LeSLiE
Aug 13 2004, 11:39 PM
QUOTE(lazy_little_one @ Aug 12 2004, 8:22 PM)
well my parents think its innapropriate at my age
but im 13!!!!!!
Yeah same with my parents...i'm 13 too, but i have an older sister who had her first bf at 15 and they didn't care..soo i hope it wares off quick..
GyrL_wit_da_KuRLz
Aug 13 2004, 11:52 PM
well my mom had known me for habin bfs....she doesnt care....she incouraged me to b wt them....buh now that shes noes that im bi/les..lol...shes WANTS ME TO HAB BFS!!!....she doesnt noe ive had a gf fer almost 11 months..muahahah

...lets keep it dat way

...lol
sunissed14127
Aug 14 2004, 12:15 AM
myne dont kare
kbgirly
Aug 14 2004, 12:23 AM
my parents say...after high school...but it's gonna take foreverrrrrrrr
im going out behind their backsss
Invisablepopcorn
Aug 14 2004, 10:17 AM
They know and they love him to death. He's part of the family. My mom actually asks me stuff like, "Have you kissed yet?" And she tells me to do stuff with him.
xnastyninjagrlx
Aug 16 2004, 02:01 PM
My parents totally cares! I couldn't date in High School at all cuz they thought I was still young so I had to have a couple of b/fs behind their backs. I have a B/f now and they STILL care even when I'm a 3rd year in college..but they only hate the idea cuz they dont' like him. Ehh..it's gonna be like this for the rest of my life.
MeanBastard
Aug 16 2004, 02:04 PM
QUOTE(sugarcultluver @ Aug 12 2004, 8:21 PM)
how come they wouldnt understand?? my parents know
For one, asian parents usuaully do not want their kids dating until they finish their edumacation.
bByxLuv4ble
Aug 16 2004, 02:27 PM
QUOTE
For one, asian parents usuaully do not want their kids dating until they finish their edumacation.
yeah thats true
eli5e
Aug 20 2004, 04:00 PM
i dont hav a bf right now.. but i would NOt tell them.. if they found out they wont care ..but still i wouldnt tell them.
tallaznkate
Aug 20 2004, 07:13 PM
MY MOM WANTS ME TO HAVE A BF -_____-
Caitlin
Aug 20 2004, 07:42 PM
they think i am too young to date. so i have been dating behind their backs :/
I wish I could tell them sometimes though
miss_tragedy
Aug 20 2004, 09:32 PM
My parents love my boyfriend, or at least my mom does.
</3 Liz
dfly112
Aug 21 2004, 02:06 AM
my very very first gf (age 13/14 i think) i didnt tell my parents bout... but they knew cuz i wuz incredibly bzi. so i decided to let them meet n kno bout my gfs... i think its betta newaiz cuz i got to see her lots more...
babyxtc626
Aug 21 2004, 03:11 AM
my parents omg....they wanna noe everything..theyr'e lik if u gota bf..bring him home n see him..we wanna see if he's right for you..man they swear..they've only met 2 guyz...i dont like bringing guyz home..unless they speshol to me
TheSuGaRAdDiCt
Aug 21 2004, 10:29 PM
they don't like the idea at all!!! i had a bf. and i kept it a secret for the whole time we were going out! that was about 9 months!! hahaha! THEY'LL NEVER KNOW!!
FallenAngels
Aug 21 2004, 11:01 PM
i don't have one at the moment... My mom just said as long as he is a good guy and i don't do anything wrong shes okay with it. But my dad totally doesn't trust me... he says its the guys he dousn't trust but i know better he doesn't trust me... and i don't understand why i have never done anything for him to act that way
burning_years
Aug 21 2004, 11:08 PM
my parents don't really care .. well my mother doesn't. i haven't actually had a boyfriend since a kid that was younger than me in 6th grade .. he was in 5th grade .. so my mom and brother think that my close guy friends are my boyfriends and i don't have the heart to tell them wrong. my father, though, i'm not sure about him. i'm sure if he knew, he wouldn't be happy. but what can he do? nothing that would have much impact, obviously. i know kids with parents that really, strongly encourage dating at ages like 13, 14, 15.. it's not such a wrong thing, at all. =D
EddieV
Aug 23 2004, 02:37 AM
my dad thinks its a big deal, eh for me to have a girfriend...
sheddingtears
Aug 23 2004, 03:26 AM
Same here. I wouldn't tell my parents that I have one. They would think I'm gonna turn into some high school dropout and have some low-paid sad job. Oh and they would kill me as well. Because of I fear of what my parents will think, I don't think I'm gonna have a bf in HS at all. Sad.
lilyxx489xx
Aug 23 2004, 09:38 AM
i cant tell my parents...i tried and they flipped...but i like being single now anyways...in the past i was "boy crazy" or at least thought i was...but yeah i dont wanna date til college anyways...
Looow
Aug 23 2004, 08:51 PM
lol glad you made a thread on this...my parents dont want me going out with anyone till i'm 15 too...bleh...i had bf's b4 but i didn't tell them...i would be in so much trouble..i wonder why they don't understand tho...maybe its a mexican thing...
stephinika
Aug 23 2004, 08:52 PM
a few years ago they would have freaked out so i went behind their back...they figured it out later (after it was over) and they didn't care so much. they know about my boyfriend now and they don't mind. well my dad kinda does but my mom is keeping him away...haha but they have lots and lots of rules and are really strict about it.
tImOnE
Aug 25 2004, 02:02 PM
nope
picaso_smile
Aug 25 2004, 02:04 PM
I don't tell my parents unless they ask. It's kind of on a need to know basis.
xnastyninjagrlx
Aug 25 2004, 03:18 PM
Let's juss say I don't tell my parents anything cuz once they know they start plotting to break us up!!
1--GIRL
Aug 25 2004, 10:02 PM
I'd tell my Mom after like 2 months of dating.. but I'd have a hard time telling my dad
s0pnayish
Aug 25 2004, 11:05 PM
I've gone through a couple of boyfriends w/o my parents knowing, but halfway through my freshmen year, i finally got the courage to introduce them to my parents. so now, my parents know all of my ex-boyfriends starting from freshmen year, and they love my current boyfriend.
tooshie
Aug 25 2004, 11:46 PM
i've told them when i had boyfriends but no details or anything. lol it never made much sense to me when girls told their moms about their delicious make out sessions.

