sometimes i feel like i don't belong anywhere....but then i look around me and see the people that truely care for me. but i end up pushing them away from me and making them feel bad and making me feel even worse than i was....it's so hard to live a life where u can't have the one thing that u absolutely want again, more than anything....and that is to have that special someone in your life once more

but hey if anyone wants to chat with me go right ahead and i will get right back to u!!!! lol

Aww, don't fret so much. At one time or another, everyone feels the same way, usually in their teens. They don't quite know what their "role" in life is, so they try many things to try to fit in with everyone else, when in fact, those people are also lost and in need of guidance. No matter how needy you feel, someone out there is feeling worse, and they need your help. So be strong, try to think of your happy life instead of dwelling on the bad things. It's bad enough that people are murdering and raping other human beings, and we don't need any more sadness in our lives.

Sometimes, it's okay to want to have your own private time. When someone invades your space, try to think of it as that person being concerned and only wanting to solve your problems. what if you tried to help someone, but they only pushed you away or ignored you? Wouldn't you feel bad? So, whenever you're feeling under the weather, think of the world in another perspective. I know it's hard to think of other things when you’re pre-occupied with problems in your life, but if everyone went around crying over spilt milk, nothing would have ever gotten done. Don't feel so bad when you hurt other people. They'll eventually forgive you, or get over it. We tend to think the worst of ourselves as much as possible. Trust me, no one really dwells on these things if they want to get through life.

If you're talking about love, love is quite overrated. Even though it's absolutely wonderful to have someone who will always be there for you, they will not always be there for you, no matter how much they want to. Everyone has problems and finding a boyfriend/girlfriend may only complicate that. I have this crush on a guy right now, but I'm trying to sustain my feelings, even though it is nearly impossible. When you love someone, you can't stop thinking about them, no matter how hard you try. But, this feeling may pass quickly and you'll think to yourself "Why did I ever have those feelings towards XXX?" It's not always worth it to spend your life searching for something that may never come. Just take life as it comes, and hope for the best. That's all you can do.


Wow, I wrote like a whole essay here. All I really wanted to say was "welcome" and we try to help with your problems, whether it may xanga-related or even on anything else you can think of.

hey chicky whats goin on

Hey,
Welcome to the site. Like GinaDaQueen said, we all feel the same way sometime or another - your not so alone! So dig out of your hole - there's a whole world to conquer, a whole life to live, and a whole Xanga community to befriend.

blah.....love...

i dunno... i really liked this girl, and we went out and all....then... -__- iono she broke up with me after a while... >___> couldnt get over it...its been a while now...i thought she was my "special someone"... >_>

sometimes i ask..am i in love? or stupidity...

yeah, when people try to care for me, i push them away....then i jst hurt them... >________> not used to being cared for..

Wow, all this time I thought you were a girl...

OMFG!!!!!!!!!

krn i hate you!!!


how dare you!??!?


well, your not the first who said that...

you are like number 1561864649616531816 that thought i was a girl-__- if i said i was a boy, they say "yeah, right. if your a guy your gay."

;__;

Cool cool, a poll.

Ahaha, this gender confusion is actually pretty funny. krnxswat thought that I was a guy... >__>

And Podomaht, you're not gay, right? Haha just kidding! Couldn't resist.

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Yah... it is hard to actually belong somewhere but keep you hopes up and be optimistic.

haha poor podomaht. I think its because of your adorable avatar that ppl are mistaking you for a girl. I think I thought that too for a while...

i thot krnxswat was a gurl at first... it's ok. i realized he was a GUY like the first day after i read some post tho. i thot like the pix was his (or i thot her..) bf. -_- im sorry!! haha i finally admit to my confusion...

LMAO!!