SarahxJoy
Jun 14 2004, 07:49 PM
I don't really tell my parents about my boyfriends. They always find out anyway. My dad doesn't really like it, but my mom is alright and thinks it's part of growing up to have a boyfriend. Eh. So yeah. Sometimes it sucks when they know though. Because then they ask a lot of questions about him.
miss_isabelle
Jun 14 2004, 08:07 PM
yes.. and they like him a lot!
kirbymuixo
Jun 14 2004, 08:08 PM
I never tell my parents about my love life, and I have never mentioned to them about any crushes or boyfriends I've had in the past. But they usually find out anyway...somehow...as parents always do...
angieee
Jun 15 2004, 02:44 AM
i tell my parents.. just because i know i'd get into a lot more trouble if they found out later.
SarahxJoy
Jun 15 2004, 03:27 PM
QUOTE(miss_isabelle @ Jun 14 2004, 8:07 PM)
yes.. and they like him a lot!

Lucky.
pbear
Jun 15 2004, 03:44 PM
Heck no, as much as I can keep it private.
But they always find a way.
midnite
Jun 15 2004, 04:26 PM
i never told them from the beginning why start now?
refreshe
Jun 15 2004, 05:16 PM
No. They've never found out either

My parents don't like me beind with boys and they don't think I should be going out until I'm 16 :angry:

I think my parents are sexist. They go on and on about how good my brother is (when he really isn't and doesn't help around the house much) and shouts at me and my sister (when we do everything around the house). My brother would go out with girls when he was my age (13) and my parents didn't say a thing :angry:
sheddingtears
Jun 15 2004, 07:05 PM
Hah. Those who can have bfs are lucky. I'm forbidden to, cause my parents are so damn overprotective. The girls in my family are mostly looked after for obvious reasons, especially our virginity. My parents are really concerned of my wellbeing, like my grades and future. They wouldn't want anything like boys get in the way of my success. Damn strict asian parents. Anyways, I respect their decision, though sometimes I feel as if I want one a bf. It's impossible for me to NOT like someone my entire highschool life. Eh, sometimes it really bites like now for example. =\ I probably wouldn't tell em, but they would mostly likely find out. I would be dead if they caught me having one before college. Sucks? Yep.
MisSyHangy
Jun 19 2004, 04:44 AM
at times i do.. only my goodie boyfriends.. no the gangsterishieieie ones..
.. my parents actually get along with them very well
soulovely
Jun 19 2004, 05:01 AM
i love taking my guy home to momma! but i don't tell her everything that happens between us. i just tell her that he's my bf and the three of us just talk on the first day afterwards they start to get used to him being in the house and it's like having any other friends in the house. plus i'd feel more comfortable going out with him or having him over when i tell my momz
[.dOoKy.]
Jun 19 2004, 05:19 AM
whooa.. nope!! they would give me a 100 yr lecture about how im too young n all =P >_____>" then they'll try to make a barrier between me n boyys
i don think they know teh difference between my guy frenz n bfz anyway tho.. o_O;;
whomps
Jun 19 2004, 05:40 AM
Noooooooooooope. Once, my brother found out I had a boyfriend.. (evil bastard, same grade as me, remember?) and he PROMISED that he wouldn't tell my parents. But then when he had this one tantrum.. he blew it all up. I wasn't with the guy anymore but yeah..
It turned out all good in the end.. my mom didn't believe him

Because when he's angry, he says a lot of things.
Edit//
Whoa wth. I already replied to this topic.. with the same story..
BaYbGrL04LiFe
Jun 19 2004, 07:15 AM
my parents dun care.....my mom will ask and ill just tell her tha truth...i mean its not like i tell them wat we DO together

lolz.....but she dun really care if i have one or not...
littoaznxt
Jun 21 2004, 03:12 PM
you think getting a bf during college is bad? my mom wont lemme get a bf til im 25. and that's old.
MiszAmy04
Jun 21 2004, 03:22 PM
for me..it's always have been on the DL..but with my current bf..one of my dad's friend's brother caught me with him..asian ppl has big mouths..so of course, he went and told his brother about it and then his brother told my dad..hmmm my dad keeps tellin me "i need to have a little talk with you" but he always end up drunk that day and goes to bed..mwahhaa but yea..both my parents know now..dats f**ked up..aiyaaaa
MascaraTears03
Jun 21 2004, 03:55 PM
I tell my mom so she'll let him come over and me go over there and stuff, my dad is so clueless, he calls every guy I talk to my little boyfriend.
xBaBiEGrLx
Jun 24 2004, 06:26 PM
nope..dey dunt knoe any ob mah bfs..dey think i'm too young to date..dey said dat i kant date until i'm in college..ahha..dey think dat dating will make me get out ob mah skewl werk..
miszkristinexox
Jun 24 2004, 07:52 PM
QUOTE(x_angawhomps @ Jun 12 2004, 11:41 PM)
No I don't..
But once my brother.. got REALLY REALLY pissed off and then he told my mom about my ex.. T_T but then she didn't believe him because he lies all the time

