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sikdragon
OK I have known these two girls the same amount of time, they both fine as hell. Both get very jealous and are very good friends. They both like me and are sincere. I like them both equally, but for different reasons.
Who do i choose?

Brown Eyes: determined, great dancer, loves music, great sense of style.
Green Eyes: smart, independant, awesome singer, imaginative.
DrEaMgUy2K1
i probally would have tried to date them both at the same time lol, but if u want some serious advice then date the one them , and if things dont work out, onto the other one. just be nice and friendly with the girl ur not seeing,so when the time comes her door is still open
sikdragon
that was my plan
danielle7715
whichever one makes you happier.
flip_dorkette
QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Aug 9 2004, 6:21 PM)
i probally would have tried to date them both at the same time lol, but if u want some serious advice then date the one them , and if things dont work out, onto the other one. just be nice and friendly with the girl ur not seeing,so when the time comes her door is still open

aww... dont do that...... that happened to me, and it hurt like hell cry.gif .... i told the 1st boy i ever really cared about that i liked him, and another girl liked him also and told him so on the same day.... he spent a lot of time with both of us, trying to choose... ((he liked me for 2 whole years, but he had more classes with her so hed be able to spend more time with her; cause he had after school activities and was mostly busy)) the whole time i felt like a gold fish at a pet store; just waiting for that boy to choose me... but he didnt.. he chose her.

he was always nice to me; but it felt like he was cheating on her with me.. and i didnt want to be part of that.. it drove me to a point where i couldnt even smile infront of her ((felt guilty you know?)).. so eventually i began to hang around him at a minimal.. then she dumped him cause she was just using him, and he came back to me..... but i said no _unsure.gif ((such an asshat to think id go back after what he did)).

in conclusion: dont try one of them and date the other if it doesnt work out;
1) if they really do care, youd hurt them when you do that
and 2) if you go out with one, there might not be a chance to go back for the other if you make a mistake....

just get to know them better some other way.. ask your friends what theyd think.. try asking yourself which of those girls would really care about you.. observe their actions when theyre with other people; maybe theres something about one of them you missed.
someflipguy
I always love a girl that can really shake her @$$ on the dance floor but if she isn't smart and can't keep a conversation going than sorry for ya
conster
i dont think u should try things with one and go to another one... the 2nd girl u go to will think shes a replacement and the 1st one will think shes a tryout... if both dont work out they'll hate u forever

its not who makes u happy... but who ur happy with... who u feel comfortable with.. who u think u will last longer with..

i test my comfort wit a guy by burping lol if im not shy wit burping in front of him i think im pretty comfortable wit him lol
xtiffysweetzx
go w. the girl who makes u happier...which one can u carry a decent convo w/? the 2nd girl sounds betta tho..thas juss my opinion
ichiban
the one who makes you happier, noduh. don't even try dating one and then the other kus thats justt wrong
xsweetdreams12x
Who do you trust more? huh.gif

Go for the girl that does. happy.gif
ComradeRed
Ask yourself: What would Uncle Stalin do? And you have your answer.
sheepy
well its your choice. which one will you NOE you wunt regret to spend your entire life with, and dats her.


but secretly i lik the second one ;p
sikdragon
ok what about a date at the same time, niether would feel like a replacement or tryout. I have watched a lot of three's company and it could be like elimidate only noone gets eliminated and we all end up in bed. ok now u made me feel like a whore, am i just dreaming?
xtiffysweetzx
lol..that wouldnt work
mouse_3k
lol ur actually gunna choose over eye color? ooooooook....

which do u think is closer with u and more able to take on a relationship without much problems? im sure u will choose the perfect one soon.
sikdragon
no im not choosing over eye color, its like a nickname so i dont have to use their names.
lurideyes
um here's a tip for you...if you are gonna date ANY girl, try and keep away from her friends in that way. That will only bring drama. So going into this relationship (whoever you chose) you are gonna need to be prepared for some girly drama. *sigh* we girls need to chill sometimes.

But I say go for the girl you feel most comfortable around, like the one that you can let loose with.
ghjgfkgfk
i would not chose between good friends, it might start drama ohmy.gif
jimmyjackiechan
I'd got with the Green Eyes. I like independent women that don't rely on thier man for things. Shows maturity
sikdragon
so nobody thinks i could pull of going with both?
DrEaMgUy2K1
no body really cares
sikdragon
now u just trying to get another post quit being an arse and go back to whatever maggot infested dump u were educated in.
sikdragon
im sorry i didnt mean that
sporadic
Go with personality over hobbies...

brown eyes.
I think.
Whichever one is listed second :P
sweetdreamsx3
QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Aug 9 2004, 4:21 AM)
i probally would have tried to date them both at the same time lol, but if u want some serious advice then date the one them , and if things dont work out, onto the other one. just be nice and friendly with the girl ur not seeing,so when the time comes her door is still open

blink.gif Is someone a player?

Anyhoo, playing someone isn't exactly fun, unless it's revenge of course, then who cares, but none of the girls done anything bad to you, so I don't think you should date both of them at the same time. pinch.gif

Pick the one on whoever makes you the happiest, the one you get along with real easy, etc. etc. Not on someone who's "fione as hell".
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