adnilamila_fe
Jul 28 2004, 12:45 AM
i neva tell my family (mom, grandma, great grandma, uncle, and aunt) ne thing unless its for skool or a b-day party or band but crushes, grades, bfs (thats is, WHEN i get one, lol) i neva tell them. but my aunt on the otha hand, she doesnt care if i get a bf just as long as i tell her and not lie about it and just keep my studies/grades up. but my otha family not including my aunt doesn't really want me to have a bf, i think...not sure though. lol. but they do probably want me to marry an azn but i don't think thats gonna happen cuz i just don't. lol. plus...I'M gonna pick who i'm gonna marry cuz sometimes the family or mom picks the husband but thats is NOT gonna happen to me. lol.
sh0rt13
Jul 28 2004, 01:08 AM
i try not to tell em about my bf's or crushes or things like that. it jus feels weird. but they're cool wit my guy friends..i jus dont think i'd be able to tell em that my very close guy friend that comes ova sometimes ..is the guy that i have a crush on!
HoneyGurl
Jul 28 2004, 01:20 AM
No way and it'll stay lyadat
celebrityaddict5
Jul 28 2004, 04:23 AM
.........I tell them...........is that bad? LoL. They dont really care. Um...when I told my mom about my first boyfriend she was like, "Oh" that was it, because the guy I was with I knew since I was in Kindergarten. But she never seen him before really...*I know...weird* and my dad just asked fatherly questions like: Is he chinese? How old is he? What's his name? Where does he live? And I live in a small town in TX so if I tell my dad what street he'd like...know exactly where he is...but my dad isnt the type where if my bf broke up with me, which he did, like go out and hunt him down and like...run him over with his car or something. When I got dumped my mom was like, "Oh, you'll find someone else" and my dad was like, "...whatever, he was ugly anyways" which he really was. So...THE END. LoL.
lazy_little_one
Aug 12 2004, 08:19 PM
i dont have a boyfriend, but if i did, i would NEVER tell my parents! they just dont understand...
so how bout you?
Angel_Cece
Aug 12 2004, 08:21 PM
ya when i had 1 they didnt care
sugarcultluver
Aug 12 2004, 08:21 PM
how come they wouldnt understand?? my parents know
lazy_little_one
Aug 12 2004, 08:22 PM
well my parents think its innapropriate at my age
but im 13!!!!!!
highly_evolved
Aug 12 2004, 08:23 PM
i never told my parents...but she found out some how! but by then we had broken up so i said i didnt have one.
lazy_little_one
Aug 12 2004, 08:25 PM
my mom says none till im 15
dani41790
Aug 12 2004, 08:30 PM
yea they noe. wat they dont noe is that i started dating him b4 i waz allowed to start dating. but yea they do care that i have one. bleh they suck. they wont let me do anything with him and stuff like that cuz they dont trust me.
lazy_little_one
Aug 12 2004, 08:31 PM
haha i know how u feel =/
elmogurly
Aug 12 2004, 08:41 PM
i'm not sure. it was a joke that i can't have one...but we'll see..muhahhaa.

...hehe
melmigs
Aug 12 2004, 08:42 PM
They know. And they don't care.
FalliNGxFaST
Aug 12 2004, 08:47 PM
I always tell my parents whenever I have a boyfriend... they are fine with it.
Well there was one they didnt know about, but only because I was afraid they woud not approve. Doesn't really matter though because it only lasted 3 days! (haha I remember all those unserious relationships)
c0nfus3dmisfit
Aug 12 2004, 08:49 PM
my mom only knew about one of my boyfriends. and even then, she didnt know till halfway into our relationship.
my dad on the otherhand never knew or never cared. i dont like telling my mom about my bfs
tyedyefroggy
Aug 12 2004, 08:50 PM
i cant really vote here becuase they dont know, but they dont care, but they DO care becuase of what my sister has done in the past with guys.....and if I tell them my mom will like make fun of me in a teasing way and I dont really like that so I might not tell them yet LoL
so I guess Im in between o.O
lazy_little_one
Aug 12 2004, 09:07 PM
=] ic....well i had a boyfriend in kindergrden, but then again, that was when parents thought it was the cutest thing.

