i've been dating a guy who lives 30 minutes away for about 4 months now. i've known that i wanted to break it off for awhile now, but i just can't do it. he's the most geniunley nice guy i've ever met, he has goals, he's intelligent, witty, so much fun, wealthy, and very much loved (the perfect guy)...the only problem is our relationship has been dwindling, we dont talk as much or get to see eachother because of the distance. i know he cares alot about me and i have so much respect for him and he's the last person i'd want to hurt. how do i let him down the easiest and make sure we'll be friends after this?

*danielle

Is he the perfect guy for you?

Even though he seems perfect, he may not be right for you.

You've made it seem that there's nothing that doesn't want you to break it off with him is the distance. Is that all?

distance, and we're not as close as i'd like us to be at this point. not as much attraction anymore...that kind of deal...
<3 danielle

Icic.

Then just break it off.
It may be hard, but you can't let yourself be walked upon and stay with him just because you're afraid of hurting his feelings.

i'd tell him all of that that you just told us, he'll understand.

yea just tell him it's the distance... i mean, there's nothin u can really do about it u kno

i think the easiest way not hurting someone is to hurt them all at once.. its better that u rip their heart all at once then to tear it bit by bit.. which hurts more.. so just say it all out straight out

u can try sparking the relationship back again

if hes the perfect guy for you, distance shouldnt matter. it matters tht you two are in love and nothing can get in the way.

next week is me and my bf's 5th month anniversary. We live like 20-30 minutes apart and he has summer school (which is gunna end this week thank god) and I havent seen him in 2-3 weeks...Yah we dont see each other much but once you do see him, its like all the bad things go away. Me and my bf dont talk much online or on the fone lately but we still are going strong and love each other.

And because u guys dont talk much, dont mean its over. If you really care about him and love him then u guys should try to work things out.

Im sure things will get better down the road!

well i just dumped him. thanks for all the advice guys, it was the right thing to do...although im still crying about it.

eeks. if you wanna break up. meet somewhere face to face. its better than on the phone. be as nice and polite as you can. goodluck!

Just Do It. (face 2 face if possible) just tell the truth, and be honest.

if u really want to end things heh, just break it down clearly to him heh, like nike and wut other people said. "JUST DO IT"

relationships... funny. love is for the weak minded

no need to hate the ppl tht is in love with someone