i think i'm starting to like my neighbor. he's 1 year older than me. i want to let him know that i like him but i feel really embarrassed when i'm about to tell him. a few months ago my friend liked him and he said he wouldn't go out with anyone younger than him but i'm starting to like him alot. and whenever my friend called him and she said i wanted to tell him something, all of a sudden he said he was busy and had to go. what do ya'll think i should do??

Ermm.
Try again..?
Maybe you should try and be his friend first.. let him show you're cool even if you're younger than him..

1 age diff aint that bad...

and this topic should be moved.... eh, it might just be me.

You enver know.. he COULD be really shy.. he could SAY things but not mean them.. YOu never know.. GUYS are confusing. Of course, guys probably think that about us girls lol. Aww that's sweet that you like your neighbor =D he cuold like u secretly OR he could be trying to avoid u because he might know u lik ehim.. DUN DUN DUN

TOPIC MOVED TO RELATIONSHIPS

he was busy and had to go? thazzit? no details on wut?? sounds like he knoowssss . _ .

yea i agree with what christine said, never take the chance to regret a lifetime..
no.. um... never give yourself a chance to regret....

garrgh!! what IS that saying!?!?

be his bestest female friend firs..n DEN make ur move..it takes a litto time..maybe he knoes u lyke him, maybe he dun..it dun matter..n if he dun lyke u den he not worth it..ok?

i hoped i helped sum..

there is a quote:

"20 years from now you will be more upset at the things you didnt do than the things you did do"

I agree..I think he knows.... obviously. But a life is not worth living unless you take a chance. Who knows...might make the difference between a happy ending and a sad ending.

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in that case i guess i'll try to talk to him..

my guess is that he mightve lied to her saying that he dun like younger girls because mayb he didnt really like ur friend and had to make an excuse, but thats just my guess, so i say, u should tell him

hehe...one question. How about if that guy is a whole 3 years older than u?????????

what do you mean?

y dont u just tell him? lols u gotta get it over with... or ur gonna be lost and stuff good luck!

dont tell him yet... get to know him better than confront.

Keep your window open and your blinds/curtains drawn.
And uhmm.. Keep your top off while you're in your room.

That should get his attention.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

Lol, just go tell him. On email/phone/letter/from a friend, just tell him how you feel.

1 year is not a lot.

A USED-TO-BE friend of mine is two years older than me. I used to like/love him a lot and we were bestfriends. But things changed, and I think that he's not making a move cause he thinks 2 years is a lot.

What a loser, he doesn't know what his missing. Lol anyway, just tell him before it's too late!

-hEaRt <3

=P Remember, open shower curtains.

Good idea Jose.

Hmm..I think you should just tell him, and then you'll find out if he'll give you a shot or not. If he says no, there's plenty of other fish in the sea.

Pft, who wants to date fish?

nvm.....Just Tell him!!!!! He is ONLY one year older that you. Its not like he is 3 YEARS OLDER THAN YOU. heehee.....yah...just tell him..

jus make a move and if he turns u down then get ovr him...

its alrite, try againnn!!

well 1 age different doesnt usually matter,but if ur younger than the person,you would probally have to be good lookin for him not to care about the age difference o_O

I think he just told your friend that because he didn't want to offend her on other subjects.

Try to be friends first. If you already are, then wait a bit of a while before asking him out.

like other ppo said, he might have told your friend that he won't go out with younger girls because he didn't want her to feel bad. i don't think that a 1yr. age difference is bad. just be friends with him first, and who knows? maybe you could change his mind.

aww... hey girlie, i went out with a guy exactly 1 year younger than me... he was in the 6th grade and i was in the 7th.. his friends laughed at me and talked crap about me just cuz of that stupid 6th graders... (the ones who did that)

anyways lol... age doesnt matter (at least i dont think so).. i would go for it.. i had a big crush on my neighbor for yearssss and he found out lol.. he didnt talk to me bout it..

hmm if i was in ur age yea i wud go for it and tell him the truth. he'll miss out if he backs away

i say keep it secret but im not the type that would say 'i like you' to any guy i like