and this is real harsh but one day her step dad saw her talkin to me (HER RENTS DONT EVEN KNO ME) well they banned her from talkin to me ever again on the comp 
well if anyone has some advise id really appreciate it 
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hey could neone gimme some advise....theres this girl in my class who i kno likes me n everything n so do i but im always soo nervous to talk to her and i never right notes and this is real harsh but one day her step dad saw her talkin to me (HER RENTS DONT EVEN KNO ME) well they banned her from talkin to me ever again on the comp well if anyone has some advise id really appreciate it
and this is real harsh but one day her step dad saw her talkin to me (HER RENTS DONT EVEN KNO ME) well they banned her from talkin to me ever again on the comp well if anyone has some advise id really appreciate it
you know that she likes you also, so just try not to be so nervous (which is actually easier to say than to do), once you start talking to her more, i'm sure your nerves will calm down. say something funny and make her laugh, that would probably ease the nervousness, and you know just be yourself.
make a new screenname hahah.
shes probably nervous around u too...
QUOTE(d1nonlyqty @ Feb 27 2004, 11:53 PM)
make a new screenname hahah.
^ Werd.
And quit being such a wussy! Talk to her in person for cryin' out loud! You don't need to worry about what she'll think about you because she already likes you. So as long as you don't start acting like a snobbish little brat, you're all clear.
- Chinkieeyedpnoi
QUOTE(d1nonlyqty @ Feb 27 2004, 11:53 PM)
make a new screenname hahah.
or you can do that...
talking to her online isn't the only thing you can do! you can try to say hi to her at school or even talk to her!! good luckk 
QUOTE(chinkieeyedpnoi @ Feb 27 2004, 11:57 PM)
And quit being such a wussy! Talk to her in person for cryin' out loud! You don't need to worry about what she'll think about you because she already likes you. So as long as you don't start acting like a snobbish little brat, you're all clear.
- Chinkieeyedpnoi
- Chinkieeyedpnoi
WORD from the genuis
talk to her in person! who cares about internet, you cant feel the full power of joy talking online! get over ur nervousness... guys with courage turn gurls on (most of the time anyway 
) and as for her parents? who gives? 
make a new sn like suggested
talk to her in clas, school w/e flirt with her show some sign to her saying meaning u like her. but that really sucks that the rents lol, dont let you talk to her thats wrong
no guys thats the thing, her rents wont let her talk online EXPECIALLY to me, and sometimes i do talk to her but only in comp lab cause we sit next to eachother but the other times i jus cant (mostly round her friends) o and even if i did change my sn (she dont got aim/aol/msn/yahoo)
o and even if i did change my sn (she dont got aim/aol/msn/yahoo)
just start with a hi in the hallway when you guys arent around too many people, you have to take the first step, since you're nervous about it just make it a small one! eventually, it should expand :)
SHE LIKES YOU RIGHT? SO DONT BE SCARED! JUST GO UP TO HER AND SAY, HEY WHATS UP? SHE'LL OBVIOUSLY BE HAPPY YOU'RE TALKING TO HER RIGHT?? THEN THA CONVO WILL START AND IT'LL BE ALRIGHT
obviosuly if you want to build a relationship, you must learn not to be shy around her. i mean you do want a relationship right? just slowly talk to her day by day til you get comfortable around her. if you dotn know what to say then ask her questions you'd be interested in like "do you like sports, whats your favorite holiday and why" lil conversation starters to get you comfortable thats all...
HAHAHAHAH...if you live in CA, la county i heard about this ...hahaha hilarious
send her letters
Seeing that her parents are involved, approach with extreme caution. If you really think she is worth it, pursue her. Don't be too forward or you might scare her away. YOU HAVE TO LET HER KNOW YOU LIKE HER THOUGH. Somehow, someway, she needs to get that message.
wow this was really low of me ok she came down to the PE room where i work n all and she did this game with her friends "Zap" well itss hard to explain but she ether had to kiss me or ask m out, and wel......i walked away on here n also, i dont think shes mad though, but she hates wen i fight so me n my friend sergio got in a lil fight on accident n she was waching, god im really pissed at myself right now, i wish i could rewind the day and change it all
ok she came down to the PE room where i work n all and she did this game with her friends "Zap" well itss hard to explain but she ether had to kiss me or ask m out, and wel......i walked away on here n also, i dont think shes mad though, but she hates wen i fight so me n my friend sergio got in a lil fight on accident n she was waching, god im really pissed at myself right now, i wish i could rewind the day and change it all
xSuperLazyBoix, how old are you??
