My boyfriend and I live in different cities. San Jose & Milpitas. For those who don't live in the bay area, San Jose and Milpitas are right next to each other. He started school already and I haven't. I'm not that all worried because I trust him. But I feel like we're going to break up in the near future because of this distance between us. We are both making an effort to see each other. But its either one of us or both of us are busy or we just don't know how to get to that destination where we meet. My mom won't let me date which makes it more harder for me to see him. [ My boyfriend and I don't say "i love you" to each other because we don't we just like each other alot. And there is a difference between that. Just letting you guys know that ] I feel really upset about this whole thing.
Sorry you guys I just had to tell this.

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You guys are probably going to Break up. there's like a 30% chance you guys will be together.

Long distance relationship, hardly ever last. its better to break up now then later down the line. but if you want to keep it going, its your decision. just trying to help you out. if they're enough trust then sure why not.

hmm yeah its up to you. do you really want this relationship to last? really? and it depends on your levels of trust with each other mostly. i know someone who's been in a long-distance relationship for their entire relationship, and it was their one year anniversary a little while ago so its possible, but it can be difficult. just try your best but if you see it won't work, break it off.

im in the same boat as u (well except tht me and my bf say i love you and all lol). well im scared buttless cause i know hes gunna break from me cause of the distance...he almost did it before . since my dad is tryin to move into a bigger place, im asking him to move to this place which is close to my bf so i could see him.

also, Im on the Vball team and my bf is gunna be going to a few of my games so i could see him during school for a while. then we can see each other on the holidays or we can just try to see each other over the weekend. I already bought him a webcam to get ready for the school yr so we could see each other over the webcam...yes a ghetto way but as long as i see him.


but my parnets know about him and his dont but his parents basically let him go out whenever so i could like just pick him up somewhere and take him to the movies wit me or somethin so i guess its easier for us.

yeah mine went up in smoke so i mean the probability that it will stay together

SUCKS

yea long distance sucks.

If you like each other a lot, and you two are in a long distance relationship, it probably won't hurt as much if you break up. It's like having friends from far away, you two just need to communicate a lot then.

if he likes you enough he wont cheat on you. most long distance relationships dont work out =/ goodluck..

[Danget if the HTML codes come up and if they don't, yay xD] In my opinion, I think you should break up now and save the tears. You'll most likely just drift away and the phone calls and emails will stop coming..It's better to just be friends :D

wow, i was in the same situation a few months back. he lived in san jose too! hahhaa. soo anyways, it was hard not seeing each other a lot and i just broke it off bcuz it was better that way. we didnt say 'i love you' either bcuz we knew that we werent in love but we treasured every moment we had together. if it was really meant to be, then it would last.

Ack.
Sorry, but you might be breaking up soon..
Good luck.
Hopefully you can see him!

If you want it to work out and you try to keep things going...then it'll be fine. If not...well, I guess breaking up is in your future.

i hope it works out for you, because it sure in hell doesnt work out for me.