well, tomorrow's my birthday(as is keanu reeves =] ) and i was really hoping my crush would get me something. i like him, and he likes me, but i got my hopes up really high and then was disappointed to hear from my friend that he would give money to my best friend so that she could buy something from the both of them.. i don't know how to feel now, it's like i was really hoping that he'd give me something from the heart but instead sent my friend to get me a gift that isn't even really from him. should i say something or should i shut my mouth and forget it?

Go up there and own him. Maybe hes too shy to buy something for you. Oh well, sucks to be you huh?

"own him"?
oh well, i know it sucks.

He's probably just shy.
*shrug*
If he's not your boyfriend, you shouldn't really expect a gift.. unless he's a really good friend of yours.

hmm.. lemme think.. lol.... if u really like this dude.. i think u should tell them but dont say it like ur angry.. say it like ur just curious ya kno? and this should b together.. as in the three of u.. but if u think that u could get someone better.. then i suggest u go on.. but yea.. do w/e u want.. its ur choice..

You shouldn't expect a gift ever... even if he is a good friend of yours...

well the higher hope you have the worse it is isnt it? at least you still get a present rofl

Yeah. I agree. You really shouldn't expect one.. I know you said you were "hoping," but it sounds a bit more.

well..... this guy isn't your boyfriend...

so...

like elba said, you shouldn't expect anything.

its true how maybe hes shy, but its possible that he might not like you anymore /= well, i hope that things work out for you.

its not his fault.. maybe he has money problems =x i dunno lols or he doesnt want ppl to know he likes u, he probably doesnt want it to be that noticable... forget about it lol u get a present! =]

you shouldn't expect a present from anyone, because you might get disappointed. eh, and since he's not your boyfriend, you really shouldn't expect a present from him.

hahah thanks

he might not know what to buy u so he might give it to your friend becuz he thinks ur friend can choose something better then him... when ur in this situation u dont seem to think through alot so u just act before u think.. its prolly what he did... hope i helped..

he prob doesn't know what to get u that's all lol. just try not to get ur hopes up so high next time, cuz it'll really kill u at the end if it turns out the way u don't want it.

but neways, try to keep ur mouth closed or he's gonna think ur obsessed lol know what i mean? well, u could tell him how u feel.

next time dont get your hopes up too high..things dont always go the way you want it to

i wouldnt say anything because if you do, he'll probably think you'll always expecting things to be given to you..and some people dont like that

well unless they are ur boyfriend or madly have a crush on u, i dont think u should be expecting a gift,i dont from my friends.... i just hope they remember haha

i think that if he doesnt think like that then hes not worth it...there are SOOO many other ppl out there waiting to give you the attention that your deserve

I completely agree with her. He's not yours yet, so you can't expect a gift from him.

i think you are thinking too much into it.. i dont think it should really matter much according to a guy.. guys tend not to know what to get for girls so they would prefer if they offer a girl to go get it.. they tend to think that it would be better if a girl buys it especially someone like ur best friend since she would noe wut u like ... they tend to think like that.. better that she likes the present then her not likin it at all.. so its ok.. dont take it too seriously...

well at least ur getting something.. all i got from my crush on my bday was "you beat me by a week" lol....nah but i know how u feel...but he probably is shy u know..and he probably wanted your best friend to get the gift cuz he doesnt know wut u want and who better to ask than ur best friend! just try to forget about it and thank him and ur friend for the gift.. well hope i helped! good luck wit ur boy!

then if you both liked each other, why isnt their a relationship? there's got to be something holding either one of you back. think about it.

he isnt your boyfriend

get over

dont be so selfish and expect gifts from everyone =)