QUOTE(xSuperLazyBoix @ Feb 27 2004, 7:52 PM)
hey could neone gimme some advise....theres this girl in my class who i kno likes me n everything n so do i but im always soo nervous to talk to her and i never right notes and this is real harsh but one day her step dad saw her talkin to me (HER RENTS DONT EVEN KNO ME) well they banned her from talkin to me ever again on the comp well if anyone has some advise id really appreciate it
and this is real harsh but one day her step dad saw her talkin to me (HER RENTS DONT EVEN KNO ME) well they banned her from talkin to me ever again on the comp well if anyone has some advise id really appreciate it well there are 0ther ways y0u can keep in t0uch with her .. n0t just 0n line .. think 0f 0ther sweet things t0 keep in t0uch .. alth0ugh y0u aren't much 0f a writer .. i think it w0uld be a nice gesture t0 write her n0tes t0 gives in scho0l since 0n line c0nversati0ns will seem difficult at this p0int in time .. best 0f luck .. h0pe things w0rk 0ut f0r the b0th 0f y0u ..
dont noe if it was alreadi sed but if you feel wierd being around her like juz da 2 ov you mayb have sum ov yer frens stay with you n her frens tew until you feel more...umm cofortable
YEA!! guys u all really hlped!!!! 
i finally asked her out!! i jus did wat a lot of u said too thanx
i finally asked her out!! i jus did wat a lot of u said too thanx
QUOTE(xSuperLazyBoix @ Mar 21 2004, 9:11 PM)
YEA!! guys u all really hlped!!!! i finally asked her out!! i jus did wat a lot of u said too thanx
i finally asked her out!! i jus did wat a lot of u said too thanxawww i'm glad that we were able to help .. how did things go when you asked her out?!?! fill me in on the details kekeke :D
well it was at a fun night we have at out school she said yes n all but it was so hard lol but im jus glad i did ask
awww wow congrats
QUOTE(xSuperLazyBoix @ Mar 22 2004, 2:21 PM)
well it was at a fun night we have at out school she said yes n all but it was so hard lol but im jus glad i did ask
awwwwwww .. yay .. she's very lucky she said yes!! best of luck always hun .. it's great that you overcame that initial fear and did something you never thought you could do .. you were very brave and i give you so0 much credit .. i admire your courage in doing it :D
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awwwwwww .. yay .. she's very lucky she said yes!! best of luck always hun .. it's great that you overcame that initial fear and did something you never thought you could do .. you were very brave and i give you so0 much credit .. i admire your courage in doing it :D
thanx....but her friend still says "askin her out isnt the same thing as askin to be gf/bf" lol but she doesnt care she still thinks it is o btw for all you who want to kno my age im 11 lol
congrats!!!
Atleast you can see her at school, right? Well just think of it this way: It's better to take a chance and maybe hook up with this girl then to never take the chance at all. Here's a quote by Wayne Gretzky: " You miss 100% of the shots you never take." I dont know if that really helps much, but yeah..
jus listen to a BoA song and it always helps!
BoA - Be the One
BUT HOW OLD ARE YOU???
i mean...my man respects his parents wishes fer him not to "go out"...so we jus like each other and were da AZN(LOL) "couple" of da whole 8th grade which kinda bothers him i think..?
hes more of a humble guy..
but as long as we like each other..and i guess he wants us to wait till high school..?(SOUNDS GOOD TO ME!)
gosh...you two still respect yur parents right??
i mean...doin what they told you not to??shame...
but then again...
dont we all?
BoA - Be the One
QUOTE
It’s okay to be so shocking
It’s okay to be so unexpecting
Shake your heart, shake you heart
Open your eyes, move!
Right now, don’t heave a sigh!
Don’t the emotions change the first? Freeze!
You don’t know what’s going on
Take a chance, take a chance
You can’t escape..
If you want you will be the one
Can’t you promise this? Please!
Don’t you at least know this?
Shake your heart, shake your heart
Run, hey!
To the heart, don’t tell a lie!
If you are unsecured I wouldn’t be with you
The unclear future
Take a chance, take a chance
Make it real..
I trust you will be the one..
It’s okay to be so unexpecting
Shake your heart, shake you heart
Open your eyes, move!
Right now, don’t heave a sigh!
Don’t the emotions change the first? Freeze!
You don’t know what’s going on
Take a chance, take a chance
You can’t escape..
If you want you will be the one
Can’t you promise this? Please!
Don’t you at least know this?
Shake your heart, shake your heart
Run, hey!
To the heart, don’t tell a lie!
If you are unsecured I wouldn’t be with you
The unclear future
Take a chance, take a chance
Make it real..
I trust you will be the one..
BUT HOW OLD ARE YOU???
i mean...my man respects his parents wishes fer him not to "go out"...so we jus like each other and were da AZN(LOL) "couple" of da whole 8th grade which kinda bothers him i think..?
hes more of a humble guy..
but as long as we like each other..and i guess he wants us to wait till high school..?(SOUNDS GOOD TO ME!)
gosh...you two still respect yur parents right??
i mean...doin what they told you not to??shame...
but then again...
dont we all?
we respect our parents who ever said i didnt? or she didnt? 
ehh...princess....he just said he was 11.
but anyways, congrats!
but anyways, congrats!
jus try n get the courage to tell her how u feel.
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