My parents would figure out I have a boyfriend w/o me telling them, mainly because of the phone calls & house visits. I wouldn`t say anything about it, unless they ask, and I`d be upfront about it.

My mom knows. Hahaa, I didn't really tell her, I just brought him over one day and was like "Oh, this is my boyfriend Eric." and she seems okay with him. :]

His parents. Oh boy. They didn't know about us for the first 2 months but they suspected it. Then his dad caught us walking down the street holding hands and now they're fine with it after some talks and things.

My parents really don't care. They think its so CUTE. :/

So I think I've replied to this... ages ago.

I'm still with the same guy, they still know, and they still care... and it's still as annoying as hell.

I remember them always telling me that I wasn't allowed to have one until I was out of college -- since middle school. Pft. Yeah. Frickin'. Right. Don't get me wrong, I haven't had many, but I think it's a bit unrealistic to believe, as a parent, that your daughter isn't going to desire one. Heck, I'd be scared if my daughter didn't. Hrm. They've come to terms with my having one, though.. even if they don't.. like him very much. At least my.. male parental unit.. anyway.

my mom hasn't met my boyfriend
she pretty much just thinks it's puppy love
and isn't much
plus she says i'm much happier and smiling more.
plus i've settled down and i mostly hang out with him.

yeah my mom knows. she doesn't care unless he like, physically abuses me.
but that won't happen. and if it does.. i'd break up with him, duhh. =p

My mom knows, but I wouldn't dare tell my dad. :]

i'd be grounded if i told them :(

Oh yeah... My mom prefers that I stay with my current boyfriend than anyone else. She likes him.

haha my dad doesn't know; my mom does.

let's just say she'd prefer me not to...and prefer me to change the boyfriend.

well... my mom knows.. about this one... she sees him like a son already!!

Well, I got back together with my old boyfriend a week ago. She might've heard me talking to him on the phone, but I don't think she KNOWS knows.

well my mom told me that she ONLY wants me to date asians [ cuz im azn too and stuff ]. she dont want me dating any irish, blacks, and all those stuff but whats even worse is that im crushing on a irish dude.. since 1st grade.. haha.. but i dont know if i still like him though... i'd love to go out with him but hes kinda ugly now ? but in a way hes still kinda cute and its hard no tto like him anymore cuz its 9 yrs now x] haha.. thats like my big secret [:

my parents don't know, and they won't know for a very very very long time. oh try when i'm like 25..haha ;]

No. My mom knows that we like each other, but not that we're going out. My brother knows everything, since we go to the same school. My dad has absolutely no idea.

My mom has NO idea about my boyfriend...
i dont plan on telling her anytime soon either.
she thinks im too young.

Oh, only my mom knows and she doesn't really care unless he becomes "too much of a distraction" or something. But my dad doesn't know. And my brother and sister don't know, either.

Whatever

Basically everyone in my life knows; my parents, sister, parents friends, my friends.

Even the mailman?

my parents woulde definetly care. it really stinks :P
when i did have a bf, i never told them. :P
i didnt know if they would like him or not.

I kept it from my parents the first 3 months of dating because I wasn't sure if they'd let me. I told them and they were fine with it and just laye ddown some rules.

well i don't have parents that have ever really cared if i had a boyfriend.

at this point i'm 20 so there is nothing they could say but when i was younger they watched where i would go with them and kept an eye on me but they never told me i couldn't have a bf! (for the most part)

My parents are Asian, so they are extremely strict and cautious about me hanging out with guys; let alone have a boyfriend. That is out of the question for them, because of the fact that my boyfriend will be a major distraction from schoolwork, I will have sex with him and get pregnant, and the news of me having a boyfriend will somehow spread to my family giving me a "bad name." Seriously, what generation is this?! -__-''

My mom is so weird, sometimes, she jokes about me having a boyfriend, then the next day she'd be like... "If you have a boyfriend, I will kick you out of the house." -_-' You are all so lucky if you have one of those nice mom's you could tell anything to. My mom is mean as hell! LOL -_-' And my dad isn't the strict kind, but he will side with my mom against me anyday. hahahhah.

