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ELizabethx143
I guess I was just curious.. how many of you plan on saving sex for marriage? Why.. why not? Or if you're not a virgin, do you regret giving it up so young? Or just.. what do you think about it? I plan on saving it for as long as I can.. religious reasons.. and my own goals. Just wanted to see what other girls think.
Weird addiction
ewww hell no...im gonna have sex b4 getting married,WAY before

i is no virg..
mai_z
I wouldn't specifically save it for marriage, but i wouldn't define it before or after i guess. It'd be when I find the right person, and I feel comfortable.
CrimsonArchangel
I'll save it.
Its the right thing to do.
LiNHy POO
im going to save myself... i was brought up to believe that you should be pure... and that's the best gift you could ever give your hubby. happy.gif
eversosweet
i prolly will save it till marriage. or when da rite guy comes along wink.gif
Angel_Cece
hell nah
shawty_redd
im gonna try to..think i will but i dunno
swtpumkinpie
i'm not a virgin and i regret giving my virginity to the person but i'm not regretting it with my bf.
tootsie_kiddo
i've never thought bout it but i dnt think i'll save it... virginity isnt really a big thing for me... _dry.gif
Angel_Cece
but im a virgin and i wont save anythng 4 marriage dun wanna b waitin 4 sum man that may not even fulfill my f'n needs ssry kinda speakin my heart out
Fashionista225
Yea, I'm savin it..there's too much out there to worry about. That's why I'm in CATS
lilphoenix
'k.

Most of the girls replying here are all virgins. (Note I said most.)

It's kinda weird...


Anyways, as for me...
QUOTE
I wouldn't specifically save it for marriage, but i wouldn't define it before or after i guess. It'd be when I find the right person, and I feel comfortable.


Same w/ me.

When the time comes, I'll kno. Along w/ the rite guy.
Fallen_Fairy
QUOTE(Fashionista225 @ Aug 11 2004, 11:56 AM)
Yea, I'm savin it..there's too much out there to worry about. That's why I'm in CATS

cats? what is that

and yeak i'll probably save myself
Re-Mixxed
Well, thats what I'm doin. So..
xoxlstephlxox
I think I will def. save it for my honeymoon nite ... i think its the right thing to do ...
booger butt
I'm not a virgin. I really dont regret losing it either. Yes it was a big deal and still is, but I am still with him and love him dearly. happy.gif

And I dont have a problem with the people who say they are but when the 12 or 13 year olds hit high school, things might change.

But keep pushing yourself till marriage, its a special bond...and when boys are teenagers...it usually has no meaning but to get into your pants and a reputation. stubborn.gif happy.gif
freeflow
i dont think anyone should save it cuz thats too long to wait ! ahha biggrin.gif
Devastation
as for a boy, whatever happens, happens for a reason.
ghjgfkgfk
i think i have explaiend this like 54643x34 times on here but oh well.
you don't need marriage to prove someone that you love them. marriage doesnt mean anythign anymore. the feeling is still there and you don't need a fancy slip of paper to prove that.
tinababy143
i wanted to save myself for marriage..but i was raped when i was 15 and i chose to have sex with my current boyyfriend. But after a while I realized that that wasnt the person i wanted to be and thats not what i wanted to do..so we stopped having sex and now im waiting till marriage
sammi rules you
i don't really believe in saving sex for marriage. nothing will happen to me now, so..yeah. i'm planning on going for senior prom night. biggrin.gif
Eternally_Yours
im still not sure yet. im mean i dont wanna lose my virginity to just some random guy you know...?
sweetbabiix333
i would definitely wait `till marriage ... =]*
tallaznkate
i'LL SAVE FOR MARRiAGE. i THiNK iT'S MORE MEANiNGFUL THAT WAY AND i'M SURE MY HUSBAND WiLL APPRECiATE iT.
phatty
hopefully i can save it till marriage~~
LOLLiROT__DOLLiEx
QUOTE
i've never thought bout it but i dnt think i'll save it... virginity isnt really a big thing for me... 


same here happy.gif
Gr33nT3agUrL
To me i don think sex is that important to me (mayb to most pplz) so I'll definitely savin it foe marriage n I also hab a reason foe that to... whistling.gif
miss_tragedy
I'm not going to save it for marriage.