but now....its like woah, they r all freaked out. =/
mznina
Aug 12 2004, 10:50 PM
they know i have a bf, and no they dont care....( i dont think they do)
I_feel_beautiful
Aug 12 2004, 10:50 PM
they care. they dont care as long as he dosent distract me. from school and ****. cuz my parents are just f**king obsessed with school.
unfortunatekiwi
Aug 12 2004, 10:51 PM
haha. that reminds me. i had 3 boyfriends in kindergarten.
anyway...if i have a new boyfriend...i don't tell my mom but somehow she'll find out...like i'll leave a note from my friend about him in my lunch bag and the next day she'll be packing my lunch and find it. osmething like that. anyway...she doesn't really care. just kinda says "oh. who is he?" i tell her. end of conversation. me and my mom don't really communicate that much.
inlonelinessidie
Aug 12 2004, 10:54 PM
My parents don't care if I have a boyfriend. My mom is actually the one wanting me to date. LMAO she's wanted me to have a boyfriend since I was like 12.
lazy_little_one
Aug 12 2004, 11:29 PM
lmao i wish my mom was like that
LOLLiROT__DOLLiEx
Aug 12 2004, 11:31 PM
my mom always knows about my b/f's. she doesn't care as long as he isn't like, 2 years older then me. meh.
inthemudhole
Aug 12 2004, 11:38 PM
I have one.
My parents cared.. big time.
When I finally told them, they were utterly and completely pissed.
But they said if I don't take it any farther than I have.. they're OKAY with it.
laur3nw
Aug 13 2004, 12:51 AM
my mom would be fine with it, but i dont know about my dad..he probably thinks im too young to have a bf
x0143637x0
Aug 13 2004, 12:53 AM
both of my parents dont kno i have a bf because i kno that they will not approve of me dating yet. they said i can start dating after high school. but thats too long and i cant control my feelings.
tootsie_kiddo
Aug 13 2004, 01:10 AM
my parentz kno. but i told em bout my x and they didnt care
booger butt
Aug 13 2004, 01:20 AM
hmm I really dont know.
they know he's a "close friend" (according to them). And that we hang out and do things a lot. I believe my mom has a hint but I really havent told her. They like him though, so that is all that matters.
x0143637x0: they said I can start dating after high school I agree, WAY tooooo long.
LatinaLady
Aug 13 2004, 02:05 AM
im pretty sure they know. they dont want me to, both keep giving "lectures" boys will take all your time, they are bad, they will make you a bad person" but alli say it uh huh. and what do i do....
thesweetescape
Aug 13 2004, 02:17 AM
whenever i have a boyfriend, my parents eventually end up finding out, even if it's not by me directly. i have four sisters and they are also four of my closest friends so i'll tell one of them and then it spreads like a fire...but i don't really care if they find out because they are okay with it.
Joyie
Aug 13 2004, 06:55 AM
My parents were against me dating.
But then I went behind their backs and started going out with my bf.
And then I went through this rebellious stage... so then my mom finally accepted my bf...
And now my dad has accepted him, too.
And now... my whole damn family loooooooooooooooves my bf. My baby sister even loves him more than me. Hmph. And everyone always goes, "Where's Danny? Why didn't he come?" Blah, blah, blah... they don't care about me. :( El oh el.
But yeah, now my bf is living with us. How grand.
lilbabicarmi
Aug 13 2004, 10:38 AM
i went out a couple of tymes behind their baqs, dey jus say dat ish bad fo yoo cuz ish goin to ruin mah shewl work. i jus told them dat i'm goin to grow old with my seven cats n no one else. haha they believed dat.
they found out once buh they took it okay cuz my grades were goin up instead buh dey didn't know dat i copied mah hw n test from frwds. buh dis tyme i ain't goin b a one telLin dem. besides ish a long distance relationship. roflz buh we know wut we feEl..
-carmi
lazy_little_one
Aug 13 2004, 11:08 AM
my parents think boys r dangerous

and all they want is *** so im not allowed till in in high school
xx angelbabu xx
Aug 13 2004, 11:17 AM
i don't have a boyfriend but if i did, i don't think my parents will care at all... they want me to have a bf anyway.. lol
lazy_little_one
Aug 13 2004, 11:18 AM
QUOTE
i don't have a boyfriend but if i did, i don't think my parents will care at all... they want me to have a bf anyway
^mayn i wish my parents were like that
swe3txprincesz
Aug 13 2004, 12:42 PM
my parents would kill me if they found out i had a boyfriend
krn_biznatch
Aug 13 2004, 12:46 PM
my mother doesnt really care if i have a bf or not. but she makes me go out and make bfs lols
xsweetdreams12x
Aug 13 2004, 12:53 PM
I've never had one.
But if I did, I wouldn't tell them.
They watch too much news and soap operas.
Thinking I'm "too young" and I'll get too "serious."
I'm only 12... I'm not gonna get serious at my age.
Pft.
lila200098
Aug 13 2004, 01:12 PM
i dont have one but if i did, my mom would kill me! I have this 16 year old sis and she brought over this boy. then my mom told her that she cant have boys over and my sis said that he was just a close friend. i knew he was. but my mom said that u cant be close frends with boys. She can only have a boyfrend when shes 18. wich reely sucks!

im planning on tellin her when i get a boyfrend but im a-scared! im probably gonna do it by email.
mouse_3k
Aug 13 2004, 01:37 PM
yah, but i think theyr care a little bit. they wanna meet him and after tht and if they like him, then i can do w/e. movies, mall, etc. Sometimes i go to this resturant thts close by his house so i tell my parents i go to tht resturant and walk to his house.
but the current bf, my mom & dad loves him. its cool
silver-rain
Aug 13 2004, 01:58 PM
eh-my parents don't really want me to have a boyfriend yet. but when i had one, i didn't really tell them- they just learned about it because i would always talk about him. but- i don't think they cared that much.
LiNHy POO
Aug 13 2004, 05:51 PM
yehh they dont care! soo cool!!! as long as im not doing anything badd its ok then! haha i tell my parents everything about my boyfriends! well... ALOMST everything.
DrEaMgUy2K1
Aug 13 2004, 05:53 PM
dont care o.o if i have a GF <-- clearin that up rite now ;]
Eternally_Yours
Aug 13 2004, 07:47 PM
my mom says "no dating till youre in college!" but im gonna fet one behind her back anyway. but she gets really paranoid when im talking on the phone with a guy friend.
cutielilsuga
Aug 13 2004, 08:00 PM
no...but never have an option that said
no, but they don't care
so i voted no...but my parents don't really care
so i don't inform them
AfGtHuGeTTe
Aug 13 2004, 08:47 PM
ma parentz care, they think itz a bad thin lol. 4 god sake im 16!!!!!!!!
Devastation
Aug 13 2004, 08:51 PM
nope they dont care.
BeautifulSoul
Aug 13 2004, 09:44 PM
My parents do not allow me to go out with any guy until I'm finished with college. It sucks. But when I do find a guy and if I haven't finished college yet, I will go out with him in secret.
karrii
Aug 13 2004, 09:46 PM
my parents don't know. either that.. or they do and haven't talked to me about it. they've told me that they don't want me to have a bf, though.
This is a "lo-fi" version of our main content. To view the full version with more information, formatting and images, please
click here.