ya...i was on my bf's sn, and there was this girl that imed him. i started talkin to her and i told her who i was and this and that..

but then she said she was sheltons exgirlfriend last week!they broke up only a couple days ago... and ive been goin out with him fo lik 9 months...

ive been grounded for 2 months, but still... when i asked him about it, he denies it and says shes lieing... ..

wut shuld i do?

kind of confusing, but are you trying to say that your bf is cheating on you?

hmm. ask the girl if she has something that can prove it..like, a picture with the date on it..or a note or something..maybe a saved IM..

the girl could be makin that up to try to sabotage ur relationship...do u really feel like he's been cheatin on u? does he have the time to do so? i've been in this situation 2x before..once it was a sabotage..the 2nd time it was true

Do you actually know who she is? Like somebody at school that you've talked to or seen before? If so, ask her friends if they were going out.

I also agree with xtiffysweetzx. She may be trying to sabotage your relationship cause she actually likes him.

She is a KGB Agent. Report her to your local Un-American Activities Committee.

^dude ur weird ..... lol^

anyways , ur boyfriends been naughty,force him in telling the truth!!!

thanks yall. but he broke up with me....9 months down the drain

ouch =/ i say the guy is lying for his reputation?

hmm..dun hurt urself..just talk to him..if it doesent work than talk 2 the girl..if u still love him than trust him..if you done trust him..that means u lost ur trust 4 him riight?..so than if u lost ur trust 4 him wats the point of wasting time on him?..there are plenty of guys out there 4 u..if ur a in middle school or high school it doesent matter its realli just puppy love..dun worry n enjoy life with people around that u can trust n that loves u

i think that girl mite be lying tho.. so dont believe her 100% but dont pretend its nothing, talk to ur bf about it would be the best

.. that's what I would do.