well, i really like this guy, but he's really...sensitive. i don't know, but he has more mood swings than me and i know we like eachother but frequently find myself wanting him to like me more by trying to cheer him up from his sadness, and when he's happy... i'm happy. i'm not desperate or anything, but i feel like i'm giving in too much into this relationship. am i overreacting??

girls always wish their "man" to have a sensitive side but if hes moppy and super sensitive and has more mood swings then u..... you mite get tired of him quick, do you want a boy or a man as ur boyfriend?

Depends on you.

he could be bipolar.

if not he's a pussy. here kitty, kitty, kitty!

tell him toughen up

Ya, Bipolar is a tricky thing...you have to deal with it correctly....It is all on you if you really see if this is worth it...sorry to make it sound so blunt...but it saves the heart in the long run.

Uh.. you guys are just friends, right? Because at the end of your post, u wrote relationship @_@ lol. Well anyywas hm.. maybe if you try, you can try to help him stop his mood swings. Maybe he has some problems with family or something. But as long as you can cheer him, then maybe he won't have so many mood swings lol. Just be CAREFUL. Because guys who have mood swings.. They could become angry easily.. Then the next day they can get depressed lol. Those guys might be the wrong guy for you because that ugy COULD get abusive in a relationship if his mod swings are really serious.

thanks you guys it really really helped.
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one quick thing - if ur always there for him, he can take advantage of that...

wait would that be a good or a bad thing?? i know that i'm always gonna be there for him as a friend, but maybe he is taking advantage of me... i really want a guy that will be there for me, so maybe this isn't the best thing i should get into, and i'm soooo over his drama. hmm, that really made me think.
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