Winter
Jun 9 2004, 08:01 AM
Do you guys ever tell your parents about your BFs?
Well my dad doesn't care about these stuff so he's cool. But my mom's a little nosy... She knows everything that happens in my school...

That means she hears every lil rumour about me and some other guy...
Well I never tell my mom that I have a BF but she'll figure it out. Like I start talking about some guy 24/7. I don't like her knowing coz she has high standards for my BFs. Once she suspects that I'm with a guy, she asks like a gazillion questions about that guy...
But so far all my BFs has passed the test lol. My mom loved my very first BF coz he's come and fetch me whenever we go out to parties. Plus he was
smart. He and I were always fighting to get to the top of the class. If I wasn't no.1, then he was and if he wasn't, I was.
My mom adored my last BF. She still does. She thought he had a really great smile. And since he was in the honours class, she liked him even more. My mom and I would talk about him for ages. From his smile right up to how his biological mom abandoned him.
Anyway, so no, I don't tell my parents. But they have ways to find out lol...
XxKrNqTcUiTyxX
Jun 9 2004, 08:06 AM
Well, I don't really tell my parents

Actually I dont really tell htem anything, kinda sad I know. But my mom told me once I can date anyone asian....

ehh, not kewl
Winter
Jun 9 2004, 08:09 AM
QUOTE(XxKrNqTcUiTyxX @ Jun 9 2004, 9:06 PM)
Well, I don't really tell my parents

Actually I dont really tell htem anything, kinda sad I know. But my mom told me once I can date anyone asian....

ehh, not kewl
Lol come to think of it, I pretty much don't tell them anything either!
Anyone Asian eh? My mom wants me to marry an American. - -;; She wants grandkids with blue eyes... But I wanna marry a Korean lol...
psychoticangel
Jun 9 2004, 08:31 AM
I've had a couple of bfs now... and mai parents never knew. *shrugs* dont feel like they'd agree. and dont wanna make them all mad and stuff. so yah.
krnxswat
Jun 9 2004, 08:36 AM
Of course I tell my parents about my boyfriends. I even like to bring them for dinner sometimes
Winter
Jun 9 2004, 08:43 AM
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Jun 9 2004, 9:36 PM)
Of course I tell my parents about my boyfriends. I even like to bring them for dinner sometimes

Lol good for you dude.
dromero986
Jun 9 2004, 09:42 AM
ive only ever had one, and yes they do know.
but i didnt tell them until after a month....
we started going out in january, and i told my rent on valentines day. haha....because he gave me a rose at school, and i when i got home my mom saw it. so i told her, but i didnt say how long wed been going out. heh.
but theyre cool with him, like him.
lilb
Jun 9 2004, 09:57 AM
I dont like to talk to my parents about it because they always make fun of me for some reason, but they usually kno, with a few exceptions.
emptyminded
Jun 9 2004, 09:58 AM
nope only because i don't really have lasting relationship but she always wants to be nosey about who i think is hot.... why erdunno... but yea she wants me to marry Lao. I don't know about that now...
LiNHy POO
Jun 9 2004, 11:59 AM
yehh i always tell them!! they're usually always cool with it... yehh and they kinda have a short memory.. and sumtimes they forget i do..
tweeak
Jun 9 2004, 12:16 PM
i dont have 1...but they know a lot about the guy i like even tho they dont know i like him
brokenskys
Jun 9 2004, 01:19 PM
nope. theyve never known. im good at hiding it

