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sm0kinm0nky
alright i need your help...theres this girl who helps me alot throught my troubles and stuff, listens 2 me, understands me... and shes also my friend. Ive liked her since we became her friends. I dont know if i should tell her or not....we both never had a gf or bf, and im way 2 shy 2 ask girls out. My parents have this whole policy thing on how i cant have a gf until im a certain age since im asian and there mad overprotective. and then i got a cousin who goes to the same skool as us. and shes friends with my cousin.. and even if i kinda get her 2 b my gf in secret my cousin would def know and tell me parents and id get busted... so guys and girls i need your help on this 1 thanks...
silver-rain
hmm, well i think you should just ask her out casually. say "do you want to watch a movie on ---" or something. and if your cousin finds out, try to bride her not to tell or something. or maybe your parents might not mind if you actually have a gf because my parents were just like that. but when i got a bf, they didn't really mind as long as it didn't interfere with my studies.
mouse_3k
i think u should tell her. and just sneak behind ur parents backs and go out with her if she has the same feelings for u.


i had a friend like tht, i'd listen to his problems and stuff and he started to like me. it was freaky...he seems more like a brother then a bf pinch.gif
volcomstone
tie your cuzin up and through her in the closet jp laugh.gif ask her to the movies and don't forget your cuzin shifty.gif
RiC3xBoy
sounds like ur f***ed lol, anywho, b smooth and sneaky, and yes u should tell her
sm0kinm0nky
how should it ell her
mouse_3k
^

"I like you..wanna go out sometime"
CEP
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Ask her out. Tell your cousin not to tell your parents.
Quit being shy, next thing you know, someone who likes her too will be going out with her.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi
yeseulx3
kill your cousin so that you can go out with her. _smile.gif
DrEaMgUy2K1
yea ask her out, tell ur cousin not to say anything, and quit being so shy and gain some confidence or u will be screwed
sm0kinm0nky
lol
conster
y would ur cousin tell tho lols just tell ur cousin not to say anything and i think u should definitely tell the girl u like that u like her, maybe something will happen =)
slurp
tell her how you feel and ask her out, since you both havent been with someone then it can be start for both of you. your cousin just bribe him or beat him up _smile.gif
sm0kinm0nky
my cousin is a girl lol
sugarcultluver
QUOTE(strwbrrykiwi23 @ Aug 27 2004, 2:43 PM)
kill your cousin so that you can go out with her. _smile.gif

good idea lol jk...yea just probably ask her if she wants to go to the movies or sumthing _smile.gif
sweetdreamsx3
Err..okay if the girl you like is friends with your cousins or something and if the girl has the same feelings for you, then that shouldn't be a problem because your cousin should be happy for her friends, right?

And yeah, like mouse_3k said, just sneak out behind your parents back. I mean you can always stay after school to finish up something and then end up going to the movies. No one would ever know. Just be careful! :D
sm0kinm0nky
_dry.gif lol... i think im 2shy 2 ask her
blowpops69
who says your parents have to know? lol, just keep it on the low and they'll never find out. my parents are like urs...im not supposed to go out till i move out but too late
eternal_s
ok since u posted this up...i think u got the answer already!!! that u wana date her...well just do it...if u dont u will regret it soon..wat cousin thing i think that person will understand u...OR U CAN TRY TO BUY HIM OR HER UP lol....goodluck yo _smile.gif
peace out sammie <3
sm0kinm0nky
huh.gif il try but i gota try n stop being shy..lol
sm0kinm0nky
how could i not be shy
Goliath87
You have to tell her how you feel trust me on this there is no better feeling then to find out that the girl you have had a crush on forever has been waiting for u to ask them out.
lyin_in_wait
well try to pick up on her hints and if she likes u back then maybe u guyz could go together like to the movies and stuff so technically your not dating but your still togther
carmi96
go out with her a few times n if u relli like her n think the relationship is going some wher tell ur parents, they cant stop u at that point coz they kno ur mature n not jus looking 4 fun n stuff...they cant make u break up or anithing if u v considered that u like her, ur parents shuld eventuaali b able 2 accept it...
MeanBastard
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