Hey im starting high school this yr and i love all my friends soo much but there all really diffrent than me and i dont want to leave them behinde bc i am not like that but i do want friends that wont be friends with them like have my own group that IS like ME that sounds kinda mean but everytime i get a new friend everyone is friends with her in my group and id jsut like to change that how would i like not be mean to my friends and start hanging out with other people??? plz help!!!! thanks soo much

ur starting high school huh?

sorry but I bet ur gonna lose most of ur friends and make new ones... it happens.

wow.. i cudnt understand any of the stuff u were saying but im gona take a guess on this and try to give u advice

[levy is right.. ur gona lose some friends and make some friends.. some if not all]

well, who said you could only have friends in that group? dont tell them anything, just go off and make friends.. i know that sounded sorta bad, but im sure they also have friends out of your group so theres no reason for you to not do the same.

thts tru but the friend u are real close with and stuff, im sure u will keep them and make new friends too (thts wht happened to me)

yeah i typed that because i know most of my friends lost their friends...

HS is different than MS. everything changes..

true
some change and its pretty sad
im sure you'll stay keep in touch with your close friends though

Unfortunately, I moved a month before I started high school, so I was forced to start from scratch, but I still keep in touch with my old friends from middle school...

it'll happen naturally.. dont worry u'll meet ppl in school and ur friends wont even knoe them sometimes lols depends cuz the school is big and its not hard to meet ppl

ummm...well firstly, you might wanna add a few commas and periods...x_X I had trouble reading/comprehending thatt...

ANYWAY...ummm...taking a guess on what you were saying...I think that if you and your friends right now are so different...things might just not work out. I mean...it really depends on whether or not you actually like them...if you really don't...then you could just casually drift...a...wayyy...lol!!

But if you really love them and cherish your friendship, then you should stay friends with them, as well as find new friends. It's normal to be in different groups...for me, anyway, lol! I have my regular friends that I hang out with at school, and I also have a so-called *asian group*, with most of them not from the same school that I go to, but hang out at those weird Chinese parties and stuff...

well heres my little friend high school story.

i had 2 vey close friends n we were all close with each other blah blah. one day one turns into a realy phsyco bitch. big argument that goes on for about half a year. in the end we make peace n she finds her own bitchy friends. but we are mutual friends wich is good. the person who we were close friends with i am still xtremly close and we each have other friends who we would hang out with jsut not "all together"

bottom line. you will lose some friends but you will also gain.

making new friends is always nice?

I guess it's okay to meet new people. Things like that usually happen.. But you know, don't meet the wrong person and go back to your old friends when that new person ditches you or whatever.. I doubt they would accept you back in their group again.. =p

I would do almost anything to go to the same high school as at least ONE of my friends.. I'll be going to a new high school where I won't know ANYBODY (accept for my brother) and yeah. It's gonna be hard.

yea haha i know exactly what you`re trying to say ... but it`s kinda hard to be friends with some people without them becoming friends with your old friends ... haha does that make sense ? cuz eventually your old friends will ask you like "who are those ppl you were talking to?" and they might start talking ... and yea you get my point ... but who knows ... your old friends might become friends with another group of ppl so you`ll be able to have your own separate group too =]*

wow that was a very long run on sentence..
anyway, it shouldn't be that hard. You can make new friends and also stay friends with your old friends.

go with the flow...what happens, happens

ur ditchin ur friends just cuz ur going to highschool, wut are ur expectations? lol.

I'm going to start high school too. But I'm glad that the people I don't know, let alone LIKE are going to another one while most of the ones I am fond with are with me. Although I will miss some who are going to another school, but eh, just deal with it....I hope to make new friends. But I would still like to keep the ones I have now.

Oh yeah, I kinda had a hard time following cause of your run-on sentence. ^^;

yup.. i so agree with that.. im going into my junior year now, and you have no idea how many friends i've lost touch with and how many new friends i've made...

people change.. you can't do anything about that...

are your other friends just not as cool? that seems to be what im getting from that. well, dont ditchem for stupid superficial reasons. people hate bitchiness more than unpopularity.

WELL when i started highschool i did lose some friends but since then i have realized that they weren't good friends in the beginning, but i still have a best friend since 2nd grade, so the good friendships still remain.

now i know who my real friends are
<3 dani

yeah, in high school- you will get new friends and might lose the ones you have. when i went into high school- i lost all my middle school friends in a year (well, also because we went to different high schools), but i also made new ones.

use them, lose them, forget them, move on, repeat.

I'm starting highschool too, and I agree with what the others are saying. Besides, you'll make plenty of new friends that you're old friends will probably just be accquaintances with. Just go with the flow and take things as they come.

Sorry but life is like that. U make friends, u loose friends. But i think HS friends are the best out ur whole life. U got through the same things to accomplish skool, boys, life, ect...

Well highschool is kinda weird at first, yes u do lose some friends, u do make some new ones,and u will find a group u want to be in, just dont forsake the ones u can always turn to cuz if u do, who will u turn to? whoa that hurt my brain! lol anyways dont stress about highschool, its just another year of education

wow. complicated so unding. im going into hs too so i have noidea ><

Dont think about it... Just let everything ride out and see where you stand in your freindships....In the end, it seems that nothing really changed (unless you think about it)... I had to start from scratch cuz i started at a school that i wasnt supposed to go to... oh well!! hope it goes well!!

yea friends come and go. if they were real friends, they will stay.

You can make new friends, and still keep the old ones. Sounds corny, but it's true.

But... eh. I heard that High School can break some friendships apart. Just try to stay close with your old friends but don't like ditch them to be with your new ones.

[COLOR=blue][FONT=Arial]i had the exact same problem! meeh and mai friendz were complete opposites. but wat happened waz i moved skuz and i made a whole other group of friendz. however wen i see sum of mai other friendz we do say "hi" and sumtymes we cruise. maybe wat yooh need to do iz make a new group of friendz....that are more lyk yooh! and thatz probably going to happen anywayz....becuz ur going into highschool! therez a whole bunch of new experiences....so jus do watever will make yooh happie!

i don't really get what you said...

but you should never ditch your friends for other people. NEVER.

well i noe how u feel my dads in the military and my new hs starts in a couple weeks and i dun no ANYBODY! but in my other hs's i made friends and lost em (not to movin) its just that people change hs can make u or break u the more people u noe the better u are but nvr forget who u started out wit cuz they may me the most when u have nobody to fall back on