mmm i really don't think it should matter. as long as both the guy and the girl are comfortable with it, anyway...

the perfect time to start it is when both of you know it's going to happen.. it's something you tell by the way their body reacts at that specific time..

if it's not that romantic or anything.. the girl should start it cuz then the guy has a higher ratio of getting slapped.. lol.

You know i think that it just happens, at least you know that when youre doing it, if some bends backwards or some crap, then the tounge comes. lol

Who the hell takes notice in that?! i just enjoy it while it lasts i love it when we play with out tounge's Together...

It shouldn't matter who goes first. If it was me, I'd be too shy to go first.

my boyfriend did it, but then I joined right in.

So I don't think it much matters, just let it happen when it happens

I say it is pretty even with me. Sometimes, I go for the makeout, other times, he does. Whichever way, I love it.

weird topic.

i dont know.

i dunno dont really care to much

but i guess with me, i'd prefer kyle to start it since i've never made out with anyone before.... i'm just a bit shy with that kinda stuff. buti guess after the first time it doesnt matter? i dunno lol....

i'm just scared i'll completely screw it up haha

To me it really doesn't matter but every time I kiss my bf, it's always him that introduces it to me. =)

I don't really pay attention anymore..but I think he usually does it first..

Well...my boyfriend is lacking in a lot of experience, so I did it the first time.

Taking turns is nice.

My boyfriend introduced it, it was ackward for me at first and I wasn't used to it.

never ask..

in this situation it doesnt matter at all

I agree =]

i think i would be too shy so i'd have to say the boy

the tranny should.

I think this is one of those "dont ask, dont tell" situtations... if it happens, good stuff.

Usually the more confident or outgoing person makes the move. Which has traditionally been the guy, considering the very last remnants of society's "relationship standards"

But honestly, this isn't a great question to ask, since it doesn't matter at all, as long as you're both comfortable with french kissing.

I think I felt his tongue first then I join in...I honestly don't know. When we kiss...I think we both take turns.

me and my bf usualy take turns
its kinda a indicator of how "into it "you are.

It shouldn't really matter, but guys are probably expected to introduce it. Then again, girls should take the initiative more. :]

it doesn't matter, but in my past it has always been my bf at the time.

The boyface does it, usually.

Yeah my boyfriend does usually, so Im going to have to go with boy.

I've never though about it. I think it depends, on the mood who started the kiss.

It doesn't matter!!!

Depends. If it is like the first time, I would expect the boy. Otherwise, if I am antsy and impatient, I go for the gold.

Foreplay is a game to me.

The tongue is introduced on the collarbone, then the neck and then I proceed to the earlobe.

At the point, she makes a move.

^^^ i like the way you put it.
ahha

my bf did...i liked it....yehh

:]

i've only tounged two guys and they made the move first so i think guys should.

i don't know. i want to do those things but i havent had the tonge introduced in any of my relationships. AND the guy i'm with right now is a person who is new to this and doesn't know what's going on and i want to start but, i'm the scared one and don't know if he will hate me. i'm so confussed.

in my situation, my gf kinda started it first on the first date.. but it doesnt mean that guys cant start it right? like everyone says, it depends on who you are with. and if u want to see if the other person wants to french kiss, just tilt your head more to the other side and open your mouth a little bit and see the other person's reaction. if she or he wants to, they'll prolly use their tongue. If she or he doesnt want to french kiss yet, dont force it and eventually when she or he is ready they will initiate it

Ohh baby! Come over right now!!

The boys seem to love the earlobe, I like seeing them squirm :)

That is quite true I think. Hehe... Definitely agree with you.

aww these replies are all so cute. how boys are shy. i am a girl and PSH i think we are all shy. i'm going to hang out with this guy soon and i pretty much know we will end up kissing...this made me realize that i should start the french kissing first.

i mean of course we are all shy.
except like PLAYASSSS.

but guys have more of a sex drive, so they are more inclined to do those sort of things, and sometimes girls are prudes (just kidding :P), and girls can just be uncomfortable doing that kind of shit.

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Does it really matter who slips the tongue first? It was never really an issue for me. Stop thinking so much about the details. It's not a big issue among real couples.

i'd prefer if the guy did it just because i prefer if the guy makes all the first moves.

The way I see it is it just happens go with the flow and if you are a guy don't attack her just a little bit just to start.

Whoever is more horny (or hornier if that is even a word) and just wants to do it.