hawyngurlie8o8
Aug 20 2004, 03:23 AM

im just curious because i think thats why this boy said no to me....
DrEaMgUy2K1
Aug 20 2004, 03:24 AM
haha well most guys would say no, but me...i dont like passing up any type of relationship or friendship...so me = yes
blurtyisbetter
Aug 20 2004, 03:33 AM
depends on how they broke up. say my friend x breaks up with his girlfriend then yea ide go out with her. but say my friend x gets dumped by the girl, and he still likes her. then no i wouldnt.
whomps
Aug 20 2004, 03:46 AM
Not if she still had feelings or whatever for her. I'd ask first, of course.
Stupid_Fat_Boy
Aug 20 2004, 04:17 AM
it depends, if my friend is like cool with it. I mean if hes over it then yah, sure
KrunkMuzik
Aug 20 2004, 07:09 AM
Of course.

Lol, if she's available and she's hott, then she's mine. I don't care if she used to be with my best friend. lol.
Angelos
Aug 20 2004, 08:06 AM
i mean really no but i have done it before i know u have the freindship but if she is fine u cant let ythat go waste so yeah
pinkrocsmysocs
Aug 20 2004, 08:22 AM
well he prob. was thinking for the best when he said no i kno this b cuz i went out wit a boy andafter he dumped me he went out with mah best friend the one u care bout soo much so i think lik i said i think he was think for the best when he saaid no
inquisitive_
Aug 20 2004, 08:41 AM
I would never do that even if my best friend said it was okay. They say they're cool with it but if you get into an arguement, she'll end up throwing it in your face that you did that to her. I've seen it happen before so I would never do that.
DaTru KataLYST
Aug 20 2004, 02:19 PM
Nonononono.
Uh, I'd never say yes.
BF's before GF's!!
Errr...
Best Friends before Grlfriends.
It hurts to see it.
~Catfish have 100,000 tastebuds~
mouse_3k
Aug 20 2004, 08:01 PM
uh if u switch it then yes. my current bf is a good friend of my ex and my ex is going out with my best friend so if u switch it around, we get it right lol. me and my ex dont mind. we still friends.
LiNHy POO
Aug 20 2004, 10:42 PM
nahh... mostly likely no... but my best friend did.
DavidxN
Aug 20 2004, 10:43 PM
yeah but its a rule that if best friend slept with him, then u can't
ikayto
Aug 21 2004, 02:34 AM
i'd think my best bud would be pretty pissed if i did; so the golden rule is relationships come and go; but friends will always be there.....so NO;p
DevilDeathDemon
Aug 23 2004, 06:25 PM
well..... it depends..... if they're oki with mi goin out wit their ex, den by all means, i'll date em', but if they're pissed at their ex, i guess i wouldn't cuz i wouldn't wanna ruin mi friendship ova sum1 who probably do da same to me
MeanBastard
Aug 23 2004, 07:33 PM
My best friend would understand that I like people too. So yeah.
liSSa_x0
Aug 23 2004, 07:34 PM
as long as it's totally okay with my best friend.
gerundio
Aug 23 2004, 07:36 PM
hell no.
hair products
Aug 23 2004, 07:43 PM
don't do it. i hate it when girls treat guys like they're nothing and go for their friends and think it's okay.
there's a thing called guy code and if they don't say anything to that guy in the first place that's messed up.
i think it's okay if so happens the guy cheats on you then yea go for his friend. that first guy didn't care about you in the first place.
itskatherine XD
Aug 23 2004, 08:02 PM
it depends on if my friend and her ex are okay with each other and like are friends, and if my friend is okay if i got out with her ex. soo it just depends on how things are.
c0nfus3dmisfit
Aug 23 2004, 08:09 PM
QUOTE
it depends on if my friend and her ex are okay with each other and like are friends, and if my friend is okay if i got out with her ex. soo it just depends on how things are.
yeah same here. if they have a crappy after-relationship kinna thing i wouldnt even consider it. my friends are always gonna be there for me but when it comes to guys...well you jus never know...
Levy2k6
Aug 23 2004, 08:23 PM
i think ima end up stuck in this same scenerio but she really hates him and stuff so it would be cool with her but idk the othe way around but yeah..
i think its cool...
Devastation
Aug 23 2004, 08:24 PM
yes.
frzn-lilyv
Aug 23 2004, 08:35 PM
yeah i agree, feelings are important.... if you do, your relationship is going to get messier...

