okay well... i need help.... do you know what myspace is? wll if you dont.. its like a personal website about yourself meeting others... i met this one guy.... hes 19... and he goes to Mesa State in Colorado... and im 14... and i go to a private school in hawaii. this guy... he lives in hawaii too.. he just goes to college up there... heres the thing... ive never met him before. and i barely know him. ive always thought it was stupid to like someone youve never even met. i mean i met this guy from the internet! hes so attractive.. i mean his pictures anyways... i get along with him very well... we talk on the phone every chance we get... am i being stupid for this!? i mean... ive never met him.. but i feel like i can talk to him about anything. hes so nice and i think im falling for him.. is that okay?! hes soo many miles away and 5 years older then i am and ive nevr met him. someone please tell me what to do!

well...i think you should try not to fall for him too much just incase you get hurt later on...the age thing is also pretty tough...i dunno...uve got a hard case here...><''

yea i agree with ^her^...maybe if he's in hawaii and you are too you can hang out together...learn more about each other...then you can make a decision if it's really worth it? the best i can give...
jane*

sorry to trash your dreams but....





DO YOU REALLY THINK HE'S SERIOUS ABOUT YOU?

Meh, Gina.
You should go with someone closer to you.
Like Me..or Chris.
We both live in Cali.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

umm..i dont think yu should actually meet in person ..i mean wut if hes just a fool ya neva noe

Be careful..ther r many weird people out thrr.. *sexual preditors*

hint hint_
lol

if you do decide to meet him, then bring a can of pepper spray with you, just incase.

how do you know those pictures are really him what if he steals them from someone off the net and sends them to you as him....has he ever proven it's him?

Internet relationships can be pretty risky, and seeing as you are 14 and this guy is 19, things are even riskier. He could easily take advantage of you. AND if you DO end up in a serious relationship, you can't have sex until you are 18, and he might not want to wait four years and he may become unfaithful and cheat. I really don't think it is a good idea, there is plenty of people your age out there who would be safer and easier to go out with. But hey, it is your decision..i'm just giving my input. Anyways, good luck.

xox Spanky

You don't really know if those pictures are him..just be safe and try not to give all of your personal info because you can never trust the internet all the time..

dont fall for him. his pictures might be fake. he might be some freaky 40 yr old. and also..seriously..a 19 yr old and a 14 yr old? its possible but its rare...and wht will ur parents think..

find someone ur own age. dont get to attached

uhm. no. any sane 'cute' 19 year old would NOT want to be with a 14 year old. sorry, but no.

he's most likely some way desperate 50 year old fat guy who wants to rape you.

if you are worried about liking him, like someone else.. someone you actually know. and cut off all contact with him