XxBeExOHxX
Aug 28 2004, 11:51 PM
KILL THEM AND EAT THEM
maliitashun
Aug 29 2004, 01:22 AM
Cutting is for EMO kids.
I was emo once.
XxBeExOHxX
Aug 29 2004, 01:42 PM
wats emo. sounds like a messed up brand of clothes
braggtastic
Aug 29 2004, 03:37 PM
emo is short for emotional.
hence emo music and all the crying.
peace
Melissa_gulick
Sep 3 2004, 09:30 AM
i use 2 do it,, its not good.. i got so into it that e very day id find bigger thi ngs to cut myself with,, till the point that i almost died.. it does relive pain it takes your mind off everything that is bothering u in life.. but i'd never do it again .. i got put on medicane so now im better <33
baby72987
Sep 3 2004, 10:35 AM
i used ta cut muh self and it wasnt a good picture.. i wood always cut over and over againt ill blood came pouring out.. it releaves all the pain and stress u have inside buh then it makes u go crazy win ur somewear else and dont have anythingto cut ur self with.. if someone found out that ur a cutter then will run there mouth and tell someone else an that will resort into u being put into a differnet home. and its not good. they will think ur a crazy person. don do it.. think of all the possilities that u have in the future like a family husband wife anything in the world and cutting ur self mite make all ur dreams and hopes go down the drain. thats only if u cut in the wrong place and u loose ur life. think about all the people that will miss u ur mom dad family members loved one. how are they gonna feel noing that u cut ur self and u wanna die. take it from me. its not a good situation to be at.. if u wanna talk more about cutting with a nother cutter im me anytime okie "baby72987" ill always be here for u to show that someone really cares
Loni
mouse_3k
Sep 3 2004, 12:24 PM
QUOTE
I've tried cutting myself before, and it hurt, so i stopped and to me, it doesn't relieve pain [IT HURTS]
it does hurt. when i did it, it hurt like just a little bit but it proved to me tht nothing can compare to the emotional pain i was going thru so i tried to have some other feeling *physical pain for a example* to get my mind off of the emotional pain
but thts just me

im just weird like tht
F1R3B4T
Sep 3 2004, 02:54 PM
cutting = ppl who seek attention of friends, fam, ect
ryfitaDF has it all i wholeheartedly agree with him
lilJdawg
Sep 3 2004, 03:41 PM
Cutting is VERY wrong. you can`t actually tell your friend to stop because she has her problems & yeah (even though, cutting & hurting yourself doesn`t solve anything). maybe try & tell her how you feel, or like tell some of your friends so that she will stop cutting.
Angelos
Sep 3 2004, 03:43 PM
yeah...... cutting is really bad
fallenang3l211
Sep 3 2004, 05:47 PM
i used to cut myself, and when i look back at it, i realize how stupid it was. i think half the people that cut themselves only do it for attention, not because there is REALLY something wrong with them
Looow
Sep 3 2004, 05:58 PM
You need to talk to her. Or tell someone. I almost cut before. I was going through some serious stuff. The I thought about it, it seemed pointless. At the moment were you are going through all those bad stuff all you wanna do it slice your wrist but you just have to think of the consequences. You should really talk to your friend and tell her what would happen if she kept this behavior.
theWALRUS
Sep 3 2004, 06:23 PM
Everyone has their own way of relieving themselves.
And some are driven to cutting.
I don't have a problem with it.
I don't think it's the best thing to get involved with, but it's their choice.
mz_m1ch3113
Sep 3 2004, 06:47 PM

i think its wrong to cut urself
coverin up pain wit pain???o.O not my style
but i noe theres this goth grl in mah school that cuts herself....she looks miserable all day....and yea....kinda sux
xangurr
audory
Sep 3 2004, 07:54 PM
yeah.. i think cuttin is really bad. personally...IVE never done it.. i get really scared of blood.. but cutting is really bad for you.. all of you who did it once and have stopped.. im soo happy fer yooh!!!! lol yeah
dreamerOi
Sep 5 2004, 12:50 AM
okay truth is ive done it but i remember this one time when i did for some reason i started to break down and i got all shaky when i saw the blood i dont know but i did do it again and everytime you look at it you regret it so baddddd like seriously so yea ill never do that crap again
ichidou
Sep 6 2004, 04:22 PM
I have cut before, yesterday as a matter of fact, it wasn't exactly all that and a bag of chips. I really don't recommend it. It really screws you up, and it hurts, and it doesn't help with the pain. Not for me, anyway.