I honestly don't think I could wait that long.

Me and my current boyfriend of almost 1 year, have actually been talking about having sex. But, he wants me to go to the doctor and be put on the pill first, so I'm going on Monday. And, I love him, and he loves me. I won't regret any of it. (and hes a virgin too)

But, go you's that are waiting till marriage, seriously. I just couldn't do it, and I love my boyfriend now a lot, and we're ready. Its hard to explain. blink.gif

</3 Liz
eli5e
im planning on waiting.. but if that perfect guy rolls around, maybe.
xsweetdreams12x
I'm not setting a specific time I want to have sex.

Whenever I find the right person, and it can be when I'm married, or not. happy.gif
elmogurly
ME. i will. i've said this before and i'll say it again. i feel that i should be a virgin till i get married, so i know that i saved myself for my husband. i will know that i saved something for someone i vowed to love FOREVER. that's just my thoughts. happy.gif
moonies
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im going to save myself... i was brought up to believe that you should be pure... and that's the best gift you could ever give your hubby.

i've been brought up that way too, so that's why i plan to stay a virgin until marriage or when i find the one person i know i can spend the rest of my life with
LatinaLady
i dont belive in regrets/ everything happens for a reason.
but for people who are saving them i think its so beautiful they are.
XHiddenbeautyX
ima save it for marriage, some ppl may think its ok not to, but i feel that its the right thing to do tongue.gif
pinkrocsmysocs
i think thAt is the best thing n e one could do b cuz then ppl wouldnt have baby (lik mah friend ) at 15
MeanBastard
Shrug, prob will. But whatever happens happens.
mouse_3k
im tryin to save it cause its something special only my husband deserves
JessJR1022
I always planned to wait until marriage and stuff.... and then with my current boyfriend.... it did't reallly happen, can't say if was ready or not, but it happened.... and I got lucky and won't ever regret who it was with, cuz we are gonna be together forever wub.gif and that's not some girly fantasty... 2 years!!! biggrin.gif
captivatedheart
i'm saving myself til marriage.. i don't want to risk anything.
HuGs_fOr_yOu
QUOTE(LiNHy POO @ Aug 11 2004, 10:51 AM)
im going to save myself... i was brought up to believe that you should be pure... and that's the best gift you could ever give your hubby. happy.gif

what she sed biggrin.gif
dani41790
well umm i plan on saving myself for marriage because i dont wanna end up losing it to a guy that i mite break up with. id rather lose it to tha guy i love and that im gonna spend the rest of my life with.
[2]realisticx
I am going to save myself for marriage. Most of my friends don't really care if they save it or not, but i mean what's the point of having sex before..?
mizzinno
QUOTE(moonies @ Aug 11 2004, 8:17 PM)
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im going to save myself... i was brought up to believe that you should be pure... and that's the best gift you could ever give your hubby.

i've been brought up that way too, so that's why i plan to stay a virgin until marriage or when i find the one person i know i can spend the rest of my life with

me too.
i've been taught that the reason you wear a white dress at ur wedding is because it means pure(quoted). save it till marriage, or until the person you know you're going to/or want to be with the rest of your life comes along. _smile.gif

x3 happy.gif
carmi96
im catholic so it s no sex b4 marriage 4 me, even tho guys say im missin out lol
xox Qt LuVZ xox
Yup, I'm going to save it. Besides, you never know if the guy might be using you, ya know? And what if the condom breaks and the guy avoids you or something? Eh, besides if you save it for the right person, it'll be really special.
dreamerOi
yea or if im in love with him like a lot then yea
bballchick1
i'm saving for marriage
unfortunatekiwi
i don't really plan on waiting until i'm married...but who knows...*shrug*

i'm only 12. what do i know? (still...i'm not going to be some huge slut either...i'll probably wait until i'm in my last few years of highschool at least. maybe i'll wait until college. i guess it depends when the right guy comes along, you know?)
islandkiss
I'm planning on having sex when I'm married.
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