omg thats like similar to what happened to me! but like my uncles and his friends [they were like 8th graders] found out first, because like i supposedly stole my ex away from some girl. which is so wrong cause theres like a lot of people with my name at my old school. and they were all like your going out with [name here] and im like uhhh no, and they were all like uh huh. so yeah my brother goes through like all my junk and finds his name or whatever and he goes off and tells but they didnt believe him! er.. i would never tell my parents about my boyfriend because 1. within a hour i tell them my whole family would know about it 2. THEiR FiLiPiNO 3. they think im too young
XoX_Bratz_XoX
Jun 24 2004, 08:25 PM
yea i dont tell my parents anythign because if i do they will be all over me they hate how i talk about boyz they r liek finish skewl first then date i dotrn wanna do that soo all the ones i have had they dont kno about it i no itz sad
rOckThISshYt
Jun 24 2004, 08:29 PM
well, i don't have boyfriends. i get numbers. but no. because my parents wouldn't aprove of any of them because they're basicly all older and pervs. my last boyfriend my dad new cuz he lived right up my street and always came over. but he thought we were friends. he was older too.
huihead
Jun 24 2004, 08:31 PM
nope. wayy too overprotective.
BurstinStarzz
Jun 24 2004, 10:59 PM
yeah they do! and they let him spend the night and they dont care. my dad only cares if i have sex...but my parents are 34 so they are young and they still remember what it was like at my age!
SwiTiLLuSiOnS
Jun 25 2004, 12:02 AM
mai parents would kill me. they sey, ' yu need learn school . no boy for yu bcoz yu gonna fail class and no go college and make no money ! and yu go stupit and do stupit thing with stupit boy . ' damn mai parents are funny! XD
Re-Mixxed
Jun 25 2004, 05:22 AM

..No.
babixangela
Jun 25 2004, 04:23 PM
Nope. I personally don't tell my parents. They prob. still think that I'm too young

Even if they do allow me, they'll be in too much of my business.
y0urmistake
Jun 25 2004, 04:25 PM
yes
Longhorn
Jun 25 2004, 06:14 PM
my parents didnt know until my teacher told my mom that she noticed i was hanging out with this one guy [who is my bf] a lot. it was so mean
Weird addiction
Jul 24 2004, 11:31 AM
no...neva buh mah mom found out about one and she goh really mad!!so i decided to hide it!!
Blue Lightning
Jul 24 2004, 11:38 AM
Nope I never tell, unless it slips and I mention it in front of my dad like I did with my last boyfriend >.< my hates it that I date, he got mad that I wore lip gloss when I went to the movies 0_o;
MissSwim
Jul 24 2004, 11:57 AM
QUOTE(Winter @ Jun 9 2004, 8:09 AM)
Anyone Asian eh? My mom wants me to marry an American. - -;; She wants grandkids with blue eyes... But I wanna marry a Korean lol...
correction, ur mom want u to date cocasions, not american. american can be any enthic group
Just_Dream
Jul 24 2004, 12:00 PM
Heck no.. but my sisters DO KNOW though. Anyway, sometiems i think my mom DOES know, but alot of other times, it seems not so. Hm... But yea it's getting tougher to hide it nowadays..
dahding
Jul 24 2004, 05:35 PM
well, i'm a guy, but i asked my gf to tell her parents about me. cause like, i really didn't want her parents to just find out about me and her being together and get pissed off or somethin. i wanted her to be truthful to her parents and not lie about us. so when she told her parents voluntarily, her parents were like, "u have a bf?? *silence for a couple of seconds* well, i'm proud of u for tellin us that u have one rather than have us find out. good. who is he? *my gf tells them* ooo....that boy? he seems very nice and polite. good choice."
uh...yeah...
moo
xsweetdreams12x
Jul 24 2004, 06:14 PM
Never had one, but if I did, I wouldn't tell them.
Azarel
Jul 24 2004, 06:30 PM
QUOTE(Akiko_Minagawa @ Jun 9 2004, 5:10 PM)
i date the sort of guys that want to meet my parents so yes they do
I