Inverted Binary
Sep 6 2004, 08:13 PM
I don't get how you get attention from cutting. I cut, i hide it, no one knows. how is that getting attention you stupid fuks.
cthroughangel
Sep 6 2004, 08:16 PM
seriously. cutting yourself is just as lame as getting scared of getting a shot. wtf, why do ppl act like such lowlifes? if they cant handle life, they might as well kill themself instead of bleeding almost to death. what are they trying to do? wtf, its not like the pain is in the blood and it flows out. if you wanna die, then go ahead and fucken kill yourself already. i hate it when my friends try to make me pity them. its like, "wtf?!?!?"
Rachel
Sep 6 2004, 11:16 PM
weird place to put the topic....
maybe better in debate
anyways: Yall cant judge unless youve actually cut.
aznsorpor
Sep 7 2004, 04:18 PM
it is completely wrong to cut yourself.. she shouldn't do that to herself.. ask her what is bothering her and what kind of pain would she be relieving when she cuts herself.. what is causing her pain.. talk to her first.. as a friend you should not let her hurt herself.. talk to her... no matter wat cutting yourself is not a way to solve any problems...
Rachel
Sep 7 2004, 11:18 PM
QUOTE(aznsorpor @ Sep 7 2004, 2:18 PM)
it is completely wrong to cut yourself.. she shouldn't do that to herself.. ask her what is bothering her and what kind of pain would she be relieving when she cuts herself.. what is causing her pain.. talk to her first.. as a friend you should not let her hurt herself.. talk to her... no matter wat cutting yourself is not a way to solve any problems...
have you ever cut???
that actually goes out to all those who say "CUTTING IS WRONG ITS HORRIBLE BlAH BLAH BLAH"
JasonAkAWolf
Sep 9 2004, 04:03 PM
QUOTE(sailornaruru @ Aug 13 2004, 2:31 AM)
HHm....my friend started cutting herself and im woried
She says that she does it to relieve her paine and suffereing, but i dunno, I've tried cutting myself before, and it hurt, so i stopped and to me, it doesn't relieve pain [IT HURTS]
I want herto stop, but she said that shewants to keep doing it because it makes her feel batter
Should i back off and let her do it? [im sorta backing off right now] but i still want her to stop
I think its bad to cut..what do ya'll think? And Do you guys think i should back off and let her do it?


I don't like the idea of cutting yourself but I've done it....from personal experence I say talk to her tell her that your scared for her or what may happen to her if she doesn't stop
hollaITSJOJO
Sep 9 2004, 09:18 PM
i just took a college course in psychology and I paid close attention to the part when we talked about cutting. I used to cut liek once or twice. Each person has a different reason of cutting. The cutting can be generalized into Major Depression. The only thing you can do for your friend is to tell her and show her another way to express her/his feelings. Make that person feel special and beautiful. Pay attention to the way they react and the way the interact with others. you wanna try to stop this early cause cutting is like any drug. Addicting. Hope I helped you!
tsohg
Sep 9 2004, 09:59 PM
Cutting yourself is just being selfish
You have to think about the other people your hurting
Its just plain wrong
Now go tell her to stop
MeanBastard
Sep 9 2004, 10:00 PM
Tell her down the road, not across the street.
lilxroxy
Sep 10 2004, 10:09 AM
QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Aug 13 2004, 2:33 AM)
u cant really tell her to stop, u gotta tell her how U feel, and u gotta know why she does it, and then after a while she feels comfortable talking to u about it u should suggest some other method to relieve pain
i agree
:/
highly_evolved
Sep 11 2004, 06:40 PM
*sigh* yes help your friend talk to her.
ok im kinda annoyed with ppl who are saying "i think cutting is bad". i bet some cutters know that its bad do u know even y ppl do it? most likly its because they cant talk about there emotions so channeling it though physical pain numbs there emotional pain. even if they know its bad and dont want to do it its like eating mcdonalds and knowing its going to make you fat.
