theres a bunch of girls in my school that i would really like to talk to and get to know, but then im 2 shy to actually do it...ne helpful ideas?

here are the steps


1) walk up to them
2) look at the ugliest one in the group
3) say to the ugly one "your the prettiest, finest, sexiest, bootylicious, good gracious ass bodacious, flirtatcious GIRL OUT OF THE GIRLS HERE"
4) emphasize the """good gracious ass bodacious, flirtatcious""" *try to be gangsta when you say that* got that G???
5) turn around and walk away
6) REPEAT TILL THE "FINEST" GIRL OF THE GROUP TALKS TO YOU "she will talk to you cause she will get jealous that your only talking to the ugly girl when the fine girl is right next to her" "she knows shes the finest girl too"
7) STOP repeating only when everyone calls you "WANGSTA" or you get slapped by the ugly girl, which ever comes first

usually it's kinda hard if you're shy. try to find a friend who's friends with her and then try to meet her through your friend, that usually works best since the stranger has an idea of what kinda person you are through your friend.

haha does that even make any sense? =X

Girls usually feel the same way. In fact, girls are usually flattered when they are approached (well, I am. lol).. Just go up to the girls and be casual. Before talking to them, maybe you can find a common interest and talk to them about that.

Just go up to her. Take the initiative. Girls dig confident guys.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

Just be yourself. Introduce yourself and just find some common ground. Or just do what I would do, talk to them for no reason about nothing in particular. Or my backup plan - poke them. They know I'm weird. Good luck!

Poke them?


In other words....FLIRT!

I'm really shy, too. When it comes to girls.

I remember when I was in this room with this girl, just the two of us. Neither of us were talking and I thought I should start a conversation.. so I was like.. "So.. what's your favorite school subject?"

i dont know how to explain it, but i just do it, crap. most girls like it when I make them laugh, i can act goofy around them and htey like it, so they keep coming back to talk to me.

try to start a convo with them and conquer your fears. Just give it all you got...

there was one time when i was in the same situation so i was just like....so how was ur dinner last niight? im such a loser but whatever

just have the courage to talk to the girls thats the only way you can start having friends.

it took like 3 months to actually get d courage to go to the gurl i like and say... Hey whatsup... can I buy you lunch today?

Lol damn that was a funny day.

start with a hi, it'll eventually progress

Iam extremly shy, I woulden't know.

best advice : .. learn t0 n0t be so0 shy .. y0u w0n't get anywhere if y0u aren't at least a little aggressive 0r have s0me c0nfidence .. girls aren't as attracted t0 a guy that'll sit back and n0t kn0w what t0 say .. sh0w that y0u are b0ld and will take a risk in saying h0w y0u feel .. go0d luck!!

That's true. Step up and talk

say hi and start a convo. It's HARD as crap and I still can't do it. ( i myself am still not brave enough ) but, it's easier said than done. But the rewards are great.

But, in my case, i am quiet in school. When people come up to talk to me, then I talk back, if not, then I am quiet like a mouse~

I make scary faces at the boys I like.....I think it scares them.

ya except if u dont no em or anything about em, how are u supposed to start a convo?

how else were you able to make friends? hehe .. nobody is a mind reader .. break the ice .. be confident and stride up to them and just talk about basic things .. don't say anything silly or that might be offensive .. but i'm sure you already know that hehe =] .. say something like *hi . how are you doing?* .. give compliments, etc .. it's the best and most efficient way of making new friends and meeting new people .. you miss out on the opportunity if you are too shy to give it a shot ;] .. you don't have to know anything about them yet .. that's what you want to eventually get to do .. so GO FOR IT!! :D you can do it hehe