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asiangetokewl

Aug 2 2004, 02:44 AM

Hey all, what's up?

Um, can someone please make me feel better in some way please???... like... I don't know how to say describe this post... but like... dahh the post does have meaning...

Right now I'm sad as hell, depressed you might say. I feel like running away, moving away, dying, etc; the worst possible things imaginable. My first girlfriend who I had true feelings for has left my life forever by going off to college. So what right, she's only at college?! Well... yesterday I gave her her grad gift and told her how I felt and this is what she emailed to me as her response to my outburst of my emotions for her.

QUOTE

"hey chris, i just wanted to say thanks for the purse and it wil definately come in handy during the school year. also i have been thinking about how it's not fair that i know how u feel towards me and that i don't mention any of mine, so here goes. There have been a lot of thoughts going through my head about this issue. i have very strong feelings for u... I'm sorry, HAD, but i also know that if there was ever a relationship again, it would go no where. so i guess, i would prefer if we stayed friends... or just go our separate ways in life..."

- my first "love"

I really wanted her back in my life... as what we had, but I guess I can't turn back time. Please help me with any advice, words, help w/e you've got.

thank you

chris

***plus i think i should've put this in relationships section... oops...

Retrogressive

Aug 2 2004, 02:55 AM

sorry dude, but the best thing I can say is get over it. Move on with your life.

azndragn

Aug 2 2004, 03:10 AM

QUOTE(loseronaisle5 @ Aug 2 2004, 2:55 AM)

sorry dude, but the best thing I can say is get over it. Move on with your life.

dude...that was harsh

im really sorry for you, i dont know what to say...

except im really sorry

i hope you feel better soon...

-brandon

f00LisH_h3aRt63

Aug 2 2004, 04:21 AM

aww man chris im soo sorry. first loves are tough to let go. its gonna sound harsh and unthinkable but the only thing u can do is move on. im sorry for saying that but thats the only thing i could think of. i hope you feel better.

Moved to Relationships

jackie

ghjgfkgfk

Aug 2 2004, 05:35 AM

QUOTE(loseronaisle5 @ Aug 2 2004, 2:55 AM)

sorry dude, but the best thing I can say is get over it. Move on with your life.

that was not harsh. it was the truth.

meh. go write a song about it.

DrEaMgUy2K1

Aug 2 2004, 05:54 AM

first of all you should let your emotions show and tell people why u are the way you are,so ur friends and family will be there to comfort you.

Second , dont try to hide your sadness or depression,that only makes it hurt more, try writing a poem,blogging,anything that lets you "release" your pain exept uh, mutilation that is

third thing is well... it is your first love and we all understand your pain,well most of us that is... heres the truth. <STRONG>You can never really "get over it and move on"</STRONG> . You can just try to accept the fact that shes gone and your gonna have to find a new person to replace wut you have lost... not exactly like her, but someone who u share a "spark" with. eh?

KrNc0nfus3d

Aug 2 2004, 05:57 AM

awww....sry man i noe how it feels im still tryin to get ova my first....its harsh....but i dont noe wut to say cuz i dont even noe wut to do....

inthemudhole

Aug 2 2004, 09:44 AM

I'm sorry to hear that.
I don't know what it's like to be dumped, so yeah. I've only had one boyfriend so far in life, and we're still together.

So I'm not much help.
All I can say from my stand-point is.. get over it, move on, and be happy.

ComradeRed

Aug 2 2004, 09:50 AM

Suicide is the only way out...

ghjgfkgfk

Aug 2 2004, 09:55 AM

QUOTE(ComradeRed @ Aug 2 2004, 9:50 AM)

Suicide is the only way out...

inthemudhole

Aug 2 2004, 10:01 AM

QUOTE(ComradeRed @ Aug 2 2004, 9:50 AM)

Suicide is the only way out...

Feh.
I hope you're joking.

CEP

Aug 2 2004, 10:33 AM

I agree.
Suicide is your only option.
*nods*

JOKE [audience laughs uncomfortably]
-----

So anyways, I say go play CS and join a n00b server. And watch as your score becoms 50 and 0.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

WishinguponmyStar

Aug 2 2004, 10:36 AM

QUOTE(ComradeRed @ Aug 2 2004, 9:50 AM)

Suicide is the only way out...

That is not the answer, don't even think about it, its not worth losing your life over, there is someone for everyone

R|_|f|_|5

Aug 2 2004, 11:28 AM

Well, that really ******* suks, well time heals everything pal. er... hang out with your friends n stuff, times like these is when they come in handy

Dont worry, youl find someone else soon. But you do have to let her go, thats a must..

ghjgfkgfk

Aug 2 2004, 12:49 PM

QUOTE(WishinguponmyStar @ Aug 2 2004, 10:36 AM)

That is not the answer, don't even think about it, its not worth losing your life over, there is someone for everyone

am i the only one who knew that he was joking?

x0143637x0

Aug 2 2004, 01:44 PM

if she doesnt feel tthe same anymore you should just move on. she may be ur first grlfriend but there are gonna be others that your gonna fall for. you just gotta lift ur head up and look for them

asiangetokewl

Aug 2 2004, 01:45 PM

QUOTE(airam @ Aug 2 2004, 10:49 AM)

am i the only one who knew that he was joking?