your sig. Gackt is adorable.
Anyways, no, I haven't told my parents about any of my boyfriends. That doesn't really matter though, since I don't have a boyfriend right now.
California Dreamin
Jul 24 2004, 06:33 PM
If I had a boyfriend , then yeah .. My mom would know about him .
She didn't know about the first one .. Because she said I was too young to be having one , but I had one anyway ..
blowpops69
Jul 24 2004, 06:53 PM
noooo....they knew about him b4, and they forbidded me to date him. o well
mouse_3k
Jul 25 2004, 02:13 AM
I dont tell them but they find out since im always like "can i go to the movies this weekend" and stuff and they are like "wit who?" and im like "<BF's name>" so they are like "ur going out wit them" and so on but they like him so its all good...my bf's parents dont know bout me though
LiLaZnGirL122
Jul 25 2004, 03:09 AM
i dun tell mai parents and im not even alowed to have a b/f lol i noe im bad!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! =(
xxsweetxpnayxx
Jul 25 2004, 03:27 AM
i want ot tell my parents but i kno they wouldnt allow me to.. bcoz i asked my om if i can date anyone.. hen my mom.. "ur too young" but i dont tell then dat i have a bf now.. n i kno that it would really spread throrugh my whole dfamily.. i mean.. WHOLE.. cousins n yeah.. wll, i knoe dats gonna be bad.. lol.. oh well.. im see if they could even notice.. lol.. but wen im busted.. of course i need to tell them da truth.. lol
perdyperdybirdy
Jul 25 2004, 02:44 PM
My dad doesn't ever know. He doesn't really pay attention to my life. But sometimes my mom suspects it i think. Like she'd be like...Do you like him...? And i'd just be like maybe....Then she'd be like does he like you?...I'm like 'I duno, mayyybbeeee'...lol
moosepoop
Jul 25 2004, 07:40 PM
NEVER! my dad doesn't think i should date til after high school
aZn_hApPy05
Jul 25 2004, 08:46 PM
my parents told me that i shouldnt date til im in college (starting college in a year). whatever. ive had a couple of bfs and they dont know. what they dont know cant hurt them.
kewlcherry
Jul 26 2004, 12:04 AM
haha nope. i never tell them since they're gonna say i cant have one cuz i'm too young or it'll bother my school work and my grades will start dropping and junk-.-;;; ughh its horrible...i hate it how they just keep talking about it. but when they're in a like a really really good mood they dont care and they just start teasing me ugh

. oh well i had like 2-3 [currently with one now...] but they'll never know

too risky to tell them anyways [they're asian parents yep haha]
tootsie_kiddo
Jul 26 2004, 12:10 AM
i never told them, itz not lyk they dnt want me to date but they never ask and i dnt think they need to kno bout em
XxtoxickissxX2
Jul 27 2004, 06:41 PM
..hmmm...Actually what's really funny is that...My parents kinda choose my bfs...haha i know I am 13 and I have a boyfriend now but my parents didnt really pick hiim! I did they just make the approval! Haha And whatever boyfriend I want its okai with them, but its like he has to be respectful and all...cuz I am Filipina aka PINAY lolz and my parents are filipino ::durr:: and so they like also spend time with him too like him and my dad like play basketball with each other and all and my mom acts like he's just one of my friends but my parents know whenever i like a guy..cuz i talk bout the dude like 24/7 haha and yah so I like hang with a lot a guys as friends too!
I love my BoY FRIEND! I WUV HIIM!
Spirited Away
Jul 27 2004, 06:47 PM
Keh, now they know who I'm seeing they kind of against it. I thought my Dad was okay with my new interest but he got a problem with guys who go to a community college instead of a university... Ugh, I mean, it's my love life, not his! But he only cares for my best interest.
sunissed14127
Jul 27 2004, 10:04 PM
my mom knows about all of my b/fs,& crushes...so yeah...uh she knos
JessJR1022
Jul 27 2004, 10:07 PM
my parents are cool with they, they know all about it, not everything nosy like and stuff though
I_LiKe_PiRaTeZ
Jul 28 2004, 12:02 AM
nope.. never did never will..
i dont speak to them..
i do things myself.
<3 DAve
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