.
Sep 5 2004, 03:50 PM
I feel sorry for the guy..Just go to his homecoming and after talk to him about this girlfrd thing, ok? Well that's what i would do.
conster
Sep 5 2004, 06:31 PM
QUOTE(xSonia @ Sep 5 2004, 3:50 PM)
I feel sorry for the guy..Just go to his homecoming and after talk to him about this girlfrd thing, ok? Well that's what i would do.

yep talk to him after the homecoming is over
wind&fire
Sep 5 2004, 09:57 PM
but what wrong wit him???? he might be a quality guy and hes prob been waiting for heeps long to ask you out...and it seems that hes heaps happy...y dont you see if it works out????
juliar
Sep 5 2004, 10:01 PM
Don't be mean about it, just go up to him and ask him why he has been spreading things about you and him being a couple. And clear up any misunderstandings.
bobbster
Sep 5 2004, 10:13 PM
Yeah, talk to him about it and say that you don't appreciate it. I would still go to homecoming with him.
You used Bob as your example name.
MeanBastard
Sep 6 2004, 01:39 AM
QUOTE(love[x)
melissa,Sep 4 2004, 11:34 PM] =/
not funny.

I was going to type "So you want to be MY girlfriend?!"
xBitterxSweetx
Sep 6 2004, 12:06 PM
i think you should still go to homecomming with him because you did say yes, but just make it clear to him that you're not his girlfriend only his friend.
fullmusicedmajor
Sep 6 2004, 12:44 PM
go to homecomming with him but explain AFTER hc that u arent going out in a nice manner
tyedyefroggy
Sep 6 2004, 01:39 PM
yeah I think that you should tell him and say that you two arent going out
expoised
Sep 6 2004, 04:27 PM
QUOTE(th5418 @ Sep 6 2004, 1:39 AM)
I was going to type "So you want to be MY girlfriend?!"
of for sure. i've always wanted like an internet boyfriend.
marry me now or else.
sunissed14127
Sep 7 2004, 12:13 PM
confront him in the nicest way possible....i would talk 2 him b4 the dance so u can get that outta the way
aznsorpor
Sep 7 2004, 03:44 PM
talk to him.. or else confusion just gets worst and then in the end wen he feels even more serious about you and he falls deeper into the hole it would hurt him a lot more then ... than if you talk to him now.. make sure he knows that as of right now you two are just still friends.. but you don't know what can happen in the future.. and after you tell him that.. ask him if he still wants you to be his partner.. as a friend... i think that that would not be as hurtful as other things.. but it depends on ur own opinion..
sxygrl4u159
Sep 8 2004, 01:24 PM
just tell him. its not that hard.
Achromatic
Sep 8 2004, 02:13 PM
I think you should confront him about it. Not in like, a hasty way but pull him aside and ask, you know, what's going on and get things straight before the it becomes a bigger problem.
Maybe'll it'll disappoint him a bit but atleast you'll stop the false statements from spreading any further.
shawty_redd
Sep 8 2004, 06:30 PM
wow thats weird. well talk to him and ask him if he wants more out of u two going to homecoming =/
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