I think my dad kind of suspects me now though. Since at night I always lock my room to talk to my boyfriend on the phone. A couple of times before, he had already checked up on me. He had the keys to my room which I never knew about -_-'. Luckily, I pretended I was sleeping. Then the other day, he took my phone to work without telling me. And my boyfriend called, and my dad asked me about it. He was like, "Some guy called you." .... GREAT.. hahhaha.LUCKILY he didn't hear my voice messages that my boyfriend left. >_________< What to do..

I have to like sneak to be with my boyfriend; it's so hard to keep them from finding out.. I hate lying to them just to be with him. And I find it really hard to please both sides. Like if I say, "I don't wanna lie and sneak out." That would make him mad and doubt my love for him .. -___-' Gosh, I'm really starting to think having a boyfriend is a sucky idea.

I currently have a boyfriend that neither of my parents know about. The only reason for this is because it's long-distance and they're really strict about that kind of stuff. We've been together almost 5 months now and I've been able to hide it the whole time. I guess it's easier to hide it when he lives in a different state, but yeah. My parents usually find out, but not this time.

As others has said before me the thing with asian parents yea.
I as well have them , sigh. So i have to be sneaky and go behind their back. But since I only had around two relationships I really don't have to worry right now for my parents suspicions. But if i did have a current boyfriend I definitely would have to go behind their backs.

I've tried having a boyfriend behind their back, but they eventually found out from the parents of someone that knows us. After that I figure I'd rather be honest then get punished for my honesty by seriously being on lockdown, then have to suffer lying to them all the time

My parents know. They trust me. Besides, I'm almost moving out of the house

yeah my parents know and they care ; plus why would i wanna hide my bf?!!?! ahaha yeahh my parents really like him too

Everybody knows since I spend A LOT of time with him. I am barely home.

My mother would shoot him.

My father would bury him and rip out his eyes.

Then my father would slap me.Then send me to dominican republic to be "straightened" out.

I don't have one.Also my parents don't want me to have one.LALLALA

Maybe you should tell them you like girls and see how their perspective changes.



Haha, you should go to the nunnery or a Buddhist monestary. You already know you will never have a bf or gf, so why not start early?

(But yeah, your parents really need to chill.)

I'm not even aloud to have a BF lmao
even if I did I wouldn't be able to do anything with him. My parents get mad even if I stand NEXT to him xD

I would but i hate it when there all like "awhhh" its annoying, so i do it behind there back, they told me they dont care, as long as i dont have sex, but yea my parents dont know

my mom says i'm too young to be dating or having a bf. so i'll just go behind her back.

Haha, I would certainly hope that my folks care about my having a boyfriend - we've been in a relationship now for nearly 18 months

I always told my parents about guys I was interested in before I even met my current boyfriend. I couldn't imagine keeping secrets really.

My mom has known everything, always.

My mom knows but pretend she doesn't. :D

Haha - my parents randomly brought this up in the car when I was moving into the dorms. All through high school, my dad hasn't really cared (he'd joke around about it) and my mom was just anti-male. But what they basically said was that they didn't care if I had a boyfriend, as long as I kept my grades up and let them meet him whenever they came up to visit, which I thought was pretty decent.

Nope, they could care less ahhaha

of course he does.

hes a pervert, hes always watching o.O

Yes my parents know--they don't care. Why would they.

My mom always says "I can tell you over and over about how this and that is, but in the end you'll make your own decision."

But she knows she has nothin' to worry about. I know how to pick them. . .or rather attract them.

My parentals never realy cared. I never really started dating till i was like 15 so by then they trusted me to go out in a group; never alone with a boy, but slowly they let go and now i go out of the country with my boyfriend. (mind you weve been together 2 years) im 18 now.

I do suggest you tell your parents about BF's & GF's because if theyre against it and you tell them its not like they can lock you in your room forever.

they knew, and oh hell did they care.
f**king grounded for a year and a half.

sorry mods !

^wow. i don't tell my parents. they don't want me to date until i'm in college. f**k that -__-
i currently have a boyfriend anyways [:

i didn't tell my parents... my friends told their parents and their parents told my parents.

i hate parent gossip circles with a bloody passion. i don't get why my friends talk like that.
and then part of it was just other parents seeing me with my boyfriend in random places and talking. blahblah.

i've only had one, but didn't tell them
as for future BFs, i don't know
i guess i'll have to wait & see

I've only taken 2 people home to meet my parents since I've been dating. One person I was with for 4 years. I don't tell my parents about my relationships or take anyone home unless I'm sure about the person and unless it's serious.