i actually don't even know. they used to tell me that i wasn't allowed till i was 15. i never listened. just went behind their backs, i guess. now, i'm 15 and i've been with ym bf for a month. not really sure if i should tell them. mmm. yeah, i don't knwo whether they care or not.

if i had a bf, i would tell them, but there would be some complications...

my dad wouldnt care about anything related to the word "boyfriend" so i guess hes cool, but my mother on the other hand is WAY out there.

she knows everything going on, and would tease me. i once got a rose-a-gram from this really creepy guy, [not to be mean or anything] and i brought the rose home and ya....

....but she absolutly REFUSES to let me have a bf.

she still thinks im a little kid, and that i would party my as$ off instead of studying for that math test tomm...
she says this "you cannot and will not have a boyfriend until you are in collage and paying for your own apartment bill" well, that sucks...

my mom has said that im not allowed to have a boyfriend until im 18 and in college.
after that, she doesnt care.
I think this is only because she doesn't want a guy to interrup school work and stuff like that.
I don't know, we're Indian. I don't know any Indians who DO have a boyfriend. If they do, obviously they're hiding it.

I would probably hide it from my parents.
Even if my mom was ok with it, i could never endure the endless teasing. And HOW would my dad take it? I don't want him to know. My sister would never stop teasing me. Ugh.

My parents know I have a boyfriend. My parents know I have sex. It's better when parents know. That way you have nothing to hide

my parents don't give a crap

my parents care it so much.=[

My parent are as strick as heck.
They told me not to have a boyfriend until after college

But yea. I used to go out with a few people and my parent never found out.

yea i suppose.
My mom doesn't more than likely, my dad I guess does. He doesn't mind mine since he lives a ton of miles away. I think hes a little paranoid about him coming down though, haha.

They don`t care.As long as I don`t get pregnant.

haha. i think i'm too young to start dating; and even if i went out on a date, my parents always want to know exactly where i am, at what time, and who i am with. doesn't exactly leave much space for dating

my dad would be weirded out.. he's really protective


but my mom wouldn't care. lol.

my mom wasn't too sure at first. but now she's fine. i've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years, and he's really become apart of my family

As long as I'm honest with them, they won't care too much. As long as I don't give them a reason to suspect that I'm doing anything that I'm not supposed to be doing, they're fine w/ whatever I do.

aww, that's so cute!

i hope that's how it is when i get a boyfriend.

Yes my parents know...lol...I mean I'm like engaged...He HAD to ask my daddy before i could say yes...

but its true that i've had Bf in the past that they didn't know about...well truth is it was because they weren'y my race...

but thats all over and done i've found the one i want to spend my life with

thanks! i never intended for things to be the way they are. but that's just how things fell in to place and i'm most definately not complaining.

I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now and some other months but I haven't told anyone in my family. They are really overprotected over me and so the only people that do know are his friends, my friends, and my cousins. It's kind of hard keeping it a secret especially for THIS long but I know that if I tell my parents, they'll only flip out. Plus, it doesn't help that he's a different race.

My parents prefer me to not have a boyfriend but if I do, they would want a Vietnamese guy. Honestly, I can't stand Vietnamese guys (especially the ones around here) and I've been with my boyfriend for WAY too long now. He's someone that I can potentially see myself marrying in the near future and so I'm afraid of how my parents AND siblings are gonna handle it when I do break the news to them. .=T

But back to the topic, yes I have a boyfriend. No they don't know, and yes they will care.

No way. I would never tell them that I have a boyfriend. (asian parents) We aren't that close, so I don't tell them anything. :( If I did, or if they found out...they'd probably kick me out of the house. Yeah, we've kissed and stuff. & If they found out about that, off with my head.

i remember talking to my mom about my boyfriend before we were going out, so she had the idea that i liked him. she would ask about him and stuff sometimes, and when she met him for the first time (at a formal dance, when she dropped me off) she said he seemed like a nice boy. haha. but then when we started dating i didnt really know how she'd react if i asked her if it was okay to have a boyfriend, so i just told her, not caring what she'd say because i wouldn't break up with him for any reason, especially if she said no. so i just told her. and she was like "uhh whatever" but she really likes him so i'm happy about that.

my parents know about my boyfriend and they love him...my mom knew about my boyfriend the day we got together and it didn't take my dad long to figure out when i would stay at his house at night and not come home...but they don't care...they've met him and think he's wonderful

They know and they care but I mean they don't constantly ask me all these questions and be as annoying as hell .