your best friend would prolly get mad at you (or not...but higher chances is that they are)... and you'll lose a best friend.

over a guy (or a girl)? thats kinda pathetic... cuz who knows you better?

besides, theres more "fish in the sea"... go find the right nemo!

oh yeah, so honestly, i wouldnt.
sheepy
Aug 23 2004, 09:18 PM
noo way... ;x well my best friend is a boy so dat wunt really happen
x0143637x0
Aug 23 2004, 10:03 PM
no wouldnt. its just wrong. if i do its just gonna mess up our friendship. unless she approves
XxBeExOHxX
Aug 23 2004, 10:39 PM
i would, whos stopping me? my frienD? psh.
silver-rain
Aug 23 2004, 10:42 PM
uh, it depends on how things ended between them, how things are between us, and if my friend is fine with it. but if i like this guy too much, then yeah, but i don't know if a guy is worth losing a friend over.
Rice_on_my_shoe
Aug 24 2004, 12:53 AM
I luv that Song "my friends over you" by NFG
xxshexxayxx
Aug 24 2004, 02:21 AM
im like mouse_3k im going out with my ex's best friend. but me & my ex are getting close like best friend kine close. and my best friend went out with him but they broke up. but yeah...i don't find anything wrong with it. i would just check with my friend then do it.
someflipguy
Aug 24 2004, 07:11 AM
I would get approval from my bestfriend first...
But, good thing my bestfriend goes out with girls that I don't like, they are totally not my type...
Counting
Aug 24 2004, 03:37 PM
I would say yes because if they broke up, they probably wouldn't still have "love" feelings for each other and if you really like the person, go for it :]
sheddingtears
Aug 25 2004, 06:59 AM
Depends on why my best friend broke up with him. If she broke up with him because he was a jerk, then obviously I won't wanna date a jerk. Uhh things like that. It just depends...
inthemudhole
Aug 25 2004, 11:27 AM
Depends on the situation.
If it was an awful break-up, then probably not.
If it was a smooth break-up, then maybe.
lilanglbaby418
Aug 25 2004, 01:46 PM
It really just depends on the situation.
captured_serenity
Aug 25 2004, 02:54 PM
no because its the unwritten rule you just dont. but it's up to you. your opinion.
luckyxi3
Aug 26 2004, 02:23 AM
well it depends... if my bestfriend told me it was okay then yeah... but if they ended their relationship in a bad note then nevermind
.... all up to my best friend
huney8o8
Aug 31 2004, 10:38 PM
well if it were me....i would first make sure that my best friend doesn't have feelings for him still. and then i'd ask her if it would be ok if we went out! and see what she sayz!
sweetdreamsx3
Aug 31 2004, 10:51 PM
Depends if she still likes him or if I like him..
QUOTE
i would, whos stopping me? my frienD? psh.
I'm
sorry, but I'm
surprised you even have friends. Or "friends".
justchillen
Sep 5 2004, 12:30 AM
i def. would never date my very best friends ex-boyfriend.. im not that desparet
Looow
Sep 5 2004, 12:36 AM
sure but I would have to talk to my friend FIRST!
dreamerOi
Sep 5 2004, 12:48 AM
no cause id feel weird like i dno hard to explain but no
x0143637x0
Sep 5 2004, 01:55 AM
i wouldnt. i dont kno why but i think that im just getting her leftover or something. i just think its weird.
dani41790
Sep 5 2004, 04:44 AM
umm no cuz yea thats wrong
xredwildandbluex
Sep 5 2004, 01:48 PM
I say its ok I mean if your friend says it is cuz u never know if he/she is over him or not
aznsorpor
Sep 7 2004, 11:11 PM
it depends on if my best friend would care... like if its ok.. but i would prefer not to..
sxygrl4u159
Sep 8 2004, 01:16 PM
nope.
Achromatic
Sep 8 2004, 02:02 PM
Well. I really wouldn't...I mean, if there are strong feelings involved, I'd try and talk about it with my best friend. Just make sure that you don't end up hurting your friend. I had a friend go out with one of my ex's without having me know. And she promised that she wouldn't do such a thing... and it hurt me.
instantmusic
Sep 8 2004, 09:55 PM
absolutly.... NOT.
If my best friend broke up with his girl right now, even though shes so incredibly hott, I couldn't imagine even looking at her. Its like.. uh ..UUUh dont touch me. flabber blabber aah, 6 steps away from me woman!
I just can't. Just can't! Don't ask, dont tell, cause I dont know.
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