My friend keeps IMing me telling me out beautiful and perfect and my bf is lucky to have me and all. he liked me since I was a freshmen (im a soph now and hes a senior) and its kinda annoying but sorta flattering in a way i guess but not like tht. I mean, hes a nice guy to me and all but..he's not tht kinda guy i sorta want (cheats, not a virgin, smokes, etc.) so yah..I think he still likes me since he gave me this messege when i was asleep on IM

-hey your awesome and beautiful and ____(my bf) is lucky to have you and it is scary how close you are to being perfect you are incredible any guy who fu*ks up with you has their on damn problems your awesome bye-

(I edited sum bad words and names from it so ya)

He also gave me more messeges like this whole week but i didnt save em all so ya

I want to tell him tht I dont like him like tht and all but its hard..NE suggestions?

(((PS. my bf doesnt know my friend keeps leaving these messeges..)


gosh, im not tht pretty lordy..

hmm. just tell him you love him as a friend ONLY.lol. um.. actualy. i derno.. ok..bye! lol

Kiss your boyfriend in front of him.
And not just a peck, I mean, make out.
Aww man, It's gonna be fun hearing his heartbreak all the way over here.

*CRACK*
< Me > Yay!

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

HAHAAH CEP... thass sad..

yea, but he shouldnt do that since he KNOWS you haev a bf. You should straight out tell him you like him as a friend only, and to respect your bf by not hitting on his gurl

He might invoke the Divine Right of Upperclassmen on you. Kill him first.

tell ur bf n haf him beat the sh*t outta dat guy lol jk
but u should really tell the guy to bak off n that u dont like him bak

But if you did that, as a senior, he would feel really bad about getting rejected by a froshsoph and then try to kill you.

you need to make him understand that u have a b.f and you dont intend on breaking up with him. thats the only way hes gonna stop.

jackie

Aha, you underestimate the resolve of the Soviet Union, comrade!

Is your boyfriend a froshsoph too? If that's the case, his life may be in mortal danger as well.

^^ russians....

no my bf is gunna be a junior..only a yr older then me

hmm.... just tell him that you don't have feelings for him in that.. way

hes a senior? so hes gonna leave anyways lol who cares about him... and jus go like.. STFU i knoe im beautiful and u aint gonna get me LOL seriously u should try taht

forget about it. you really shouldnt be thinking about it...you have a good bf right? and he's not your type... even though sometimes we girls just love to try and tame the bad boys... XP

i kno sumone lyk dat. he keepz on telling me stuff datz nice....but i dnt want to accept those complimentz u kno? bout my ass n stuff....

tell your boyfriend and ask for his advice.

Get a new sn/block him. That's only a temporary solution, though.

just ignore him... lol.

Tell him to stop since you're not interested in him.

If you don't like confrontations then block him or get a new screen name.

if you confront him in the wrong way, he seems like the type to go psychotic, so i'd say do it gently. tell him you're TAKEN, and you dont respect the things that he does (smokes, ect.). tell him even if you were single, he wouldn't be your first pick anyways. then continue to talk to him, but everytime he makes a flirtatious comment, i'd say change the subject. away messages dont hurt either.

or put up with it for awhile. he'll be graduating.
*danielle

what a weirdo... block him and ignore him at school... he'll get the point

tell him that you like him as a friend and only as a friend, and since he does know you have a boyfriend, he might want to back off before your boyfriend does something and yeah making out with your boyfriend in front of him might work since he wont back off

tell him to stop giving you dat kind of messages cuz ur bf mite not really like it, and mayb u should tell your bf about it too.
nd yes its seriously really annoying, i mean yes its very flattering cept i wish boys would stop doing dat. but y wunt the guy i like do dat T.T LOL