Yemmerz
Sep 11 2004, 06:45 PM
Yeah you should. I found out that my friend cut herself, and now she stopping. I guess people just need someone to talk to sometimes.
But I still think it's not solving anything.
highly_evolved
Sep 11 2004, 08:30 PM
its solving the emotional pain for a few minutes wich is what somoene wants
babygrl23
Sep 12 2004, 09:52 PM
QUOTE(highly_evolved @ Sep 11 2004, 6:40 PM)
*sigh* yes help your friend talk to her.
ok im kinda annoyed with ppl who are saying "i think cutting is bad". i bet some cutters know that its bad do u know even y ppl do it? most likly its because they cant talk about there emotions so channeling it though physical pain numbs there emotional pain. even if they know its bad and dont want to do it its like eating mcdonalds and knowing its going to make you fat.
I completely agree.
highly_evolved
Sep 13 2004, 05:53 AM
^ thank you
whtevergoaway
Sep 14 2004, 08:28 PM
..i cut....well im trying to stop, because my friends found out and this whole thing happened, and now im trying to stop my bad habits
DesperateXMeasures
Sep 14 2004, 08:31 PM
QUOTE(highly_evolved @ Sep 11 2004, 4:40 PM)
*sigh* yes help your friend talk to her.
ok im kinda annoyed with ppl who are saying "i think cutting is bad". i bet some cutters know that its bad do u know even y ppl do it? most likly its because they cant talk about there emotions so channeling it though physical pain numbs there emotional pain. even if they know its bad and dont want to do it its like eating mcdonalds and knowing its going to make you fat.
Yes I agree with you there.
But it's become so much of a trend now.
I can name more than 10 people at my school who cut and show it off.
It's ridiculous.
whtevergoaway
Sep 14 2004, 08:51 PM
..if they cut and show it off...it just means they want attenetion..that they really dont have any big issues, well thats MY opinon anyway
...and i know about cutting and acutally i wasnt gona post it on here that i cut..but yea...i ended up sayin it..and i had my own good reasons why i cut myself..and it WASNT for attention, hell i kept covering it up by wearing sweatbands and sweaters
xo b0o b0o
Sep 18 2004, 03:56 PM
Well what can I say? It's wrong It's terrible...and let me get this straight...how does making yourself RELIEVE the pain? And then again...somethings solutions are so limited that you make the mistake of thinking that cutting is the only way out. So whatever it is that she is going through....tell her it could be 50x times worse. Trust me...it could get so much worse.
persongp
Sep 18 2004, 06:23 PM
stop her
royalfreshness
Sep 18 2004, 07:38 PM
i dont know anyone personally that cuts themselves. but i think you should tell her because she it inflicting pain upon and anything that draws blood from yourself is not good. if i were you i'd tell her in a heartbeat cos i'm a straightforward person when it comes to things i think aren't good/wrong. so tell her that you think she should stop. and it's because your care about her and you don't want to see her hurt herself anymore cos you care.
lifeisoverated
Sep 18 2004, 07:45 PM
QUOTE(sailornaruru @ Aug 13 2004, 2:31 AM)
HHm....my friend started cutting herself and im woried
She says that she does it to relieve her paine and suffereing, but i dunno, I've tried cutting myself before, and it hurt, so i stopped and to me, it doesn't relieve pain [IT HURTS]
I want herto stop, but she said that shewants to keep doing it because it makes her feel batter
Should i back off and let her do it? [im sorta backing off right now] but i still want her to stop
I think its bad to cut..what do ya'll think? And Do you guys think i should back off and let her do it?

I've delt with this problem before. No Matter what they say or what is happening (and I mean anything) all they're looking for is "attention"!!! One action could be to listen to what she has to say, if she acts in a 'no talking' matter then keep asking till she'll give in, but if she walks off in an annoyed attitude then you know she wants to hide it.
If you're already past that stage, slap her. This will get her attention and tell her life ain't all flowers and pixies, she needs to learn to deal with it.