Well I've never had a bf *cough* not so sure how much I want one *cough*. I probably wouldn't tell, but they don't care.

Candy-stripe a cancer ward. It's not my problem.

Family would go crazy if they find out if I had a boyfriend. Oh, he would be a dead boy next time I see him :o They (mom, dad, grandma) keep saying boys are bad, so hell, put me in a all girls school or something.

They will never touch my children D: DO THEY HONESTLY THINK I would get myself pregnant or let a stupid relationship f**k up my life (school, grades, mental stability), LIKE WHAT THE f**k? -___-

my dad died.. my mom knows she doesnt care.

i keep my love live away from my parents but they kinda suspect that i have a bf n ask me all these crazy questions [VERY ANNOYING]...... i don think imma eva tell my parents bout my bf till i'm like 18 [cuz that's wen i'm "allow" to have 1]



p.s. i kinda agree wit xwinnie lol

my parents are fine with me having boyfriends and whatnot. they're always like "we lived our teenage years, we shouldn't stop you living yours." but it's pretty stupid how i don't tell them when i do have a boyfriend. i find it weird and awkward & since i don't feel like going through that stage of questions, awarkness and everything else i don't say a word. they never found out. =]

technically, i'm not supposed to date until i'm 74.

Hah. My parents don't know a damn thing. It's better off that way.

My mom new about all of my bf's [5 including my current] and she was totally cool about it. I dunno if my dad knew, but he knew about my ex and my current bf lol.

I'm not sure they care. They never ask questions and stuff, but me and my bf have been going out for over a year now.

They let him come over all the time, and my dad even allowed my bf to go with us to disneyland not too long ago. I think they're cool ^-^

Well I don't have a bf, but if i did. I wouldn't go behind their backs, i would tell them and they would have to accept it. My mom doesn't want me to date until i'm like finish school. And my dad probably doesn't care.

Yeah they do, and they're fine with it.

My mom& dad knew about one of my boyfriends, but they don't know about the guy I'm dating now. I should tell them soon. Hm.

My parents know about my current boyfriend, but I didn't tell them about my second or first bfs. But then, I was living at school at the time, so they didn't know anything I didn't tell them.

They're cool with this one, but then, I'm nineteen, so maybe age makes a difference.

back in highschool, i wouldnt tell my parents at all. before my current bf now, i had like 5 bf's that i never told my parents about. they used to care so much, because they wanted me to do good in school and what not!
but now they looooooove my bf, they don't care anymore :)

Both my parents died when I was really young so..
My brother though always knows and cares.

I've only had one bf, and it wasn't really a bf. We were long distance so basically all we did was talk on the phone & chat online. Haha...But my parents DID make fun of me..

They said I couldn't have a "real" bf till I'm in 12th grade. AWESOME, neh? T.T

Well. no actually they didnt know in the short period of time that i had one. i think they would give me the talk[for the THIRD TIME!] and it would just add stress i just dont really need.

^ ditto about the whole parent talk thing :3

my dad didn't know about my first boyfriend till after a few weeks in and then he gave me this whole talk..and always does when he sees me with a new guy

mom wouldn't....care much. But i'm dating behind her back right now.

Yep, my parents know. They don't mind either. They're always asking if he wants to come round and they don't mind picking me up from his house and stuff. His Parents are really cool about it too. I think that your parents and mates being happy for you counts in a realtionship - although it's not a neccessary thing it just feels nice to have people on your side, there for you.

I got in trouble, when me got a bf. So now, i guess i have to wait till after highschool. but whatever...LOL

boyfriend no (dont have one). girlfriend no.

my parents don't care. if my grades drop because i'm spending too much time with the guy though, they'd definitely flip out. lucky for me, that hasn't happened.

Nope

This is lame but...I'm not allowed to have a bf til after college! Yea..but I've had 2 (they only knew about my recent 1 & wanted to break it off with him so I I lied & said I did LOL) already so whatever

^^That applies to my dad & his "wife". My mom don't care though (not my dad's wife...get me now?)

I don't have one as a result of my parents not wanting me to have one until I'm out of high school.

My dads always like ;your not gunna get married'


but hes just a fag.


if i had a boyfriend, i wouldnt tell them.

My parents don't know much because I don't tell them. I don't spend much time with him so they wouldn't get suspicious. I know my ways. So yeah, they don't know a lot yet. But they stalk me!

My parents want me to date after college. I guess not.