my mom almost found out with my last boyfriend... but i hid it for an entire 6 months. and she doesnt know about this one... hopefully she doesnt find out until i feel like telling her...
islandkiss
Jun 9 2004, 02:08 PM
my parents want me to have a boyfriend when I'm in college. I think not.
SilverInandescence
Jun 9 2004, 05:17 PM
I didn't tell my mom about my first bf but she found out anyways. I still don't know how. She seemed really mad at first cuz i didn't tell her but then she started asking a zillion questions
dromero986
Jun 9 2004, 05:26 PM
o0h*s0o//d0rKaBlE
Jun 9 2004, 05:28 PM
my mom..not my dad i`m too scared to tell him..
x AZN D0RKii x
Jun 9 2004, 06:02 PM
QUOTE(psychoticangel @ Jun 9 2004, 8:31 AM)
I've had a couple of bfs now... and mai parents never knew. *shrugs* dont feel like they'd agree. and dont wanna make them all mad and stuff. so yah.
yeahs, that`s how i feel too ..
conster
Jun 9 2004, 06:25 PM
they know lols they're ok with it by now cuz ive 'trained' them to be cool wit it lol
Akiko_Minagawa
Jun 9 2004, 07:10 PM
i date the sort of guys that want to meet my parents so yes they do
177emories
Jun 9 2004, 07:11 PM
i don't tell my mom but she'll figure out... when they drive me home and stuff she'll she the car outside anyways when i get home... but yeah i don't go telling he ri have a bf... but if she askes me anything about him i would tell him..
Unspoken Sorrow
Jun 9 2004, 07:15 PM
..nope..i kant have any boyfren until "18 yrs old"..strict parents..but i had 2..en g0in out with the 3rd..
THAT-ONE-GIRL-143
Jun 9 2004, 07:41 PM
they always told me that i couldnt date until i was 16..my first boyyfriend was in 5th grade and i was 10 LoL..we went out the whole year..they never knew about any of my past boyyfriends except for one..it was when i was 13..we went out for 2 and a half years and my parents approved..sooo yeah..they know about my current boyyfriend too..they think hes onliee the 2nd tho haha
mai_z
Jun 9 2004, 08:10 PM
nah, my parents never know
espressive
Jun 9 2004, 09:20 PM
No....but sometimes, I just have this urge to tell people things cause I'm just like that, so then she knows. And gives me these lectures, but she knows I don't pay attention to them anyways, lol
silver-rain
Jun 9 2004, 09:27 PM
i've only had one boyfriend, and my parents didn't really know. i think my mom had some idea because i would talk about him constantly and whatnot, but she surprisingly didn't say anything. and she somehow picked up on when we broke up because she was like, "oh you don't need him..." but i've never told them anything... besides, my parents would prefer that i marry another chinese guy
dani41790
Jun 9 2004, 09:33 PM
yea mai parents noe about mai bf. im startin to think that i shouldnt of told em cuz mai dad makes fun of me about it n he tells all hys frenz, n mai mom starts askin me a billion questions about him. mai god they annoy me. mai mom is at the point where she wants to meet him but lately shes been getting me angry so im kinda getting back at her by not letting her meet him, i mean im not afraid to introduce him, im jus tryin to get her pissed cuz she gets me pissed all da time
NvieDi3ai3yGrL
Jun 9 2004, 09:58 PM
of course. i get along with my parents very well and i tell them plenty of things about my life. i never go into the personal details of course but they certainly know a lot about me.
mznina
Jun 9 2004, 09:59 PM
my mom knows and my dad knows, my mom is very close to my bf. but not my dad thats just becuz my parents r divorced so they havent had that bonding experience yet..
diz_babe_pnai
Jun 9 2004, 10:11 PM
hee hee, NO!

i'd probably be dead. if you're a filipina, you should know. the teasing, the lectures, and all that(well atleast i get that type of stuff)
my first boifriend(which i'm still dating

), my parents don't know about him, and i've been dating him for about 5 or 6 months already. my rents say that i can't have a boifriend till i'm like 25

........HA YEA RITE! NEVER!!!!!! but then my mom said that i could have a boifriend, as long as she met him, but i think my mom was juss being nice cuz we were in front of my mom's co-workers...
angel-roh
Jun 10 2004, 08:25 AM
i tell everything to them they dont care well they give me stupid lectures that i already know
they ask me... stuff like
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be careful. he might rape u blah blah blah.. dont ever have sex with him blah blah
.
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gosh parents sometimes dont understand their daughters!! lols
justdream08
Jun 10 2004, 08:27 AM
aHem...my boyfriends... well call me. when they call at a time my mom is at home...uMmm...you get the point
islandkiss
Jun 10 2004, 11:45 AM
QUOTE(anqel_r0h @ Jun 10 2004, 8:25 AM)
i tell everything to them they dont care well they give me stupid lectures that i already know
they ask me... stuff like
.
.
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be careful. he might rape u blah blah blah.. dont ever have sex with him blah blah
.
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gosh parents sometimes dont understand their daughters!! lols
omg.. yess!!.. they'd never understand.
eggscezz
Jun 10 2004, 12:59 PM
xquizit
Jun 10 2004, 01:01 PM
My parents know about my boyfriend. He comes over all the time and they all get along with each other. *wedding bells*
lnkinparkgirl384
Jun 11 2004, 06:44 AM
x_swtangel
Jun 11 2004, 07:59 AM
I don't tell my parents anymore becuz i'm only 13...!!! they'll start lecturing me and asking gazillion questions...when i told her about my last bf she grounded me and didn't let me go out wit my friends anymore..
wonderful
Jun 11 2004, 10:39 PM
hmm...i dont really tell me parents anything about my boyfriends. well one. ive only had one. i know im sad but still. BUT i do admire people who are open to their parents. i think its awesome you can have such an open relationship with them and thats something you can c h e r i s h .
party_pnai_pride
Jun 11 2004, 10:57 PM
my parentz have no idea...