This is where you or someone else helps her open her eyes to this fact of life.
~\m/
needlenymph
Sep 18 2004, 07:53 PM
QUOTE(th5418 @ Sep 9 2004, 10:00 PM)
Tell her down the road, not across the street.
Defintely DONT do that..heh. The point is to make sure if shes going to keep doing it, shes causing as little harm as possible...and this is coming from a cutter, so I do know what Im talking about, for the most part at least .....
First off alot of the people here are right about the 'why'..Its a coping mechanism. And it comes from craving attention. Maybe she doesnt know that yet, but in her subconscious (sp?) she feels lonely. You gotta explain to her that you want to support her in everyway but you dont want her to hurt herself. Also it is very addictive. Take it from me, its like smoking or doing a narcotic..remind her that even though its helping her now, eventually she will wanna quit, and if shes been doing it for awhile, she might not be able to quit by herself...Just keep helping her find other ways to express her pain.
Finally...if all the good advice that people here are giving doesnt work, and you know you cant get her to stop...at least make sure shes safe about it..at least convince her to do as little as possible and not use something bad like a huge knife or something really dirty...

I wish there was more to tell you Im sorry hun
pbear
Sep 18 2004, 09:46 PM
Cutting can help her stay in control of herself.
It can also help with emotional pain.
Ack, I didn't get it at first, but reading The Luckiest Girl in the World really helped.
It helped me understand the reasons behind cutting.
gelionie
Sep 18 2004, 11:30 PM
It's really wrong.
If you're depressed or stressed, just find someone to talk to and NOT HURTING YOURSELF.
smthngcrprategrl34
Sep 20 2004, 11:01 PM
i was a cutter but stopped about a year ago but i have long since gotten over that. i was like depressed and had a ton of stress with school, and just life in general. what happened with me was i cut myself then the pain got kind of addicting and it felt like it was something i had to do. so yeah just talk to your friends. if it wasn't for my friends i would have never gotten out of that stage. i actually never intended to show anybody but wearing long sleeves all year round may draw suspicion and my friend kinda grabbed my wrist and lifted up my sleeve. and i owe him sooo much because of it.
Flip-o-Matic
Sep 20 2004, 11:05 PM
cutting's just plain wrong. it doesn't do anything but make things worse. if suicide's the deal here, then it's pointless, it shows you're a coward, u gotta face facts and juss try to start over and make the best of what you've got. what i gotta say: suck it up. i take these meetings where i tell cutters not to be cutters and for good reasons, so i strongly stand for that.
rainnydaiis
Sep 20 2004, 11:07 PM
my sister use to do it but i don't like her doin it...
i think its wrong..
gothicvengeance
Sep 22 2004, 06:42 PM
NO!! NO!!! CUTTING YOURSELF IS BY NO MEANS AT ALL RIGHT IN ANY WAY AT ALL!!!
I don't know the whole situation, but from what you said I think you need to help your friend and help her STOP CUTTING HERSELF. The only reason it feels like it helps is because it helps relieve the pain by taking away your blood, which harms your body even more. That's like killing yourself after you scrape your knee so you won't feel your knee hurt anymore. Please help your friend stop cutting herself...
In my opinion, there are two kinds of people who cut themselves: people who are truly depressed and desperate posers seeking attention. The people who are truly depressed deserve help and the desperate posers deserve to die in the process.
Sorry for being a bit vicious, but I'm that way when it comes to things like cutting.
tooeffingcrazy
Sep 22 2004, 10:38 PM
cutting yourself is scary. when i saw thirteen the movie, she was all cutting herself, it effing bleeded a lot! so crazy
LadyXTor
Sep 22 2004, 10:40 PM
I wouldn't cut myself...if i felt bad about something..i'd confront my pain...stabbing yourself to relieve pain...doesn't really make it go away...does it?
feedthefirex
Sep 23 2004, 02:53 PM
well some of mia frensz do it. ionno ive never done it but i dun think i could stand hurten myself ta relieve pain..i dun get it.

its sad tho. wish i kould help
faithin_felix
Sep 23 2004, 04:02 PM
no i dont not suggest u ppl going around cutting yourself. because it would hurt and it is not worth it.
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