Sep 3 2004, 09:35 PM
hey guys...i hab a problem..its about my ex-boyfriend...well wen we broke up i still had feelings for him..i still loved him..n i nvr stopped until now...den um about 3 months passed since we broke up...we always see each other evry single day...we still hang out n we're still kinda close...i tink 2 days ago we talked about our feelings...den i found out dat he still loves me..n i do too..n we're tinkin if we shuld get back together nd give our relationship a second chance... he wants me back but he sed he shuldnt take me back coz he's scared dat he mite hurt me again...he cares enough not to go out wit me again coz i had da worst days of my life wen we broke up...if we do go out again..he tinks dat tings mite go rong again.. wut do u guys tink i shuld do?
Sep 3 2004, 09:38 PM
Why did you guys break up in the first place?
Sep 3 2004, 09:39 PM
Sep 3 2004, 09:42 PM
if u both think that u shouldnt hav broken up in the first place and forgive e/o.. then mayb u should go for it.. i mean.. this might b ur second and LAST chance to b with the one u love...
Sep 3 2004, 09:45 PM
Honestly, if he loved you enough, then he won't hurt you. If he does hurt you, he'll try to fix the problem. There are so many fights and arguments that happen within a relationship and just because of one mishap, it doesn't mean the relationship should end. You shoudl give him a second chance and he should try his best not to blow it. As long as he tries and stays true to you, then you'll be fine.
I mean, when my bf first asked me out, I said no. But then I asked him if he liked me alot and he said yes. I did think he was cute, but I didn't know him that well. I decided to give the relationship thing a try. Before, I wanted to focus on my education and not let any guy get in my way. But I'm glad I gave him a chance.
The lesson is you never know what will happen. PEOPLE LEARN from mistakes.
Sep 3 2004, 09:46 PM
we broke up coz he lost interest sometimes n we went out for 7 months and we loved each other..we were so close..n he didnt wanna go any further coz it'll hurt more if we're closer...so we talked..i told him we needed to talk coz i had a diff feeling dat he's not into da relationship anymore coz he wasnt doing anything anymore...so yea we both agreed to take a break.
Sep 3 2004, 10:11 PM
Talk to him about it instead of talking to us.
Sep 3 2004, 10:17 PM
u should give it a try only if whatever problem u guys had in previously is fixed, for instance lets say he has a bad temper back then, if he doesn control it, and u give it a try again, its jus gonna happen again and the same outcome.
u said that he sometimes lost interest... but he loves u... so thats kinda tricky.... i dont knoe.. if im u, ill give it sometime to see how things are.. if he can do it once, he can do it again.
Sep 3 2004, 10:42 PM
talk to him about it. but if you think it'll really work out, try it.
Sep 3 2004, 11:07 PM
we already talked bout it..but he changed his mind..first he sed he doesnt wanna go out wit me again..coz he cant..n last nite he sed he's not sure if he doesnt want to go out wit me....n now he left me wit questions again..godd.. *sigh.. n nuttin changes da way we act everyday..i wanted to stay away from him mybe a little so i'll hab da chance to move on but he's still dere..but den i still want to be close to him ....jeez im stupid and crazy..i dont know wut to do..
Sep 3 2004, 11:21 PM
do you think its worth giving the relationship a chance?
Sep 5 2004, 08:07 PM
sometimes you gotta listen to what the guy says. don't go for it if you don't want to get hurt.
Sep 7 2004, 04:43 PM
i think that you should think of the consequences and what went wrong the first time you ppl went out.. if you think it is worth a try, try it.. cuz everyone deserves a second chance.. and if you get one.. take advantage of it.. you might regret it if you dont.. i truly do..
Sep 7 2004, 05:07 PM
jus give it another try! u never knoe wat mite happen! thatz what i did! me and my bf are going out for the second tyme rite now! itz only been a week...but itz going good! i say if u still luv him and he luvs u.....than give it a shot!!
Sep 7 2004, 05:37 PM
QUOTE(th5418 @ Sep 3 2004, 9:39 PM)
judging by the problem as she states it, it sounds like stupidity.
Sep 7 2004, 05:38 PM
I don't think you should. It most likely won't work out again on the second try.
Sep 8 2004, 01:22 PM
try the relationship one more time.. see how things go.
Sep 8 2004, 02:10 PM
That's kinda like what happened to me. My guy...he sent like, 10 e-mails with 5 long paragraphs in each e-mail, apologizing. And ofcourse, I gave it a shot. I mean, there's nothing better than a second chance right? I think everyone deserves one. Try it out. If everything starts going down hill, I suggest you start a talk with him, You now what I mean?
Sep 8 2004, 07:29 PM
like i said in some other threads, second times usually don't last. if it ended up in a break up the first time then theres a posibblity it'll happen again. just keep that in mind when you make your desicion
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