Do they eva work? I'm in the middle of one and its it sorta questionable. I think my boyfriend deseves soem1 who he can be more hands on with. But i love him to much to let him go. He loves me lots too. I don't wanna brake his heart because of my insecuretes. Any1 been here? We make plans almost every month but the plans neva work out and we have yet to see eachother all summer. He means so much to me.... *sigh*

Emmers

I've been waiting for that fisrt insecure kiss. For that first time he says "I Love You" But mostly, I've benn waiting for miles inbetween our lips to become inches

Long distance relationships rarely work out usually because of lack of communication or lack of trust.

im in one now but then again, we only live like 30 minutes apart but still...yes it is hard but if ur in love, nothing can keep u apart. yes there were alot of fights and trust problems and stuff but if u love him, then u should get over those problems and just enjoy being with him.

yehh!!! if you make them work! only thing you have to worry about is TRUST!! im also in one myself... im in texas, he's in tennessee! and yehh we're making the best of what we can... sometimes it is hard though... but heyy the more the distance the more i want to be with him more!

That's not too far... there is only one state in between you...

some works, some dont, it depends how much effort yalls are going to put in the relationship, as long as yalls are feeling the love, i dont see the problem

six&i = 3yrs ;P

...so i don't know, you tell me ;]

Ermm.

I don't know.
You have to work hard to make it work, but I'm sure lots of the time they don't..

I really do not know, though, because I've only had one boyfriend, and he lives 2 blocks away from me.

Greetings!!

i can't say much on dis. but i know somone who is in one and she is gettin married to him. well, not so soon but it's inda planing. just to prove it, dis is her link. she's one of ma close frens and imma so proud to see her gettin dis far!!

background check. tatika (ma fren) is from indonesia while chris is from da states. now tat's a long distance i tell ya!!

CHEERS CB!!

ya. im goin out with a guy i barely see. but we live 17 minutes away, so i dont think thats long distance sry if im no help

sometimes they do, sometimes they dont... it depends..

i think they usually don't do.... after a while.

They usually never work but thats because the people involved in them don't work together to make their relationship work. If you guys really love each other then distance shouldn't be a problem. Both of you should know how to communicate with each other and everything else will be okay.

If you love each other that much.. it might work.

I wouldn't know. I've never been in love.

Actually, trust isn't even an issue with us. we trust eachother more than nay1 else in the world. We live 2 hours away wich seems like an eternity.

for the peeps gonna get married. thanx. you put a whole new spin in my mind. *hugs* thanx

emmers

it depends .. is he trustworthy ?

My long distance relationship didn't work out I was stupid to think it would. But it depends on the couple and on the relationship, so yeh, I dunno really

i agree

from my experience, the long distance stuff didn't really work out... i mean it did for a while... but well, let's just say all good things come to an end.

anyways, i know what you mean by wanting him to have a relationship with someone he could have more physical contact with. I mean, it's so hard to comfort someone who's miles away from you... you can't give him that special hug to make him feel important and wanted... you can't kiss him to make his worries float away.

but if you guys keep trying to make things work, the relationship will stay strong- just don't give up. and someone above mentioned that a long distance couple is getting married (congrats to them! it's so sweet!), so it shows that they DO work if you just try hard enough.

take care~

yea sometimes they do work. theres this one couple i noe who had a long distance relationship for 4 years till they met up in college. they r gonna get married

yep it could work. has to be a lot of trust, hard work, intuition, and um, confidence with the two and all that other good shyt. <==random smiley

for me they work ^^ my boyfriend lives in Massachusettes and I live in New Jersey, thats about four hours. plus the fact theres a three year age difference [im 13]
but we never have had issues with the fact that we live so far apart. that only makes us wanna see each other more and me and him are really close

omg! i went through the same thing.... well.... heres the story.. im from hawaii... oahu to be exact.... and i went to a dance with my friends..... and one of my friends from that school introduced me to this guy who he was housing because he was playing baseball here... well... haha it was just a joke at first... my friend asked me to give this guy a lap dance.... but i didnt and we just danced... at the end of the dance he asked for my number and we were connected ever since then. he lived in molokai. (another island) he was also 4 years older then i was. he showed me the meaning of love. i couldnt breathe without him. he was my best friend, my everything. though i only saw him a few times.... it was hard. real hard. i even cheated on him. he forgave me for it but i wasnt able to trust him. he had a ex girlfriend from 4 years who wouldnt leave him alone. that made it even worse. i was head over heels in love with him but i couldnt trust him. i needed to have the feeling of someone here holding my hand physically not just emotionally... so i once again cheated on him. i felt so horrible, yet right. i dont know.. he was a senior.. he had grad parties and he needed to be able to act like a senior. i felt like i was holding him back. everything was falling apart... so i just decided to let him go. he was off to the military in a month or so... it was just too much to handle. well what im trying to say is that.... sometimes when you have the will power to... it works. so many people told me it wouldnt work... but it got alot further then i thoght it would. its up to YOU BOTH to make it happen. if you really really want it. it'll be.



ps. i found another guy whos in colorado going to college... i hope to keep this one. =]

hmmm... long distance relationships...

hey does relationship with GOD count as long distnace?

But Jesus is suppsoed to live in our hearts, so really it's a very short-distance relationship.

yeah trust if a big part of long distance relationships and keeping in touch with one another. im in one right now too and he lives all the way in georgia and i live in california but i trust him and he trust me and of course we talk! muahaha going to see him again soon WOOT. but i did go out with one guy i never met and then we broke up. and he went out with my cousin...wth? lol but they broke up after one day. FEH

That's not too bad... there's only 5 states in between you...

They work occasionally.
It's hard because you can't see each other as much, but it can happen.

well it really depends... like if you guys were together and then the guy moved or something like that...then it might slowly go fade.... cuz usually long distant relationships dont work...no offense though... especially if you met online... if ur nice you guy should remain friends...and tell him to seek someone for gf material...like someone around his area... cuz i know its really hard...since my bf went to california for the whole summer like its been a month already...
*piggie*

if you trust each other and you work with the time you can get to see each other you'll do just fine. i've been in a relationship for well over 3 years now and it's still going strong. it takes a lot of patience and constant effort from both sides though. communication is key. so make sure you guys talk everything out.

yea I had a long distance relationship but then again she lived in Australia and I Las Vegas. So it was a big difference. She use to live near me. It did not work but if she was just a couple hours away it probbly would of worked. Anyways im over it now. It was a hard thing to go through at the time ( really hard ). It was not so much of the lack of trust( becuase we trusted each other 100%) but more of the lack of not being to be with the person physically that made it not work out.

Yep, took the words right out of my mouth.

I didn't work. After my first day of school, i called to tell him how my day went adn he said, "We need to talk." Funny thing is, 1 of us talked, 1 of us got the crap kicked out of our emotions. Wanna guess who was who?

He just said, "I can't go out with you anymore."

he won't give me reason. he probebley won't give me the time of day anymore. he said he loved three days b4. I don't hate him...unless there was another girl. then i hate him. but until, i know the reason, my feelings are nutural. *sigh*

thay either brake ur heart or you love him more...

bleh.... i don't think they work... most long-distance relationships i've seen don't last.... the ones that my friends have been in.... never lasted... i was in one like a loooonnnngngggg time ago didn't last... so eh...

they dont last long at all because they hardly see each other.