if they did, they would kill him

then mee

ahh! . blah ha ha . my mom would be
hella[I] pissed if she knew but if my dad found out...

xinfinity...ugh. reasons my mom + dad [mostly my mom] wouldnt approve of my current boyfriend...
1. stole a laptop...blah no comment on that
2. [mom]thinks he has a broken family...uh....
3. he a bad boy
4. [mom]thinkz hez a bad person
5. his cousin's mom lied about payin 2 my mommie n tha principal[a nun]
6. thinkz the bad traitz run in the family...
i need a better boyfriend....shh....
LatinaLady
Jun 12 2004, 10:43 AM
i think they do. they dont want me to have them but i still do. no one is stopping me
iheartsimba
Jun 12 2004, 11:00 AM
no way
my mother pry's through everything i do all of the time its so fricking gay im not gonna tell her nething.
pssh maybe if she let me do a little more things maybe id tell her a few more things. shes to fricking over protective
and if my family did find out my sister and brothers wouldn't shutup teasing me. my parents would to.
i won't tell them anything
also exentrually they find out on there own when a guy calls me a lot or stuff but normally to go out and hang out wit them i lie to my parents and say im going with firends =D
theWALRUS
Jun 12 2004, 10:44 PM
Eh, I'm on boyfriend #1.. mom sort of knows, dad is clueless.. They don't know how serious it is.. I mean, we haven't KISSED yet.. just it's more serious than they think.. So, no I do not tell them much of anything anymore. *shrugs*
shortee_
Jun 12 2004, 11:32 PM
Well I don't because my parents don't want me dating and stuff..if my dad found out he wouldn't care and probably kick me out of hte house,I rememver the first time I had a boyfriend my mom kept asking questiosn adn my brother kept telling them all these stuff he learned from his sis,ne ways the good thing was that his sis was friends with my bro so I can get back at him.....I remembered that my mom yelled at me for having a bf..and she said mgiht as well drop school...cuz she was mad at me for not doing my homework..and always go out..
whomps
Jun 12 2004, 11:41 PM
No I don't..
But once my brother.. got REALLY REALLY pissed off and then he told my mom about my ex.. T_T but then she didn't believe him because he lies all the time
heyshutup562
Jun 13 2004, 12:11 AM
ya im asian wellz i noe abouta khmer parents..we young asians cant have a bf yet cuz our parents think we're too young but sumtimes we have bf and dont tell our parents..
simplysweet259
Jun 13 2004, 12:46 AM
no. im too scared to tell my parents. one time, my mom caught me with my bf and got really pissed and tried to force me to never see him again.
ichiban
Jun 13 2004, 12:50 AM
Well .. I'm 12 .. my mom thinks a BF will interfere with my .. studies .. so yeah i can get a bf in COLLEGE .. haha .. well i dont listen to that rule :] so of course i never tell my parentz
COLDasICE
Jun 14 2004, 07:01 PM
UHhmm.. No, they don't.. Although I can tell them anything, I can't tell them I have a boyfriend because I'm not allowed to have one.. I've only had 2 including the one I have right now... So i guess it's cool..
Ladii_D1809
Jun 14 2004, 07:10 PM
I'd never tell my dad but I told my mom about my b/f now and all she did was make jokes and sing that K.I.S.S.I.N.G song over and over! And then demanded that I'd call him right then so she could talk to his mom!! (It was 10 o' clock at night) But everythings cool un till my dad finds out he doesn't want me to date till I'm like 55 and then we have to date with other people!!
DittotoAnne18
Jun 14 2004, 07:46 PM
naw, i dont feel like telling them - i dont really know if they would care or not, but they would probaly wanna meet them or watever so i just dont tell them
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