Ok, to sum it up in a nutshell....

I just moved to Texas in July. I have an online friend that I have talked to for over FIVE YEARS that lives in Northern Texas (I live in Houston - southwest Texas). We've had plans in mind to meet up for the first time since we've talked to each other and hook up somewhere... But problem is, I think both of us are kinda... falling for each other. Here's where my problem comes into play.

1) I kinda got kicked out my house. I know, big, bad ass rebel. Anyhoo, I'm living with a friend down here at the moment that also has plans to move back up to Kentucky with me (where he and I moved from) in about 6 months. So, if I do end up falling for this guy, should I stay here and live with him in happiness or move away and be back at "home" without him?

2) He doesn't know yet either that I have plans to move back up to Kentucky. I'm not also sure that, if I asked him, if he would move back up to Kentucky with me, because a couple years after that I have plans to further my acting and modeling career by moving to either California or New York. Plus, if he ends up falling for me...

Well, I think the problem has basically been presented. This is not an easy subject to give advice to, but any input from ANYONE is more than welcome. Thanks for hearing me out.

why did you get kicked out of your house anyway?

maybe you should resolve your problem, get back into your house and then start thinking about that guy.

i think the meeting on line thing is kinda freaky but try meeting this guy first he might be totally different in person...

no matter what i don't think you should meet him..you never know who he might be...at least if you're gonna go then go with somebody else so you're not alone..

well i live in TEXAS...HOUSTON actually...but dont worry just give him a call i dont think he would mind...just talk to him that's the best thing to do.

huh? didn't i just saw this thread in the lounge?
if this is something to do with long distance relationship. then don't. long distance relationship barely even last

I don't wanna reply.. It'll just be mean and not funny.

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You two just meet up. Then whatever happens, you act then.


No one's gonna predict the future, lady. Just follow your heart.

Houston is in Southeast Texas...

You should kidnap him in darkest night and drag him back to Kentucky. Don't worry about New York or Cali -- they are overrated.

Um. No. Houston is a southeast, southwest, northwest, and northeast state. There are plenty more. Lol, don't say anything if you don't know it because I live in southwest and SW does exist. So *ahem* Anyways.

Since you've talked to him for five years, tell him to call you up one day. If you plan to meet him, bring the guy you're living with just in case he's like a 50 year old pervert. And I think you should meet him because if you don't, you might regret it that you never did. It won't hurt if you bring a ton of friends, you know?

And for now, if he ends up falling for you (well, you don't even know if he's not a 50 year old pervert), so just tell him that you're moving. Don't settle down for him, but go with your modeling career. That fate cr4p...or whatever...Yeah..