I posted about this in the girls' locker room, and so far I've had no advice from any of the chickas, so maybe you guys might be able to give me your insight on this...

To sum it up, me and this guy are kinda falling for each other. Problem is, I'll be moving away from him - for good - in 6 months. Not military or anything, but I move around a lot (a new state every few years or so) and we both really like each other. We've known each other for 5 years. What would you guys do in this situation? Would you try to date the girl anyway despite the distance, or would it be best to not go for it at all?

Well, everyone is different.
But if I was to be in that case, I'd probably try to start something, but that's just me. After I move, we'd probably end up breaking up with each other.
Trust your own judgement. =)

best not to do it at all... ppl cheat

Hm.
I might do something about it.
But then again.. I might not.

Make sure you let him be able to contact you.. (phone #, IM, email addy, etc..)

You can make up your mind then.. or now. I'm not sure what I'd do.
I might start something.. but, I don't know..

just end the relationship once u go

long distance relationship don't usually last.

I don't know about that, if you two love each other enough, it'll work out.

im not saying that it never last, its just that alot of things you have to take into effect before you actually put in the commitment to go though with the long distance relationship. theres trust, trusting that your signifacant other won't cheat on your while you're away. commitment: if one ones commited to the relationship then it ends because theres no point in going on with it. asking yourself if you REALLY know this person. he or she might be some rapist or some killer that might just be trying to trick you. you could never know. theres more but i can't think of any right now

Won't love and trust make it work in the end? If you trust them not to cheat on you and if you love them enough, it'll work out.

its depends on how strong it is though

i wouldn't you don't know what there doing behind your back

That's where the trust comes in. I'm in one right now, I love her more than anything and would trust her with my life.

well you don't know if she loves you

love could mean a lot of things, it doesn't always have to be a feeling, i looked it up in the dictionary because i was bored.

1. feel affection for
2. enjoy greatly
3. stong affection
4. warm attachment
5. beloved person

maybe she might not love him (in your defination of love) but she might care for him or apprieciate him

how do you know that she love you?

how do you know shes not using you?

personally i wouldn't know, so i can't answer it, ask waccoon. thats why as I said before, "trust" plays a big role in any relationship. without it, it wouldn't last

sorry i was being stupid

its ok don't worry about it

Nobody would talk with me that much, both on the phone and online, and deal with all my crap if they didn't love me.

go with what your heart tells you to, anything can happen if you make it happen.

yes i would :O , probally try to convince my parents from making me move too :O

Yeah but see I'm kinda livin' on my own - I just have plans to move back to some other states But I really appreciate all the guys advice on this, love and trust are a definate thing in it, and I definately know he likes me coz he wouldn't have put up with me for over 5 years if he didn't...lol but thx for the posts guys ^.^