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pinnapple_princess
hi...i have a friend...well i don't really consider her a friend any more....i've tried my best to be nice to her, but it seems as if she is alwayz getting mad at me for no reason. we got into once and i didnt want her to be mad at me so i just appologized for absolutely no reason... i just told her that i was very sorry for everything...she was my friend again for a little bit but then got mad at me again...im sick of her getting mad at me for no apparent reason and im sick of her trying to turn my other friends against me. every time i get to hang with some other boys she jus tries to ruin it for me... some say she's jealous but i wouldnt understand y...because i'm just trying to get to know new people...when she gets angry at me she just tries to get every one else to hate me...i'm reall confused right now and i would like to know what you guyz think about this whole situation...thanx
yeseulx3
i have a friend who's kind of like that, in a way.
what i would do is...

DUMP HER, BITCH SLAP HER, AND THEN FRY HER.

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alwaysalone
QUOTE(pinnapple_princess @ Aug 7 2004, 8:43 AM)
hi...i have a friend...well i don't really consider her a friend any more....i've tried my best to be nice to her, but it seems as if she is alwayz getting mad at me for no reason.  we got into once and i didnt want her to be mad at me so i just appologized for absolutely no reason... i just told her that i was very sorry for everything...she was my friend again for a little bit but then got mad at me again...im sick of her getting mad at me for no apparent reason and im sick of her trying to turn my other friends against me.  every time i get to hang with some other boys she jus tries to ruin it for me... some say she's jealous but i wouldnt understand y...because i'm just trying to get to know new people...when she gets angry at me she just tries to get every one else to hate me...i'm reall confused right now and i would like to know what you guyz think about this whole situation...thanx

hmm...I've been in that kind of situation before.....My 'friend' was really starting to annoy me. One day, she pretty far and kicked me for no apparent reason...she got mad at me for some reason and decided to give me a scar. I decided to kick her back, hard enough, that I put her on the ground. My science teacher saw and I almost got in trouble. She was telling people how I was such a bad person...and how I'm mean and heartless. I can get bitter at some times, filled with rage even, but I am certainly not heartless. _dry.gif She really got my blood boiling, I tried being nice to her, but no. She has to go and turn her back because I had revenge. I confronted her and we are not 'friends' anymore. ermm.gif It really lifted some weight from my shoulders. I KNOW the situation sucks. I doubt I'll be of any help at all sooo....yeah.
-Yumi
LiNHy POO
never had a friend like that... but really NO ONE NEEDS UN-NESSCERY DRAMA! if i were you, i juss dump her.... she needs to ne more matue and stop playing games! and then she likes the fact that you kiss up! she's probaely enjoying the torture she's putting you through.. stubborn.gif
RiC3xBoy
tell her to eff off, she gets amd for no reason at u and u dun deserve it, my geuss is she IS jealous
tootsie_kiddo
she's a bitch
or she has PMS 24/7. if so, she needz to c a doctor regarding her menstrual cycle stubborn.gif
x AZN D0RKii x
maybe you shouldn't be friends with her because she always seem to be jealous of you. and she doesn't seem to be a very good friend either _unsure.gif
xsweetdreams12x
Bitch. stubborn.gif

I had a "friend" like that. She'd tell all my friends that we weren't REALLY friends. Pissed me off. She e-mailed me asking if I was mad at her, so of course we got into an e-mailing bitch fight. _dry.gif
xoxlstephlxox
...hey I def. know how u feel! I am gonna tell u this right now...IT IS RLY HARD TO LOOSE A FRIEND! I was in somewhat the same position as u...My friend who no longer speaks to me was always mad at me b.c. of stuff that my other friends would say to her. I feel as if that was not my problem b/c I wasnt even around when she was being made fun of. I tried to talk to her and everything...nothing worked so I can honesly say I am heartbroken b.c. she was my best friend. Its hard to think that someone who hates u knows everything about ur life. I dont know how nebody could do this to someone. I'll post another reply so this isnt too long...but I have another person who I no longer speak to also...
xoxlstephlxox
...oka the other grl who I speak to sometimes was the SAME way. She was a close friend of mine. She got into boys...and so did I. But when I would hang out w/ a boy she would take control. I had 1 b.f. and we broke up cuz of her. She will get mad @ me for something I say...She will ask me if she likes the outfit...Im not gonna lie...so I state my opinion and she gets mad...we wont speak for about a month...and then I end up apologizing for nothin I did. I mean I am a friend and they are supposed to tell the truth...I said the pants dont rly look good w. that shirt...do u want me to go get u another pair to try on...and she got mad!?
lurideyes
just do your best to forget her and try and ignore her completely
talentedbabe04
QUOTE(lurideyes @ Aug 7 2004, 12:03 PM)
just do your best to forget her and try and ignore her completely

you're right. if she wants to be like that, then just let her be the way she is. there's no point in being her friend anymore. and if she tries to get your friends to turn against you.. well, don't let her just tell her you don't wanna have anything to do with her anymore and just please stop turning your friends against you. you just need to stand up for yourself. if any one of your friends turns against you, they're not a good friend. a good friend stays by your side and they're always there for you no matter what.
conster
yea let her be wut she wants to. if the ppl she tries to pull over to her side goes to her side, they werent ur friends then.. cuz they didnt give u a chance to explain how u feel
Darkpekkle
did you try flat out asking her what it was that you did to make her mad? if so, has she refused to explain what you did wrong? if that is the case, then she's just being a b*tch for no good reason... u don't need a "friend" who makes YOU apologize when you don't even know what you're apologizing for. however, there may be a chance that it's just a big misunderstanding... perhaps someone told her that you were tlaking **** about her behind her back and promised not to tell? idk. but from what you told us, it sounds like she's being mean and enjoying it.
sunshiNe_sweeTi_
y b friends w/ that gurl..she ain't worth it...

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DUMP HER, BITCH SLAP HER, AND THEN FRY HER.
Alpha240
get rid of her!!!!! people like that just hold you down... i had a "friend" before who was a b*tch and me gettin rid of her was one of the best things i did cool.gif
slurp
i dont see whats the point if yalls staying friends then? pinch.gif whistling.gif
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