well one of my relationships ended cause of parent troubles so i'm not planning on telling them anymore
to those girls that tell your parents and they approve, CONGRATULATIONS!!
Deeply Reminiscent
Aug 26 2004, 02:30 PM
well, i barely ever tell them because then my mom would say, "break him with him if he makes you so unhappy," and my dad would judge them on what they look like (eh, sterotypes). they always think my boyfriend's are up to no good, but i dont tell him, and i refuse to listen to their opinion of them because, they havent even got to know him like i do.
cutielilsuga
Aug 26 2004, 02:32 PM
hrrmmm my dad don't know about my bf's
Deeply Reminiscent
Aug 26 2004, 04:52 PM
eh, my parents know, sometimes. but they dont really care, but they really wanna meet my boyfriends. i've been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half months now and she has meet him, dont think he's really for me, but she doesnt convience me to dump him either, but she does say "dump him if he makes you unhappy or treat you bad." so yeah.
dreamerOi
Aug 27 2004, 03:02 AM
my mom yea she doesnt really care but sometimes she goes crazy and tells everyone in my entire famliy which is really lame and my dad is like silent but evil eye hahaa so yea so lamee
casssy
Aug 27 2004, 03:59 AM
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Jun 9 2004, 7:36 AM)
Of course I tell my parents about my boyfriends. I even like to bring them for dinner sometimes

hahaha oh man that cracked me up... you rock seon ho =]
tallaznkate
Aug 27 2004, 10:22 AM
i DONT DATE YET. NOT UNTiL 16.
islandkiss
Aug 30 2004, 08:23 AM
my ex and I dated for a yr and they never found out..
x_babii_gherl_x
Sep 1 2004, 06:37 PM
haha myne could care less if i have a boyfrend or not.. they dont even feel like meetin them.. but they alwaize end up meetin them
DittotoAnne18
Sep 3 2004, 08:21 AM
nope, i dont bother to tell them
awww it was so sweet, my friends older sister was 13 when she met this guy and he waited til she was 16 so they could go out (becuase she wasnt allowed to date until she was 16)
nlgrl
Sep 3 2004, 08:23 AM
i do it behind their backs -_-
swtpumkinpie
Sep 3 2004, 10:51 AM
my parent knew right away and they cared. now my mom doesn't seem to care anymore cuz my dad liked him.
Glamourouz
Sep 3 2004, 11:11 AM
My mom knows I have bfs, but my didn't know until I was 16 and I'm about to be 17 next week so he definitely doesn't care as much now....
Too Asian To DIE
Sep 3 2004, 11:57 AM
i just do it behind their backs but they havent said anything bout me if i could go out or not but i think that they care. but its easy 4 me to do cause they r not always at home and i can just go out and be back be4 they come back home.
lyin_in_wait
Sep 3 2004, 12:16 PM
they never told me an age that i couldnt have a bf so i went out and got one one day, i was too young though i dont think i was ready though i did alot of stupid stuff but thats in the past so anyways yea if i had one they would care alot
pbear
Sep 3 2004, 02:04 PM
Only when I'm 18 and in college.
If that.
Rawr.
But they don't have to know everything about my life, now do they?
pnai4eva
Sep 3 2004, 05:00 PM
I don't have a boyfriend now right at this moment. If i did, i would never tell my parents. But if they found out, they'd kill me! They jus' want me 2 focus on school and no boys.
conster
Sep 3 2004, 07:31 PM
haha my parents used to be overprotective, but i fought my way through
slurp
Sep 3 2004, 07:34 PM
my parents care but i guess they realized they cant stop me
bballchick1
Sep 3 2004, 09:50 PM
well i didn't vote because i don't have a boyfriend but yea i would tell my mom if i had a boyfriend
fallenang3l211
Sep 3 2004, 10:57 PM
my bf and i have been going out for 13 months (and counting) i brought him home after...after our 2nd month. I wasn't gonna bring him home until after 6 months, but..my dad kind found out cuz i left pictures of us lying around in my room, and he went in to fix my computer. I got busted! it was weird at first, but after a while they were cool with him. my parents welcomed him, and i was so glad! after a while they just expected him to come over =)
smthngcrprategrl34
Sep 3 2004, 11:56 PM
um they'd probably find out eventually but i still wouldn't tell them.
sharerolling
Sep 4 2004, 12:25 AM
No, I dont have a boyfriend. And I wont have one until Im 17.

Oh well...at least I dont care right now. I might later on.
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