i think it should be the girl cuz if the boy does then the girl will think hes a pervert but if the girl licks the lips he'll catch on and start.

SORRY IF U THINK IM THIKING PERVERTEDLY. I DIDNT MEAN TO OFFEND ANNNY OF YOU OR EVEN SOUND PERVERTED I JUST WANTED TO KNOW WHO GOES FIRST...

Well, my bf introduced tounge first and i liked it...;-) So, i guess that the guy should.

Don't matter.....

shouldnt matter

Well, it goes back and forth for me. I remember with one of my boyfriends that he wouldn't make a freakin' move on me so I leaned in and gave him a quick frenchie.

He asked me out 5 minutes later.

Just depends on your mood and the person you're with really.

a quick frenchie? doesnt frenchie last rly rly long?

i realli dont knoe but i prefer if the guy did it...

i mean does it matter?!??

it doesn't matter at all??

well if your kissing each other purposely it shouldnt matter
youre not gonna get slapped for doing it

I don't think it should matter who starts.
But then again, I've never kissed anyone in that way. >_>
Eh. I don't think it should matter.
My guess is whoever starts the kiss should start with the tongue.

I don't think that it matters..


and why is this thread in the girls locker room?

er i dont think it really matters.... but usually the boy introduces first....

doesnt matter as long as it existing now lol

umm I think maybe both of the parties juss start together..like when my b/f and i kissed, our tounges juss both ended up going at the same time...but yah I prefer guys to do it first tho..

i agree with ya, brie!

I dun think it matters

- Tran -

i kno wut u meant about the whole grl starting it first thing..... my last boyfriend i started it, because he was kinda not sure he should.... he was afraid id get mad lol.... but in the end, it doesnt realy matter now does it lol

I honestly don't know... but I'm not sure if it matters.

err .. i don`t really no. haven`t had my first kiss yet. but i preferr the boy start it first.

It doesnt matter...

Why do the boys gotta do it first?! I'm shy a-and i don't wanna make the first move!! Its scary..y'know you never know what the girl will do to you.

AWWWW YOU'RE SHY? Awwwwww that's so cute! Lol

It doesn't really matter. With some of my boyfriends I started it but Brie is right, whoever kisses usually does (or should) initiate tongue lol.

doesn't matter. i frenched my bf first he js went along with it.

I dont know.. i guess whoever feels like starting it lol

my ex started it and i went along with it

um..i dk..haha. i guess the person who wants to first?

i wouldnt know...we just do...i guess...

don't realy, know, but i prefer guy start///

heehee justin perhaps yumm hehe

ahh french kissing is so sexy. the right mix of tongue and lips makes it even better. i dont care who does it first, as long as the first thing he does ISNT shoving his tongue down my throat.

i don't think it's the duty of anyone. i think that when someone wants to they should go for it. and if the other person isn't ready, then so be it.

the girl... cuz when a guy does it the grl doesnt alwayz wanna do it... eh its hard to explain

well if i was involved, it'd be the guy because i'm much too shy and timid to just start that..

i never made otu with anyone, cuz i dont know how to do it lol. but i guess it doesnt matter..

-- it seems so confusing with the lips and the tongue.. i made do you just put your lips together and get your tongue do the roll? or the lips + tongue gotta do the the making out? lol and what do you do with ur hands?

haha i dont know, but good question! sometimes it could be the girl or the boy. it juss depends i guess.

The guy! lol :D I don't usually make the first move unless it's to talk to someone.

I think itz kinda confusing bcuz if the guy start it then the gurlz mite think he's a pervert, and if the gurl start it then it make her sound so desperate.

I think itz better to ask first which guyz should do cuz itz not rite foe gurlz to ask first....

um it varies from person to person really. when i first did, it was the guy...but now it goes either way heh. so yeah it depends really.

...i honestly don't know...heh

hmm.. not sure

It could be either...
Whoever's more daring?

it dont matter as long as it happens ;)

i wudnt kno... cuz i usually start it anyways... espec if u like the grl n she likes u she wont mind

I don't think it really matters..who ever feels comfortable.. i guess That doesn't help. ah

or hornier... if u guys get the grl "hot" she'll b all ova u...

aha..yah.. i guess..that's tru

it cOuld be either one. just as long as you feel comfortable. all my exs starts it. i never do