Actually frum my point of view now, it's bitter if the guy "introduces the toungue "
I don't kno why_ bu ti think it gets the girl going usually..aha

i really duno but i think the guy should do it first hah

doesnt matter

well..i personally don't know..everytime i have kissed..um well it just comes naturally..it doesn't matter who starts..it usually just leads up to it..

i guess the guy?? i dunno...i'm not sure
Steph

i sayy... i dont know... just whoever does it first lol

i dont really think it matters..i think you guys will know when..you know..you dont plan it..it just..happens

the guy. i wana make sure he likes the otngue, then i start

my exboyfriend did that, so i just went with it.

im not really sure.. it depends? i guess.. lol cause with me and my boyfriend sometimes its him & other times its me.. but yeah iouno!

iono why but i think its better if the bOyz do it first. hahaha *shrugs*

Either works.

What I know is, if it's the right time, the guy and girl will both agree secretly without saying to each other and when they kiss, whoever is less shy will introduce the french. But maybe that's just my fantasy. Most likely, whoever is less shy and less scared.

i think it just comes naturally in a way....i mean u sort of know when to do it

i think .. the guy should make the first move. i mean if you don't like it .. just back away and slap him or something .. but if you do it and he didn't wanna then .. it's gonna be awkward wen he's wants u to stop. haha but .. either way . i duno

hmm...i don't know....it doesn't really matter to me though

i really dont care who starts frenching who. point is that we're doing it

I doesn't matter who starts it. I'd prefer he guy starting it but if they don't, just kinda lick their lip and they'll catch on.

LOL...that's hilarious!! well said but i think....
the girl should....if the guy does it cool too but its kinda wierd...GO GIRLS!!

just go with the flow.

Right lol

it doesnt matter to me...boy or girl, what ever feels right..go with the flow

Ohhh, k i s s i n g! =]
well, i think like, it matters.
if the you really like the other person, than you go right in...if they like you like you like them, theyll go with it...=]
but if your not sure if they like you, wait...\\\


[sooo, yeah,...<3]

don't really matter i guess

I don't think it really matters, though I haven't kissed anyone.

i think whoever is more forward should do it. I seriously don't think that gender matters on this

idk n im 13 (self-explanatory) but i prefer the guys to.

I think the girl should do it first, because it's rude for a guy just to start jumping in ones mouth. Girls must invite them. Lol. I'm still for the prim and proper ladies being treated with respect.

yeah you must get a invitation!

Well, I'm pretty shy, so usually the guy has to with me.

Eh.. it doesnt matter. mostly no one has to "introduce", it just goes naturally xD

lmfao.....yeah i usually start it on the girl...guess it's a guys thing.....only been rejected once...cause i had lol a bag of sour cream and onion chips and completely forgot lmfao...

For me; its usually the guy.

Doesnt matter. Whoever flickes the lips with the tongue first.

dont know!

doesnt it just.. start?

It doesn't matter.

the guy.

sadly, its one of the only thing they anitiate. Lazy bums.

Well the first time my bf came over to meet my parents i was in my room with him showing him some pics of my friends that were hanging on my wall and i was holding his hand and my mom was calling us so i went to go leave with his hand in mine he pulled me back to him really fast and just layed on on me..toungue and all. Then I just joined in...then when i finally pulled away...he was like wow didnt exspect you to join in. So Some guys like to go first and some girls like to go first.

Well the first time my bf came over to meet my parents i was in my room with him showing him some pics of my friends that were hanging on my wall and i was holding his hand and my mom was calling us so i went to go leave with his hand in mine he pulled me back to him really fast and just layed on on me..toungue and all. Then I just joined in...then when i finally pulled away...he was like wow didnt exspect you to join in. So Some guys like to go first and some girls like to go first.

yeah same
cant say I've given it any serious thought before

I honestly don't know and find it.. blechhkkk.
Even though I've experience it, it's cool, but at the same time.. echk, yeahhh.
I just know that I never joined in... fksfjsafkljafkjelfjlsafjdsafd, BLAHHHH.

doesn't it just start right away?

I think it's mutual.

Personally I think its better when the guy makes the move but if sometimes its like the guy gets too nervous and chicken out so I end up makin the move but I agree it shouldn't matter!

Moved to Relationships

Does it really matter?

It depends on the mood, I guess. If I want it, I'll start it. If he does, he will. Ya know?

I say that it doesn't matter.

Definitely my bf. It's always been the guy with me, never me. Oh well.

Guy. I'm the type of girl who likes to have the guy make the first moves.