hehe.... yea pplz, i can tell he's joking. thanks everyonoe for the comments, its making me feel better...

conster

Aug 2 2004, 09:38 PM

im kinda late.. but i guess its better to be late than never rite?

heh time will tell everything and prove everything to u, it'll take u some time to get over her but look at all ur cb buddies

we all cheering for u

captured_serenity

Sep 1 2004, 01:48 PM

just know that you should life itself because the relationships arent going to help you any in becoming sucessful...but it's all cool...

eboarder2020

Sep 1 2004, 02:09 PM

Hey man,

Yeah I've been in your shoes... NOt exactly the same situation, but i know what its like to be dumped and i know what its like to lose someone that close. The best advice i can give you is to not hold anything back when it comes to how sad you are. If you wanna cry then let your tears fall like rain. If you wanna talk find someone who will listen and talk to them. If you have any emotions find someway to let them out... HOlding that kind of stuff in will kill anyone no matter how strong they are. Also it may help to take breaks during your day just to think about her and gather your thoughts... Surpressing those memories is also a bad thing because one day they might catch up to you, and you'll fall harder then ever... The last thing I did when I was dumped was listen to a few songs that either made me cry or made me think. One song in particular helped me alot... Its by Keith Urban and the song is called "You'll think of me"... I've posted the lyrics after this paragraph... But anywas take care and good luck.

QUOTE

I woke up early this morning around 4am
With the moon shining bright as headlights on the interstate
I pulled the covers over my head and tried to catch some sleep
But thoughts of us kept keeping me awake
Ever since you found yourself in someone else's arms
I've been tryin' my best to get along
But that's OK
There's nothing left to say, but

Take your records, take your freedom
Take your memories I don't need 'em
Take your space and take your reasons
But you'll think of me
take your cat and leave my sweater
'Cause we have nothing left to weather
In fact I'll feel a whole lot better
But you'll think of me, you'll think of me

I went out driving trying to clear my head
I tried to sweep out all the ruins that my emotions left
I guess I'm feeling just a little tired of this
And all the baggage that seems to still exist
It seems the only blessing I have left to my name
Is not knowing what we could have been
What we should have been
So

Take your records, take your freedom
Take your memories I don't need 'em
Take your space and take your reasons
But you'll think of me
take your cat and leave my sweater
'Cause we have nothing left to weather
In fact I'll feel a whole lot better
But you'll think of me

Someday I'm gonna run across your mind
Don't worry, I'll be fine
I'm gonna be alright
While you're sleeping with your pride
Wishing I could hold you tight
I'll be over you
And on with my life

So take your records, take your freedom
Take your memories I don't need'em
take your cat and leave my sweater
'Cause we have nothing left to weather
In fact I'll feel a whole lot better
But you'll think of me

So take your records, take your freedom
Take your memories I don't need 'em
Take your space and all your reasons
But you'll think of me
And take your cat and leave my sweater
'Cause we got nothing left to weather
In fact I'll feel a whole lot better
But you'll think of me, you'll think of me, yeah

And you're gonna think of me
Oh someday baby, someday

silver-rain

Sep 1 2004, 03:59 PM

aww, i'm really sorry. i kinda know how you feel, but i guess you'll just have to get over her and move on.

MeanBastard

Sep 1 2004, 05:36 PM

You got owned. Lmao.

inthemudhole

Sep 1 2004, 05:44 PM

QUOTE(WishinguponmyStar @ Aug 2 2004, 10:36 AM)

That is not the answer, don't even think about it, its not worth losing your life over, there is someone for everyone

^Nice car.

I don't get it why people feel the need to attach an image. -_-

[i]LLMATiC

Sep 1 2004, 05:51 PM

boy have i been in this situation b4. what i did was move on. prollie the best thing i did. well good for me. i mean theres no point in bein in a relationship wit someone that doesnt feel that way. im srry if this sounds harsh but im jus tryin to help. i knoe she was ur first love and those are hard to get over. but theres jus no point in tryin to dwell on the past. whats done is done. and if somewhere down the line she changes her mind then thats great!! but if not then theres always other ppl. and for all u know theres tons and tons of girls that are dying for your call. that speshul girl could b right under your nose. but yea thats my piece

» MiLANO

ineed2bluvd

Sep 1 2004, 06:03 PM

well.. im sry that this happened to u.. and most ppl go on with their life.. u can either write a poem.. or write a song.. or w/e u need to to b happy.. EXCEPT suicide.. all i can say is.. just dont cut urself or kill urself.. belive me.. its not the answer..

slurp

Sep 2 2004, 01:49 AM

time is everything, dont worry if you guys are meant to be it'll be

aznsorpor

Sep 9 2004, 01:37 AM

aww.. i'm sorry to hear it.. i think you should like try to think it through.. she told u what is on her mind.. if i were you .. i would try to forgive her and respect her for her decision.. you can't force her to do something that she doesnt want to do.. like if she doesnt think that u two should be in the relationship problem.. try.. TRY.. your best to respect her decision..

yeseulx3

Sep 9 2004, 05:13 AM

eh... try to express your feelings and release some of that stress.
....

like, kill someone.

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