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hawyngurlie8o8
whistling.gif im just curious because i think thats why this boy said no to me.... ermm.gif
DrEaMgUy2K1
haha well most guys would say no, but me...i dont like passing up any type of relationship or friendship...so me = yes
blurtyisbetter
depends on how they broke up. say my friend x breaks up with his girlfriend then yea ide go out with her. but say my friend x gets dumped by the girl, and he still likes her. then no i wouldnt.
whomps
Not if she still had feelings or whatever for her. I'd ask first, of course.
Stupid_Fat_Boy
it depends, if my friend is like cool with it. I mean if hes over it then yah, sure
KrunkMuzik
Of course. happy.gif Lol, if she's available and she's hott, then she's mine. I don't care if she used to be with my best friend. lol.
Angelos
i mean really no but i have done it before i know u have the freindship but if she is fine u cant let ythat go waste so yeah
pinkrocsmysocs
well he prob. was thinking for the best when he said no i kno this b cuz i went out wit a boy andafter he dumped me he went out with mah best friend the one u care bout soo much so i think lik i said i think he was think for the best when he saaid no
inquisitive_
I would never do that even if my best friend said it was okay. They say they're cool with it but if you get into an arguement, she'll end up throwing it in your face that you did that to her. I've seen it happen before so I would never do that.
DaTru KataLYST
Nonononono.

Uh, I'd never say yes.

BF's before GF's!!

Errr...

Best Friends before Grlfriends.


It hurts to see it.






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mouse_3k
uh if u switch it then yes. my current bf is a good friend of my ex and my ex is going out with my best friend so if u switch it around, we get it right lol. me and my ex dont mind. we still friends.
LiNHy POO
nahh... mostly likely no... but my best friend did. _dry.gif
DavidxN
yeah but its a rule that if best friend slept with him, then u can't
ikayto
i'd think my best bud would be pretty pissed if i did; so the golden rule is relationships come and go; but friends will always be there.....so NO;p
DevilDeathDemon
well..... it depends..... if they're oki with mi goin out wit their ex, den by all means, i'll date em', but if they're pissed at their ex, i guess i wouldn't cuz i wouldn't wanna ruin mi friendship ova sum1 who probably do da same to me
MeanBastard
My best friend would understand that I like people too. So yeah.
liSSa_x0
as long as it's totally okay with my best friend.
gerundio
hell no.
hair products
don't do it. i hate it when girls treat guys like they're nothing and go for their friends and think it's okay.

there's a thing called guy code and if they don't say anything to that guy in the first place that's messed up.

i think it's okay if so happens the guy cheats on you then yea go for his friend. that first guy didn't care about you in the first place.
itskatherine XD
it depends on if my friend and her ex are okay with each other and like are friends, and if my friend is okay if i got out with her ex. soo it just depends on how things are.
c0nfus3dmisfit
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it depends on if my friend and her ex are okay with each other and like are friends, and if my friend is okay if i got out with her ex. soo it just depends on how things are.

yeah same here. if they have a crappy after-relationship kinna thing i wouldnt even consider it. my friends are always gonna be there for me but when it comes to guys...well you jus never know...
Levy2k6
i think ima end up stuck in this same scenerio but she really hates him and stuff so it would be cool with her but idk the othe way around but yeah..

i think its cool...
Devastation
yes.
frzn-lilyv
yeah i agree, feelings are important.... if you do, your relationship is going to get messier... wink.gif your best friend would prolly get mad at you (or not...but higher chances is that they are)... and you'll lose a best friend. sad.gif over a guy (or a girl)? thats kinda pathetic... cuz who knows you better? happy.gif besides, theres more "fish in the sea"... go find the right nemo! laugh.gif oh yeah, so honestly, i wouldnt. happy.gif
sheepy
noo way... ;x well my best friend is a boy so dat wunt really happen happy.gif
x0143637x0
no wouldnt. its just wrong. if i do its just gonna mess up our friendship. unless she approves
XxBeExOHxX
i would, whos stopping me? my frienD? psh.
silver-rain
uh, it depends on how things ended between them, how things are between us, and if my friend is fine with it. but if i like this guy too much, then yeah, but i don't know if a guy is worth losing a friend over.
Rice_on_my_shoe
I luv that Song "my friends over you" by NFG whistling.gif
xxshexxayxx
im like mouse_3k im going out with my ex's best friend. but me & my ex are getting close like best friend kine close. and my best friend went out with him but they broke up. but yeah...i don't find anything wrong with it. i would just check with my friend then do it.
someflipguy
I would get approval from my bestfriend first...

But, good thing my bestfriend goes out with girls that I don't like, they are totally not my type...
Counting
I would say yes because if they broke up, they probably wouldn't still have "love" feelings for each other and if you really like the person, go for it :]
sheddingtears
Depends on why my best friend broke up with him. If she broke up with him because he was a jerk, then obviously I won't wanna date a jerk. Uhh things like that. It just depends...
inthemudhole
Depends on the situation.
If it was an awful break-up, then probably not.
If it was a smooth break-up, then maybe.
lilanglbaby418
It really just depends on the situation.
captured_serenity
no because its the unwritten rule you just dont. but it's up to you. your opinion.
luckyxi3
well it depends... if my bestfriend told me it was okay then yeah... but if they ended their relationship in a bad note then nevermind _unsure.gif .... all up to my best friend happy.gif
huney8o8
well if it were me....i would first make sure that my best friend doesn't have feelings for him still. and then i'd ask her if it would be ok if we went out! and see what she sayz!
sweetdreamsx3
Depends if she still likes him or if I like him..

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i would, whos stopping me? my frienD? psh.


I'm sorry, but I'm surprised you even have friends. Or "friends".
justchillen
i def. would never date my very best friends ex-boyfriend.. im not that desparet
Looow
sure but I would have to talk to my friend FIRST!
dreamerOi
no cause id feel weird like i dno hard to explain but no
x0143637x0
i wouldnt. i dont kno why but i think that im just getting her leftover or something. i just think its weird.
dani41790
umm no cuz yea thats wrong
xredwildandbluex
I say its ok I mean if your friend says it is cuz u never know if he/she is over him or not
aznsorpor
it depends on if my best friend would care... like if its ok.. but i would prefer not to..
sxygrl4u159
nope.
Achromatic
Well. I really wouldn't...I mean, if there are strong feelings involved, I'd try and talk about it with my best friend. Just make sure that you don't end up hurting your friend. I had a friend go out with one of my ex's without having me know. And she promised that she wouldn't do such a thing... and it hurt me. sad.gif
instantmusic
absolutly.... NOT.

If my best friend broke up with his girl right now, even though shes so incredibly hott, I couldn't imagine even looking at her. Its like.. uh ..UUUh dont touch me. flabber blabber aah, 6 steps away from me woman!

I just can't. Just can't! Don't ask, dont tell, cause I dont know.
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