i have a problem...
i had a friend
she was so ding dong full of herself i just stopped talking to her after the 2 weeks i spent in fl with her...
she got the picture and now is talking behind my back to EVERY ONE i know
who the fudge does she think she is, i mean, im not going around telling every one the story about her and fl and just about her in general....none of you people know her so i dont care im just saying she was ding dong full of **** and i dumped her..but what do i do now?????? do i comfront her? explain to my friends? explain to her? im too mad to think straight about it any more....this was my best friend i ever had up until this realisation...or change.....i dont know what to do

Well.
If anyone asks, I think you should explain it.
But I don't think you should go up to anyone and just bring it up.
*shrug*

She was never your friend this whole time then. A true would never do that to you. Just move on and find another friend.

i dont know, i really felt like she was
some thing changed
im just afraid shes going to start some thing with all of my other friends and i dont know whether to get them mixxed up in our little battle or just ignore it

things happen you lose friends everyone in a while.. move on and find more she wasnt that important to you if you stopped talking to her, right?

yeah, i agree. don't say anything unless someone asks you about it. and yeah, she probably was never a true friend if she goes behind your back telling stories.

just tell her to go screw herself...dont worry bout it...doesnt matter

You dumped her? She was your girlfriend..? What?

Anyway, go find another friend and tell her, "HASTA LAVISTA, LADY!" not baby, that's wrong.

i think u should make an explanation to everyone u know, the friends that were true to u and understand u well enough will sure enough believe u, if not go ahead move on, friends are all around the corners =]

you could:

option a: talk to he about it
option b: b!tch slap her a couple times till she gets the message not to mess with you

pick one. i advise you to go with option b. it helpful. violence is always the answer...

Retaliate. Tell people about her.

front her and see whats good before she goes around starting crap and yeah, if she really can do all that to you shes not your true friend and she isnt worth your time stressing over her

Its seems to me like she's not worth the time and trouble. If your friends are your true friends, they'll know that's she's BS-ing. ignore her... it'll wear off after some time. Your friends, you can explain things to them if you want to... but honestly, i don't you should have to, if they're your true friends. There's other girls out there that are so much better than that. Don't stress over her...

Pick up a chair and chunk it at her face. That'll show her who she's messing with. Lol, don't do that. Only do that if you feel the anger bubbling up and you just want to cry because you're so frustrated. Ehh, I'm just pissed at something else.

Like most people said, if anyone asks about it, then tell them the truth and everything else. If they're really your friend, they would believe you instead of the backstabber. :D Yeaps, move on and get another friend. You don't need someone like her.

ditto on that^^

I don't think she's worth it if she's doing that to you ....

i think you should confront her so that she stops spreading dung.. like u shouldnt take it.. and some of ur other friends u can try to explain to them but if they really ur friends and knows u.. they wouldnt jus believe her and not even like ask u to see if it was true or not.. definitely confront her.. yell at her or something ...